"Gcina ulwimi lwakho emva kwamazinyo akho" (ibinzana): intsingiselo kunye nokusetyenziswa

Masiqale ukusuka kude. Ngoku, bambalwa banokuqiniseka ukuba ukuthula kuyigolide. Ngoku abaninzi abantu bathi, bathi, bathi. Okusondeleyo ngamawaka ngamazwi, apho kungekho nto ithetha khona. Kulabo bavakalelwa kukuba, ngokunjalo nakumntu wonke, namhlanje siya kuhlalutya ibinzana elithi "gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe" (ibinzana). Injongo yalo iya kuqwalaselwa kwimimiselo esondeleyo nganye.

Umvelaphi

Kucacile ukuba, imvelaphi yegama elithi phraseology, eyasichukumisa ingqalelo namhlanje, isuku. (Oko kwenzeka) kusekelwe ekuqwalaselweni. Xa umntu engathuli, ulwimi lwakhe luhleli ngasese emva kwamazinyo, umhlathi ongaphantsi awuhambanga, kwaye yonke into ihlelekile.

Kukho inkcazo elula yeelwimi ye-genesis yegama elithi "gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe": i-phraseology, intsingiselo echaza ngayo ngeenzuzo zokuthulisa kwezinye iimeko. Sithuthela kwimibandela yokusetyenziswa. Baya kusinceda siqonde intsingiselo yebakala elizinzileyo ngokupheleleyo.

Uviwo

Ewe, abaninzi banokuthanda okuchaseneyo, kodwa ukuhlolwa kwesikolo okanye esikolweni akuyona indawo apho ungagcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe.

Ibali elidumileyo. Umfundi akwazi ukuphendula umbuzo, kwaye uyathula. Kukho uluvo oluqhelekileyo: kwimeko enjalo engathandekiyo kufuneka utsho nantoni na, into ephambili ayiyi kuthula. Enyanisweni, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukucinga ngethuba elithile, uze ulinganise into oyithethayo. Kwaye ukuba ungenanto yokuthetha, kufuneka utsho into okhumbulayo kakuhle, ngethemba lokuba umhloli uyazisola. Oku akusona sizathu esilungileyo , kodwa isiphelo silungisa iindlela.

Ukuba uthe cwaka ngetyala, ngoko utitshala unokuthi: "Ewe, mfana, gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe (intsingiselo yento esele siyicingisise ngokufanelekileyo) - oku akusiyo umgaqo-nkqubo ongcono." Emva koko utitshala uya kukhupha umfundi, okanye anike incwadi yokurekhoda yomfundi aze amxelele ukuba abuye aqeshwe kwakhona ngosuku olukhethiweyo.

Ukuxabana komtshato

Wonke umntu onayo ibini uyayazi isimo se-volcano ngaphakathi, xa ufuna ukutshitshisa ngokuchanekileyo kunye ne-pobolnee, zibonakalise ukuphakama kwakho, udle othandekayo, ngubani na lo mzuzwana otshaba kunye notshaba.

Kule meko ukuba inkulumo ethi "gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe" (i-phraseology) idlalwa rhoqo. Injongo yalo kule ngxaki isitsho ukuba ubuchule bokuthi ungathethi into ngexesha libugcisa obukhulu. Akungabazeki ukuba sele igcinwe ubudlelwane obuninzi phakathi kwabantu (ubuhlobo besikhathi eside kunye nenani elikhulu lomtshato).

Nantsi into ebaluleke kakhulu kukugcina amagama angamangala (njengomthetho, abangenabulungisa) kunye nabo kwaye balinde ukukhupha ngaphandle kwentshukumo nenzondo. Wonke umntu uyazi, ziyimzuzwana. Sithemba ukuba umfundi ucacile indlela entle ngayo inkulumo ethi "gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe" (ibinzana). Injongo yalo ayinzima ukuyiqonda.

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Kwakukho isikhangiso se-chewing gum eyaziwayo, kwaye apha ikhankanywe ibinzana elithi: "Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuhlafuna kunokuthetha." Eyona nto ibonakalayo yile mzekelo kukuba ngokomzimba i-aphorism iyachasene ne-phraseology enombuzo. Olu phuhliso luqinisekisa ukuba umgcini-mthengisi akayi kuphazamisa umhlathi wakhe ophantsi, kunye nokukhangisa-ngokuchaseneyo. Kodwa umphumo ubalulekile - ukuthula. Kwimeko ethile, umlomo uhlala kunye nenqubo yokuhlafuna, kwaye kwenye, loo mntu unobulumko ngokungavuli umlomo wakhe.

Kodwa masishiye. Kukho umzekelo wendabuko. Ukuba umntu ngokukhawuleza unombuzo malunga nokuba umzekeliso "ugcine umlomo wakho uvaliwe", umzekeliso onokuthi uthathe indawo, siyaphendula: "ukuthulisa igolide" kuyafaneleka kule njongo.

I-synonym phantsi kwe-confluence ethile yeemeko ingaba phantse nayiphi na ibinzana elibiza umntu ukuba athule. Ngokomzekelo, "musa ukuthulila," "musa ukusabalalisa," "ufe ngokukrakra," "khula ehholo."

Ekugqibeleni, ngokufanayo, umntu kufuneka aqonde indlela uBulat Okudzhava ahlabelela ngayo: "Ngangakanani, cingela, ububele bucelile." Yaye lo bubulumko obalulekileyo bombhalo othi "gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe." Ngoxolo, bayazisola ngaphantsi kwegama elithethiweyo. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ulungele ukuthulisa kuphela xa umntu engathuli, kwaye emehlweni akhe angabikho ukungabi nabulungisa.