Iinketho ze ngeeholide zehlobo: into omawuyenze kwi teen ehlotyeni

Kuba inkoliso yethu ehlotyeni ixesha ozithandayo enyakeni xa ungakhohlwa okwethutyana malunga iingxaki onwabele fun. Kungokwemvelo ukuba uninzi eli thuba, abafundi ninoyolo, ngenxa yokuba uyakwazi ukuthatha ikhefu ukufunda kwakunye nabakonwabelayo ukuchitha nabahlobo ngaphandle kweendonga zesikolo.

Yoliswa kulo mba ngokwenene kakhulu, yaye eli xesha, elinde phambili olukhulu. Kodwa rhoqo nabazali, nanku umbuzo, yintoni ukuba benze intwazana ehlotyeni. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ingxaki inkulu ngenene, ngenxa yokuba ngamnye kubo ufuna ukukhusela abantwana beziphethe kakubi, nto leyo nje usenokudibana i daze ngeli xesha. Umbuzo leswi ukwenza elivisayo ehlotyeni, siyasebenza kwakhona ngenxa yokuba abazali bafuna ukunika umntwana luphumlo elungileyo ngokwenene. Uyavuma ukuba asizizo zonke kuzingela lonke ixesha eshushu ukuba ahlale ekhaya, ubukele umabonwakude ukudlala imidlalo yekhompyutha. Yinto uyadika, kodwa yingozi kwimpilo, ngoko wasiyaleza ukuba siqwalasele ezimbalwa iinketho kwi ntoni ehlotyeni elivisayo.

Okokuqala, siphawula ukuba ikhefu lo mntwana kufuneka okulungileyo nje kuphela, kodwa iluncedo ngayo nayiphi na indlela. nangoko Abanye abazali bathathe inyathelo ngokwabo, ezama ukuba ukunyanzelisa iimbono zabo kulo lonke, kodwa oku akukho echanekileyo. Bacinge mhlawumbi umntwana wakho wayefuna into ngethuba lonyaka wesikolo, into ndiphuphile. Kanye kule kwaye kufuneka uqale ukucinga umbuzo wokuba yintoni ukwenza intwazana ehlotyeni. Vumela ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwinkqubo yesicwangciso, musa ukumenza nabantwana abahlanu. Mhlawumbi ke umfana wakho uya kuba nako ukuzihlela aphumle ezilungileyo wenze kube ngcono kakhulu kunawe.

Ngoko ke, sinikela ukuhlala nomntwana wakho kwitafile kwaye uqala bexoxa ngemiba ebalulekileyo kakhulu kwaye ngokwemixholo leeholide zasehlotyeni. Emva koko, siza kunika isibini iingcebiso, nto leyo ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukunceda wenze isigqibo.

- Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - oko impilo yomntwana. Kungenxa yoko le nto yokuqala iya kuba ikhefu-ntle. Xoxa kunye nomntwana wakho, ukuba ufuna ukuya kwinkampu yabantwana okanye kunxweme lolwandle. Le ndlela yokugqibela, kakade, yeyona eninzi (kwaye ngoko ke kumntu wonke), kodwa ukunika daze yeholide elungileyo ngokwenene yaye isempilweni.

- Enye Ukhetho zemidlalo. Ekubeni namhlanje zindala kakhulu ukuba enze nantoni na, urhulumente iye yaba nkulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba kunika neziphumo ukwakhiwa kweenkampu ezemidlalo kunye sites eminqubeni.

- Sicinga ukuba benze ntoni elivisayo ehlotyeni, musa ukulibala makasindulule sikhululekile ngenxa ukubhukuda echibini okanye echibini, wayilala elunxwemeni. Ukuqubha kuba nempembelelo entle emzimbeni.

Kakade ke, le ndlela ifanelekileyo ukufumana ukuphumla kunye oyithandayo izinto. Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho efuna ukwenza into entsha. Umzekelo, yiya ikhosi ukuthunga okanye wenze computer. Kid yakho kwakunomdla ngolona hlobo ukuba aphumle, umthume eNgilani. Kuya Apho kufuneka ixesha elungileyo, kwaye ukufunda ulwimi olutsha.