Indlela ukuba azazi iimpawu zosulelo lwe umntwana nomdlandla

Kutshanje, Sihlala sisiva ibinzana elithi, "umntwana wam nomdlandla kangaka!" lomama nxamnye inzala yabo noko amnye ebantwini. Kodwa bambalwa kubo babecinga ukuba ADHD (ingqalelo intsilelo ukungahlaliseki disorder) - yinto sifo, kungekhona amazwi alambathayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba uxhalabile ngokwenene malunga nomsebenzi ngokugqithisileyo umntwana wakho, ukuba ucinga ukuba kakhulu, kodwa nabahlobo uhleke off malunga yokuba wena zonke mawele - smart kid yakho kubalulekile ukucinga ukuya kwagqirha. Ngapha koko, yingcali unako ukubonisa umntwana wakho abanesi sifo, okanye undibetha ubala.

Noko kunjalo, makhe sijonge iimpawu eziphambili umntwana nomdlandla ukuba iqinisekise uloyiko lwakho okanye ukuphikisa ngokupheleleyo kubo. Noko ke, sicebisa ngamandla ukuba ufune uncedo kugqirha ukuba ubona izinto ezinjalo isekhona.

iimpawu eziphambili

, Ukuba sijonge ukuba kutheni na kufuneka ukuba kuqala. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba, ukuba loo mntwana engaganwanga, syndrome bangaba ibe yingxaki enkulu. Xa imbewu yakho iya kuhamba esikolweni, imfuneko yakhe ingaqwalaselwa kwaye intshukumo rhoqo uza kuyiphazamisa na yena kuphela kodwa afunda nabo. Ngoko ke, ukuba akukho manyathelo sithathwa, umntwana nomdlandla esikolweni uza kufumana ubunzima obuthile. Ukuba kunzima daze yakho ingqondo kwindawo enengxolo, kwaye kwindawo ezolileyo ephumelela ngenkankulu, ukuba akukho usabela amazwi akho, kodwa icala kubonakala ukuba uthe wakuva, Ukuba uyabagxotha uqale ngasekupheleni, nibe he ADHD. Iimpawu umntwana nomdlandla kwakhona zibalulwe umbutho embi, ukuphazamiseka. Le usana idla zizinto zangaphandle. Ungaqwalasela kwakhona ukuba umntwana usoloko akhwele phezu nekhabhathi, izitulo, neetafile. Yena ngokwenene ze uphumle, ityhalela rhoqo ntshukumo: yena iipeyinti, sculpts, wenza nantoni na, nje ukuhlala iseza. Iimpawu Isikolo somntwana nomdlandla zezi ukuba umfundi ayikwazi kunikela ingqalelo amazwi katitshala, kunzima ukuba ushintshele ekhefini ukusebenza. Yena rhoqo wakhuph esitulweni, besonwaya iidesika, neqwengiweyo eklasini. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba kuyingozi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ingenjalo kwaye akazi njani. Ukongezelela ukuba ayisebenzi izixhobo vestibular. Ukuba umzali womntwana okanye utitshala isikolo, eklasini yakho kukho abantwana, ngoko musa ukuchitha luvo zenu neenzame ezizama ukuzola ngomlomo ukuba ninga. Lakho ibinzana-ukuvalwa bangafikeleli kuyo. Zinikele nibe isicelo oyivileyo: uxelele umntwana wakho xa ukuyeka ukwenza ingxolo okanye ukuzixakekisa, uwampampathe naye ngasemva okanye phezu kwentloko - ngoko ulwazi neza ngcono.

Musa Ungakhathazeki

Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba draw kwizigqibo lokuqala kunokuba kuphela xa mpawu zingentla umntwana nomdlandla ukubonisa rhoqo ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka isikolo umntwana wakho. Ukuba oku ukwenzeka naye usakhula, kwakhona sizathu ukuba ukhathazekile, kodwa hayi ubukho ADHD, kodwa kungenzeka ukuba uthatha iziyobisi. Kwakhona khumbula ukuba ADHD - akukho nto isigwebo sokufa. Yethu ongakhathaliyo abantwana nomdlandla okunene ezininzi lweetalente ithuba elikhulu ngokwasengqondweni. Eyona nto ephambili ukuba zokoyikisa umntwana nezithintelo obungunaphakade, kodwa kungekhona ukuze anelise nazo bakhe rhoqo. Fumana ukulingana phakathi uqeqesho kunye nenkululeko bokuyila, kwaye qiniseka ukuba ukukhula umntu ofanelekileyo umntwana wakho.