IMizekeliso kuMntombi. Umzekeliso 1: Kutheni Ulwalamano Lwethu Namaxesha Luba Mbi? Umzekeliso 2: Ndimthanda kakhulu, kodwa akayixabanga. Yintoni ayenayo?

Umzekeliso ngowokuqala.

Umntakwabo: - Ugogo, ndixelele, kutheni ulwalamano lwethu, oluhle ekuqaleni, luba lubi nakakhulu kunye nexesha? Emva koko, sithandana.

Umkhulu: - Ntombi, xelela, ukuba awuyihlambululi ekhaya, ngoko kuya kwenzeka ntoni?

Umzukulu: - Uthungelwano luya kubuthela, yonke into iya kulala naphi na indawo ...

Inkulukazi: - Ukuba awuyihlambululi udoti kwisitalato?

Umzukulu: - Drog zonke ziya kuba yilala, udaka kunye nexesha kuya kuba nzima ukudlula.

Ugogo: - Yile ndlela esiyikopisha ngayo ukungcola ngaphakathi. Ulwalamano lwethu nomnye umntu luhambo olujikelezayo. Kwaye ngenxa yesizathu esithile, asisoloko sicinga ukuba le ndlela ihlambuluke kwaye ihlambuluke. Sikopisha amatyala, umsindo, ityala, ukucaphukisa kunye nezinye iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo kwaye zonakalisa le ndlela ukuba ayikwazi ukufumana uthando, uvuyo okanye nantoni na. Khumbula, umzukulu, ukuba ulwalamano oluthandayo, naye, kufuneka lugcinwe, lugwetshwe, luhlambuluke kwaye lucocwe.

Yaye yinto enobungakanani indlela yakho yobudlelwane? Ziziphi iziphazamiso ezivela kwizikhalazo, umsindo, ukucaphukisa, izityholo eziye zaqokelela kuyo? Yinyamekele imvume yayo, yicoce. Lahla ukucaphuka kunye nomsindo. Ndiyazi ukuba oku akulula. Kodwa ukuba ufuna, yonke into ingenziwa. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukhulula izikhalazo nokuxolelwa. Uze wenze umyalelo kwindlela yobudlelwane kungekhona kuphela ngumthandayo, kodwa kunye nabazali bakho, kunye nabantwana bakho nabanye abantu abasondele kuwe.

Umzekeliso ezimbini: Ndimthanda kakhulu, kodwa akayithandi. Ufuna ntoni?

Umzukulu: - Ugogo, saqala ukudibana nomfana kwaye ndifuna ukumkholisa, ndizama ukuqikelela zonke iiminqweno zakhe, ukulungelelanisa naye, ukwenza njengoko akuthandayo, ngokokuba wayenam. Kodwa yena, ngesizathu esithile, ngokuthe gqolo kuye. Kutheni? Ufuna ntoni?

Inkulukazi: - Ntombi, ndixelele, xa ubheka iintaka okanye ezinye izilwanyana, ngubani na oqhathayo? Ubani indalo eyenza imibala emininzi, umsila ococekileyo, iintsiba ezigqithisileyo? Samochkam okanye abesilisa?

Umzukulu: - Amadoda ayabonakala.

Ukhulukazi: - Ulungile. Khangela, njengejuba, ukuphosa umsila walo nokukhupha isifuba sayo, uhamba phambi kwehobe, okanye kufana ne-peacock ikhupha umsila wayo phambi kwe-pava. Ngoko ngubani "onyame" kwaye ngubani "ukhetha"? Amadoda abonisa ukuba amabhinqa, into ehle ngayo, ukuba iyona nto ibhetele.

Abasetyhini, ngokukodwa kwisigaba sokuqala sobudlelwane, baninzi bakholelwa ukuba xa "batyula", "bendisa" phantsi komntu, ngoko ke amacebo afanele avumele ukuba banomdla kwaye abambe indoda, uya kubambelela kuloo nkampu enamathele yenkathalo kunye nokunyamekela, njengentaba ejamu , Kwaye akukho ndawo ingafuneki ukundiza.

Kwaye kukho iphutha elikhulu kakhulu kubo. Inyaniso kukuba unganiki umntu ekuqaleni ukuba abonise uhlobo lwakhe lomntu, ukuba azibonele njengendoda, ukuba nethuba njengepikokisi ukudiliza umsila wakhe okhukhulayo kwaye ubonise phambi kwakho. Kwaye kutheni kufanele akwenze oko, ukuba sele usenzile yonke into yakho ngokwakho, wagqiba ekubeni ulungile kwaye oko akufunayo.

Emva koko ufuna umntu ukuba anike izipho, unike iimpawu zokuqwalasela, ungathathi nto yonke. Cinga ngako, kwaye kutheni kufuneka enze oku, ukuba wamsula ngokukhawuleza imfuno yokukunika le miqondiso yenkxalabo kwaye zonke zigijimele ukuzenza ngokwakho. Unqumle onke amathuba kunye nomnqweno wokuzibonakalisa njengomntu, uthathe kuye into ebaluleke kakhulu, into ehambelana nayo ngendalo.

Nangona kunjalo, oko kusenza sibe lula kakhulu, njengommiselo, akunakunconywa. Ngelishwa, lo mgaqo awukhange ukhanselwe. Yaye ukuba "ekunqobeni" kwakho, ingqalelo kunye nothando lwakho, indoda ayifaki nayiphi na umzamo, ngoko uya kukuxabisa njengento encinci, nangona kukho konke ukuzonwabisa kwakho.

Le mpazamo inobungozi ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni kolwalamano kwaye iyakwazi ukuwela yonke imizamo yakho, bulale zonke izinto ozenzayo. Kwaye le mpazamo yabasetyhini iyenzeka rhoqo kunye nemingeni yokumtyhola loo ndoda isondele kwi-100%.

Qaphela! Andiyitsho ukuba akufanele unyamekele indoda. Kuyimfuneko, kunjalo, kodwa yonke into imele ibe ngokumodareyitha kwaye, okokuqala, iqwalasele iimfuno zabo, iimfuno zabo. Nika indoda ithuba lokubonisa umntu wakhe wesintu, ongokoqobo ngokwemvelo.

Ungatsho ukuba okhethiweyo wakho akanalolo hlobo. Emva koko ucinge ngako, kodwa kutheni ukhethe umntu onjalo? Yaye ngubani "otyhoboza" oku kubalulekile kuyo?

Ungalibali ukuthanda nokuzixabisa, bafazi abathandekayo. Emva koko abantu baya kukuxabisa.