Yintoni umntwana okufanele akwazi ukuyenza kwiinyanga ezi-5

Ekugqibeleni, iinyanga ezintlanu zobomi obutsha emva komda wokuqala weminyaka emibini. Ziziphi iinguqu ezenzeke kumntwana kulezi zinyanga ezi-5? Ngoku wakho umncinci akayena ongenakukunceda njengoko wazalwa. Ukujonga okubonakalayo, ukuqaphela abantu abasondelene naye, iinzame zokuqala zokuya kwiimidlalo ezizithandayo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuyenza kwiinyanga ezi-5 kukuthetha into ekhumbuza igama lokuqala kunye nelona likhulu-"unina". Inokwenzeka ukuba, uya kuthiwa xa efuna, ukuba bayamnaka, bakhononde, bancede uncedo. Nangona kunjalo, ugxininiso kumhlobo osithandayo kunye osondeleyo, unina, wenza ukuba leli gama litsho ngokucacileyo.

Usana luqala ukuxubha kwiinyanga ezi-5, ukuzama ukubiza amagama alula amagama athi "ba", "ma", "ewe", "pa". Ngentliziyo enhle, ngelixesha lokuvuselela, uyamkholisa oogogo bakhe abakhulu, oogogo, oomama, ootata kunye no-grandfathers, elowo unethemba lokuba la mazwi amancinci athetha kuye.

Umntwana onomdla uxhulumana nabantu abadala ngeli xesha, ngaphandle kwesizathu esona sikhangele ukuba sibone i-poteshki ngendlela yeengxoxo, imibuzo kunye nezimpendulo. Ukuba udlala rhoqo kunye naye, ngokukhawuleza umntwana uya kuqala ukuzama ukuvakala izandi, njengokungathi ukuphendula imibuzo kubo.

Oko umntwana okumele akwazi ukukwenza kwiinyanga ezi-5 yinto yokuqala yokuqonda abantu nokuzihlula kwabanye. Abantu abangabonakaliyo bangela ukukrokra, kwaye ukuba, nangaphezulu, umntu ongaqhelekanga uya kumntwana, xa kungekho mama osondeleyo, kunokubangela iziqu ezinzima.

Ukuqhelana nabantu abatsha kufuneka kube ngokuthe ngcembe, engaqhelekanga kumntu osana, nokuba kungakanani ukuba kubonakale kunyoko kunina, ukuba athathe umntwana kwizandla zakhe, ade adlulise umkhosi wokwazana naye: uyamthinta, ukhangele ngeenxa zonke, uyaqinisekisa ukuba umfokazi akahlali engozini.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, inkunzi eneminyaka ezintlanu ubudala inxaxheba ngokuzikhethela ukwahlula ihlabathi "kwiyakhe" kunye "nelinye". Kwaye ngoku, abazali kufuneka balandele ngokukhawuleza indlela abasabela ngayo kunye nokubonakaliswa komdla womntwana, bemxelela into entsha okanye umntu, njengoko kuthiwa. Ingane sele ifunde ukutsala ingqalelo. Ukongezelela ekulileni, unako ukukhupha abantu abadala xa eqala ukuzibamba izandla, "hambani" kwaye nimomotheka. Ukuhleka komntu othandekayo kunokushukumisa ukusabela kumntwana.

Kwimigangatho ebalulekileyo ebaluleke ukuba umntwana akwazi ukwenza ezinyangeni ezi-5, umntu makangacaphele ubuchule bokulawula ukuqonda kwezandla, phambi kokubheka.

Ingane isetyenziselwa ukuzimela - isele ikwazi ukuhlala ithola umdlalo othakazelisayo, ukuhlola, ukuyikima, ukuyifunda ngokuthintela.

Into ebaluleke ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuyenza kwiinyanga ezi-5 kukukwabiwa kwezinto. Uyakuthanda ukubamba yonke into, ufike kuye, uyibeke emlonyeni wakhe, ugijime, uphonsa yonke into eseduze, ebangela umdla. Inomdla okhethekileyo kuye yizinwele zomntu othandekayo, uyazibamba, uzikhuphe emlonyeni wakhe, uqala ukugubha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ukufumana loo nkqubo inomdla.

Kule minyaka, ukuzibandakanya nezifundo ezintsha zenziwa ikakhulu ngomlomo. Ingane ibona into entsha, idonsa izandla kuye, ibambe kwaye izama ukuyifaka emlonyeni wayo ukuluma, ukuyinyana, njl. Kubalulekile ukugcina ingqalelo, ungamvumeli ukuba athathe izinto ezingcolileyo emlonyeni wakhe okanye ezo zingabangela ukulimala.

Akukho mpendulo ecacileyo kwimeko yokuhlala umntwana kule minyaka. Inyaniso kukuba kusekuqaleni ukuhlala, kodwa ezinye iintsana, eziqala kwiinyanga ezi-3-4 ubudala, zama ukuhlala zodwa, zifuna ukuba zinike indawo ebonakalayo, kunye neenyanga ezi-5 ziyakwazi ukuthembela ezandleni zabo, Ukulala ngecala lakhe, kwaye uhlale phantsi. Ukuba uzama ukubeka umntwana, uqala ukuzonda kwaye ucele ukuba umbuyisele kwisikhundla awayekwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimela. Ngoko ke, ezinye iingcali, zibona ekutyeleleni ukutyelela ukuba i-crumb-month-old crumb ngokwakhe iqala ukuhlala phantsi, ibukeke ngokukhawuleza ekujongeni ukuhluma okufanayo kule minyaka.

Izinto ezininzi zokufumanisa zenziwa yintsana ezinyangeni ezi-5. Iimeko ezibalulekileyo umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukuzenza kwiinyanga ezi-5 zi:

- ukubukela imifanekiso;

- ukuhamba nokubamba;

Ukuqonda nokudweba izinto;

- isahlulo sibe "somntu" kunye "nesinye";

- ukuqaphela abantu abangabaziyo;

- Ikhono lokuzibandakanya kumdlalo iminyaka emi-10-10.

Yonke into eyenziwa ngumntwana kwiinyanga ezi-5 iya kufumana ukuphuhliswa kwayo kunye nokuqhubeka kwayo ngeenyanga ezintandathu, ukuvuyisa ngakumbi umama kunye nootata, oogogo nomkhulu: umntwana ukhula! Usana lukhula!