Indlela yokufunda ukucinga kakuhle kwaye utshintshe ubomi bakho?

Kakade akakho umntu ochasayo ukuba iingcamango zethu, kunye namazwi angaphezulu, zinamandla okudala kwaye ziyakwazi ukwenza izinto. Kule nkalo, kuphakama imibuzo: "Indlela yokufunda ukucinga ngokufanelekileyo nokuphelisa ukwesaba, ukwesaba kunye nokudumala?", "Ngaba ukucinga okulungileyo kukusindisa kuzo zonke izifo?"
Okokuqala, ubomi basemhlabeni akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kweziganeko ezifana nentlungu, ukugula kunye nokufa. Oko kukuthi, ukucinga okulungileyo akuyi kwenza wena kunye nabathandekayo bakho bangafi. Ngethuba elifanayo, amandla amaninzi ukuguqula i-snags encinci kwiintaba ezinkulu, ezingenakunqandwa, zibaluleke kakhulu ubomi babo. Ngaloo ndlela, iingcamango ezintle zemihla ngemihla azinakuphelisa iingxaki kuzo zonke, kodwa ziya kubangela ukuba banqobe lula, bangenabuhlungu kwaye bacebisa. Kwaye iingcali zefilosofi zaseTshayina zincetyiswa xa kwenzeka ubunzima ukuphendula umbuzo othi "yintoni na," kungekhona "into".

Kancinci malunga nobugcisa

Kunokuba kunzima ukulahla ukuhamba kwemvakalelo emibi, iimvakalelo kunye nesimo sengqondo. Indlela yodwa ukubuyisela endaweni yabo. Iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nokufunda ukucinga kakuhle.

• Abaqalayo-kubaqalayo, abanomdla kunzima ukutshintshe ukusuka kumbi, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ibinzana elithi "Ndilungile, ndilungile" ayivunyelwe ukuba imfundo okanye ukuqonda. Khangela konke onakho, ngamehlo alabo abathintela izibonelelo ezinjalo. Ndiyabulela uSomandla ngokokubona nokuva, uhamba ngeenyawo zakho, unomncinci, kodwa indlu yakho, umsebenzi, izalamane, abantwana kunye nokunye. Bathi umntu uyaxabisa into kuphela xa elahlekile. Khawucinge ukuba konke oku kulahleka. Zama ukuzonwabisa yonke imihla yobomi, ukuthetha kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo.
• Isinyathelo sesibini esibalulekileyo kwisayensi ebizwa ngokuthi "indlela yokucinga ngokuthe tye" kukufunda ukudibanisa nawuphi na uhlobo lomsebenzi okanye nje usuku oluzayo. Khawucinge ngendoda yokuhamba ngentambo, ngaphambi kokuba enze umsebenzi, uyaziphinda: "Ndiya kuphinda ndiwe phantsi ndiphule." Ngaba uya kukwazi ukwenza kakuhle? Ngako oko, izibikezelo ezimbi azikhunjulwa, ukwesaba kususwe. Ukuqiqa ngeemeko ngokucokisekileyo, sigxininisa ukulungiselela kwethu, injongo, ukufumaneka kweempawu eziyimfuneko ekuzalisekeni kwezicwangciso zethu, kwaye sigqiba ekubeni "kuya kuphumelela"! Yenze ngokukhawuleza, oku akuthethi ukuba kuza kuphumelela. Ukuba awuzange uhambe ngelogi, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ufuna ukuhamba phantsi kwedome kwindlela enye yokucinga okulungileyo, akukho nto iya kuza kuyo. Oku kuyinto engafanelekanga, eyokuphela kakubi kakhulu. Ngako oko, kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokufunda ukucinga ngokuthe tye, kodwa nangona ungayi kulahlekelwa yinto enobungqiqo.
• Kubalulekile ukufumana izakhono ukufumana ithemba kubantu nakwiimeko. Ngaba udibene nomntu ongekho nto? Khangela kuyo ukusuka ngaphesheya. Uvulekile kwaye unobungane, unontlalontle, ufuna ukuba khona kwakho. Gxotha ubandlululo, kuba abakuvumeli ukuba ubone ukunyaniseka kwaye uhlalutye kakuhle, ngoko ke, ukudukisa nokukhusela ubomi.
• Abanye oogqirha beengqondo bacebisa ukuba ubhale ezinye izinto eziqinisekileyo zokuphila, eziqinisekisiweyo zokuphila apho ziya kuba sezintweni zakho kwimeko enzima. Baya kunceda ukuqondisa ingcamango ngendlela efanelekileyo, ukuphepha ukudideka nokudandatheka.

Ngoko, amanyathelo okuqala kwisayensi phantsi kwegama "indlela yokufunda ukucinga ngokuqinisekileyo" yenziwe. Kwixesha elizayo, yonke into incike ekubeni unomntu onoyolo ?