Imihlola ekhaya. Psychology inkohliso.

Ubugqwirha, ukuvumisa, umlingo - isenzo apho umntu ezama ukulawula iziganeko kunye nabanye abantu. Namhlanje, malunga nempembelelo angaqondakali bayahlelwa amanani kunye langa, imibala, iphunga nemisindo yentetho kwinqanaba mpikiswano zenzululwazi. Nam andiyi kuphinda ayiphikisani nobukho yempembelelo magic. Ngaphezu koko, kweli nqaku uza kufumana iresiphi leyo uyakwazi ukuchitha kukwenze guy ekhaya. Kodwa kuqala, ndiza kuzama ukuba achazele abafundi bakho ukuba kutheni ndiyigqala ekhayeni okanye ngoncedo eyiyo abaxeli-thamsanqa - mnandi eziyingozi kunye nokuba yingozi.

Lo mbuzo uza kuba malunga nesono izenzo zobugqi. UThixo ukuligweba bonke abo bathanda amanqaku waphazamiseka iintloko zabantu. Sithetha nje abantu ngevangeli izinto, ngemihla.

Amaninzi abantu babhenela ngomlingo kuzo umnqweno impindezelo imvakalelo ebacekisile. Nayiphi uthando akazange abe nothando ment into, kodwa umnqweno ukufumana ulwaneliseko kufuneka ibe namandla kakhulu. Vuma, akukho nomnqweno ukubangela umntu impendulo intlungu prodelyvat amasiko ende kunye nezintsonkothileyo privorotov akakho. Andazi nokuba kuyimfuneko ukuba achaze indlela umonakalo umzimba umphefumlo ukuthambekela iyingozi. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ukongeza izenzo isiko, abantu baya kuthabatha ezinye iinzame ukuphucula ubudlelwane kunye umbandela 'kunokutshiseka ". Kusenokuba kanye ukuba uza kuphumelela. Kodwa ukuba sisiseko ubuhlobo ngeke uthando, ukuziphindezela, akukho nto intle ayiyi kuphela. Kwimeko ilungileyo, isibini owahlula iintshaba, kwi okubi - kuya kuqhubeka khona esihogweni emhlabeni, owadala ngokwabo.

Sisoloko sisiva ukuba le ndiyigqala azisebenzi ekhaya. Oku kuyinyaniso kwi-100% lingakhululwanga ngokuba akuyi kuba nako ukuthwala wesithethe ngokwabo ngaphandle. Akukho nzima kangaka ukwenza kanye oko kuyimfuneko. Kodwa ingongoma apha ayikho ngokulandelelana yezenzo kuyimfuneko. abaqhuba nje kakhulu nezazi - iisayikholojisti emikhulu kunye nomsebenzi wabo nge iklayenti kufana iingcebiso zeengcali kwimiba usapho. Ngelishwa, musa ukuza ukuba sithembele ekungeneni nasekuphumeni uncedo lobungcali kwaye uninzi uhlawule umbali wethamsanqa okanye izangoma, uyavuma idinga a ngengqondo. Ukuba inkazana elumkileyo okunene ingcaphephe intsimi yabo, kulula ukufumana indlela eza client. Khawube nomfanekiso-lady leyo kucelwa ukuba babuyele indoda yakhe. Witch ngokuqinisekileyo ukucebisa mfazi ishiywe nje kuphela umxube okanye iyelenqe, kodwa liya kubonelela imiyalelo eneenkcukacha ngendlela ukuziphatha kunye nomyeni wakhe. Kuyinto ezisitheleyo amabini amadoda amathathu, uzakwehla ukusuka ngumsindo usapho, iphupha yokubuyela. Ukuba iqabane akukho ungumngcatshi uya kubiza umva, kodwa izakuziphatha ngokungathi kwenzeke nto, ndiyaqonda ukuba isiphumo bali?

Ufuna ukwazi isizathu sokuba buqu ngokuqinileyo bakholelwa ukuba le ndiyigqala akufunekanga eyenziwa kweli khaya? Makhe zama ukuba nomfanekiso enye imeko apho abantu wabhenela magic rite - imvakalelo engamthandi. Akukho mntu uthi nesibakala sokuba uthando ezingabuyekezekiyo isoloko buhlungu. A ndoda ngokoqobo indawo asibikho ungakufumani, bekholelwa ukuba umphefumlo wakhe lee ngaphandle yinto kunokutshiseka. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuthi ukuba izigqibo ezenziwe ngaloo, makayixhome ngokuzolileyo, akuyonyaniso imeko kakhulu eyaneleyo? Njengoko usazi, uthando angabi nako beveza ukuhlola imeko. Ubona into kuphela lalingazi ekukhanyeni ilungileyo, emqinisekisa bona nabanye ukuba kubhetele nabani yaye akasoze.

Nabani judgmatic uyaqonda ukuba ubuhlobo alizange lisebenze, kungcono ukulibala nje yonke into kwaye uqale ubomi obutsha. Kwenzeka ntoni kwabo ngesiquphe zizicheku izama izihlabo ekhayeni okanye ngoncedo yincutshe? Man yeyela uhlobo eqhubekayo, ukondla ukuhlupheka ukukhohlisa zabo engeyomfuneko kunye nethemba. Njalo inxeba raskovyrivaya, musa ukubala kwinto ukuba uphilisiwe. Kwaye ukuba ehlaselwe uthando kuya kuba nempembelelo?

Yintoni akazange eze kunye amakhulu eminyaka uthando ngomlingo. Pela kwi ngegazi, kupela omnyama, uthando kupela kwi iinwele zakhe. Ngokuzimeleyo ukwenza izakhi ezahlukeneyo magic bakhetha besini enobulungisa. Andiyi bazame ukukwenza ukuba ukupela iyingozi. Kunjalo, into yokuba uthando kupela nje ayizange yenzeke - nokuba yelungileyo nokuba yembi. Kodwa umqhubi isiko, elo nxeba izifo zengqondo umlinganiswa. Nangona kunjalo, akukho sono, akukho iliso ububi ayikho efanelekileyo. Njengoko bengqondo bathi, imeko yabo simenza kungadodobalisa umnqweno ukubeka nje, hayi izalisekile.

Xa ndiqukumbela, njengoko wakuthethayo, Ndibala le ukusebeza isiko, nto leyo ke ingabuyeli landoda ise ikhefu lokugqibela, Noko ke, abazange umnike ekugqibeleni ulibale. Ukuba nje waba nengxabano nethemba ubudlelwane apho, linda. Kungekudala ozithandayo ubonisa phezu emnyango kunye uxolo.

Chertushki - Bratushka, yima emva umkhonzi kaThixo ... yonke ayekwe ahambe, yonke kubuxhoma kuye. Igama lam ngu ... emva kwakhe ngelithi, ngokuqinileyo ulincamathisele entliziyweni. Ukusuka umkhonzi kaThixo ... ugcine up, okomzuzwana, musa ukumyekela; bonke ngam kukhumbuza. Vumela igama lam nazi, ukhumbule yaye awusoze uyilibale. Amen.
Umbhalo ngaphezu ifoto endiyenzayo qho ngokuhlwa, ukutshona kwelanga, ngexesha veki.