Imincintiswano yomtshato: Vumela iziNdwendwe zingaphuthi!

Ngoku, xa kubhiyozelwa ukubanjwa kwakhona kwabasandul 'ukutshata, baqala ukubonwa ngabantu njengento eyimfuneko, ngokuqhelekileyo abasandul' ukutshata banombuzo obalulekileyo. Ngelishwa, kwiminyaka yakutshanje, bambalwa kwabatshatayo bacinge ngendawo enomdla neyokuqala yeeholide ebalulekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, zonke iindwendwe ziqokelelwa kumntu othile okanye kwikhaya okanye kwindawo eqashiweyo yokulungiselela idili.

Kungenxa yoko, imincintiswano yokuqala kunye nezipho zomtshato kunye nentetho ayifuni. Ukudala ukuvuya kweendwendwe, abatsha abatshatshayo baqeshwe ngumqeqeshi wezobugcisa, olungiselela imibambano yomtshato engatshintshi kwirekhodi yakhe iminyaka eyi-10-15. Ewe, umntu akakwazi ukuthetha ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba imincintiswano enjalo yomtshato ayiyinto engenamsebenzi kunoma ubani. Ngokuphambene noko, amahle amahlaya amadala aqhutywe ngabaphulaphuli ukuba "baphonye." Kodwa isibini esitshatileyo ngexesha lokubhiyozela lomtshato sifuna ukubona into engavamile kwaye ayikhunjulwe ubomi bobomi bonke. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana imincintiswano yomtshato ekhethekileyo kunye nenomdla, ngoko kufuneka uqedele ukufunda le nqaku ukuya ekupheleni.

Okwangoku, kwiindawo ze-intanethi ezahlukeneyo, unokufumana umlinganiselo omkhulu wolwazi oluhlukileyo kwiindlela zothando kunye nezangaphambili zokuqhuba imincintiswano emtshatweni womtshato, kodwa ezininzi zale misebenzi yezokhuphiswano azihlolwanga ngokwenene. Ngaphantsi kwezi zi-3 zinomdla kakhulu, ngombono wam, ukhuphiswano, olunokuthi lwenziwa ngokuzithemba nangona onamava aphezulu.

"Indlela Ndidibana Ngayo Umfazi Wami"

Yonke imincintiswano yomtshato kwisitayela sayo iyahlula kwiintlobo ezi-2 - ukhuphiswano lweendwendwe kunye nemincintiswano yabasanda kutshata. Olu khu phiswano lunomdla kakhulu kubantu abasandul 'ukutshata emitshatweni yomtshato. Ikuvumela ukuba ujabule kuyo yonke imithendeleko yomtshato. Okhethwe ngokukhethekileyo kwi-festivalmaster emthendelekweni ucela enye yeendwendwe ukuba imnike iwatchwatch yayo eyintandokazi, eya kuyidinga ukubonisa ngokucacileyo indlela umyeni wethu ahlala ngayo ngexesha ngaphambi kokudibana nomtshakazi wakhe. Emva koko umgcini-mhlaba uqala ukubeka onke amawashi anikezelwe kuye emgqeni phantsi, kwaye umyeni uvalwe ngasese ngeli xesha. Emva koko, unikezelwa ukuya kwehora, kwaye uhamba phezu kwabo, zama ukungahambi. Ngaphambi kokuqala kokuvavanywa, xa amehlo omyeni wethu engaboshwa, iwashi kufuneka isuswe.

Emva kokuba iwashi isetyenziswe, iindwendwe ziqala ngokukhawuleza ukuba zenze umyeni, apho unokunyathela kunye nokuba yintoni omele akwenze, kwaye unokumemeza aze ahleke ngenxa yokunyuka kwakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kubonakala ngathi uya kuhamba enye yeeyure, kwaye ngoko umyeni uya kuhlala ebhala ngokuhleka aze ahambe ngokukhawuleza, kubangela ukuba isiqhwithi sokuhleka. UTamada, owakhethwa emtshatweni, ngelixa emele athethe njalo, tshilo, yinto leyo ngaphambi kokuba umtshato ufike umyeni ngaphambi kokudibana nomfazi wakhe ekugqibeleni wambona. Olu khuphiswano luhlala luhamba kunye nokuhleka kunye nesiphango sesiphango.

"Asiyidingi abantu abangaphezulu"

Imincintiswano yomtshato kulo mgaqo uyatshintsha rhoqo, kwaye ukhumbuze kakhulu wonke umntu onjani owaziwayo umdlalo wezemidlalo. Ukuze kuqhutywe le mpikiswano kuyimfuneko ukukhetha abantu aba-5 ukuya kwezi-6 ukusuka kulo lonke uluhlu lweendwendwe. Emva kwetafile kuya kufakwa iiglasi, kwaye ngeenxa zonke ukhuphiswano lweglasi enye iya kuba ngaphantsi. Zonke iiglasi okanye iiglasi ezizaliswe naluphi na utywala obunomkhosi womtshato. UTamada unika abantu etafuleni iqela, kwaye abaphangi baqala ukuhambahamba naye.

Emva kokuba umbonisi eyeke umculo wesiqhelo, ngamnye kumathathi kufuneka athathe nayiphi na iiglasi zewayini aze aphuze ngokukhawuleza. Loo mntu wasala ngaphandle kwebhola kufuneka aphume kumdlalo. Emva koko, enye ingilazi isuswe, kwaye umncintiswano womtshato uyaqhubeka kwakhona. Ekugqibeleni, malunga netafile kukho ababini abathathi-nxaxheba kunye neyeglasi enye. Ophumeleleyo ngumntu othabatha inxaxheba oqala ukumbamba iglasi yokugqibela kwaye angayiphuza. Ekubeni umdlalo uhamba ngaphandle kokutya, kwaye abathathi-nxaxheba bahlala besela iglasi kwinqanaba ngalinye, kungekhona wonke umntu uya kukwazi ukumelana noku vavanya. Ewe, kwaye ujikeleze itafile kwinqanaba lokugqibela alikwazi ukufana nokuqhelekileyo ukuhamba ngeesangqa.