Crazy Uthando okanye ukuziphatha?

Enye ingcamango kungenzeka ukuba silahlekelwe uthando ajike yonke uyijongise ezantsi, ukuba bayazichwayithisa iintliziyo zethu ukubetha ngokukhawuleza. uthando Crazy angenza sokuthimba, umsebenzi imisebenzi emikhulu yobugcisa kunye neengoma banal. Sinako ukuba ndidakumbe, yanto, nokuba enze ulwaphulo-mthetho nobundlobongela, kwaye ngenxa yothando. Xa Amazwi gingci ka Bernard Shaw, ukuba sifuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni na uthando crazy, singakwazi ukufunda kumhlathi umlando lolwaphulo kwiphephandaba.

Crown nxamnye oyintanda; oku kulukhetho!

Ihlabathi nangoku ubhidwe ibali, nto leyo esekelwe uthando crazy ngokwenene. Eli ke ibali uKumkani Great Britain Edward VIII wamthanda nakabini ngumtshato American Wallis Simpson. Xa wagqiba ekubeni atshate uthando lwakhe nxamnye kabukhali ngabameli zeCawa, inkulumbuso yaseBritani, kunye namanye amagosa.

Ekugqibeleni, ngowe-1936, ukumkani asiyeke kwaye bakhetha ukuhlala naloo mfazi, ngokushiya amandla. Emva kokuhlala etroneni esingaphantsi konyaka, wathi: "Andikwazi kuthwala umthwalo kwamandla kunye noxanduva njengoko lokumkani, kuba akazi unelungelo lokushiya ngaphandle uncedo kunye nenkxaso yomfazi ndiyawuthanda." Ke ndatshata ibe waba liTshawe neTshawekazi laseYork bashiya, babehlala uthando kunye nolonwabo de kwasekufeni Edward ngowe-1972. NeTshawekazi laseYork bashiya wasinda kuye iminyaka eli-14.

Ukusuka uthando ungaphulukana intloko yakho, hayi nje kuphela kweli ngokomfanekiso

Omnye weyona mizekelo egqithiseleyo kwenzeka ntoni uthando crazy, ngumzekelo ukuzalana kakumkani eNgilani Henry III kunye Anne Boleyn. UHenry utshate Anna wamphuthuma iminyaka emininzi, uzama ukufumana umtshato nomfazi wakhe wokuqala. Yena kakhulu wafuna oku, kodwa utata akazange avume ukuya mtshato. UHenry kwakunzima ukuba ayeke, ngoko yena waphulukana intloko yakhe, ekufezekiseni iinjongo zayo, nto leyo intloko ephakamileyo ibandla waza umtshato evela Ekaterinoy Aragonskoy. Watshata Anne, yena akhutshwe Catholic Church.

Noko, wavuya? Akunjalo konke! Yena kamva wabulawa uAnna (ngelo xesha wayesele wayemthanda, umkhonzazana wakhe), ndinqumle intloko yakhe ngezityholo zobuxoki. Ngokwenene, uthando Andigezi, nabo kuyo lowo ubomi. Iyagula uyasinyanzela ukuba enze indlela enye okanye omnye, sivakalisa ndiziva ngendlela enye okanye omnye. Sithandane ngokutyhala uxwebhu, kunye nezinye - xa ulwaphulo-mthetho.

Uthando indenza ndilile

Kutheni Ndicinga kwaye sijonge iindlela ukujonga indlela guy on uthando? Xa ukuba nemvakalelo yothando, aninabo ukukhangela into okanye ngabaza kuye. Ukuba nina kubala ziingcathu ulwalamano lwabo, ngoko yintoni isiqinisekiso sokuba lowo ayifumanekanga kunye neqabane. Nangona oko ibalwa yonke, ngomso unokuzisa mhlawumbi umdlalo elingcono okanye ngokwenene xa kuya kuba nzima ukumelana nayo kwaye ucwangcise yonke into kusengaphambili.

Musa ukulinga ukudalelwa, nibe nokusulungeka, ngoko musa Kufuneka sijonge phandle ukuba batshekishe indlela guy uthando. Akazange ndiphoswe, yaye xa ufunda. Lenza yabetha intliziyo ngokukhawuleza ebusika ukubona yonke imibala yomnyama. Musa ukuqala ulwalamano lwakhe inkohliso nokubalwa ezibandayo, isiphelo nga uzilungisele isimanga apho kunzima ukuthelekelela, yaye ngakumbi ke ukuba ukubala oko. Mamela intliziyo yakho, iya ukudanisa nawe.

Yenza abahlobo kunye nothando, nokuhlonipha iqabane, okanye njengoko siza

Ukuba uyazibuza, umahluko phakathi uthando ubuhlobo, ngoko mhlawumbi uselula kakhulu, okanye andazi imvakalelo omlingo lothando. Friendship - ukuba unxulumano cwaka agudileyo, apho kungekho ndawo inkohlakalo okanye nokuzingca. Ukuba ubuhlobo kwenza Unekhwele, nomsindo okanye siziphathe kakubi ukuya kwenye, kukho isizathu esinzulu ucinge ukuba akukho yokuzingca kakhulu iimvakalelo zakho. Ukuba ubuhlobo ikwenza uzive kabukhali ngolu hlobo, kuya kwenzeka ntoni kwimeko uthando? Akavumanga uthando lwakho omnye komnye kwiteksti kwi umlando amatyala olwaphulo-mthetho?