Indlela yokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo? Funda ukuba uthembe ilizwi elingaphakathi!

Sazi Kukangaphi ndicinga: "Ukuze sazi apho ukuwa ...". Kukangaphi uzisole malunga namathuba bayimarike ekungekafikelelwa okanye izenzo ezitenxileyo. Wonke umntu ufuna ukwazi nokuqonda indlela yokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo, nto leyo iza kukhokelela kwindlela mnqweno target. Noko ke, maxa wambi siye silibale malunga ibalulekileyo. Into yokuba zethu ubuntu iku bhekiso phambili rhoqo. Ekusombululeni yonke imingeni emitsha elijongene iimeko engaqhelekanga engaqhelekanga, sitshintsha. Ngoko ke, iinjongo, imilinganiselo, eziphambili, kwaye musa ukuma. Ziguquka nathi. Kungenxa yoko le nto umbuzo indlela yokwenza izigqibo, kungcono ukuba kwi "apha kwaye ngoku" kunokuba sijonge phambili kwaye ngakumbi ngaphandle emuva.

Umbhali nanini ukuthetha nabantu abaninzi maxa wambi abazibona ukhetho ebomini nzima. Kwaye le nto na uphawu abo anika imbonakalo ngokuqiniseka, yabamba umntu - ukuba angawaconganga zangaphambili! Musa ilume iingalo zenu, enoba waba nexesha ukutshintsha indlela yobomi, eli lizwe, ububanzi imisebenzi. Musani ukunxila self-nanceba, ukuba ukhe kulahlekwa yiyo yonke impahla lonke kwakhona ukuqala. Ngoko ke, ukuba baqonde indlela yokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo, kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo: kuxhomekeke kuthi lukhulu, kodwa hayi zonke. Yintoni ebonakala kunjalo ngaxa lithile, kunokubangela imposiso. Kungenxa yokuba ixesha elide bonke abantu bayahlupheka ukusuka ukusilela engqongqo, apho kunzima yakhiwe kwaye wenze ngokweemeko. Kwaye indlela yethu akusoloko kakuhle kwaye eliphangaleleyo. Ngoko ke cebiso lokuqala: susa umthwalo ityala ngokugqithiseleyo. Umntu ukuze kwenziwe ukuba nayiphi na imeko unako ukufumana uvuyo nokuphoxeka. Nokuba ufike "usukelo 'yakho kusoloko kubonakala ngathi' ebhotwe elincinane kakhulu, kwaye isiraphu imnandi kakhulu."

Ngoko ke, indlela yokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo akuyi kuzisola ngalo? Okokuqala, zama ukuthemba isiphelo kunye intuition. Amaxesha amaninzi, siya mathidala nentandabuzo, ukuba kukho uhlobo yongquzulwano intrapersonal, umzekelo, phakathi ingqondo izivamvo, phakathi umnqweno kunye nomsebenzi. Kodwa imeko enjalo inkuthazo kuphuhliso. Kwaye ke intuition ukuba ngokufuthi uwajongele izimumu - nto inceda ukwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo. Musa ukucinga ukuba kukho into kwemvelo, "ilizwi livela phezulu." Kunoko, iinkqubo zakho ienjini kwimeko yakhe. sabaqalayo, esisabela ngayo ukusebenza komzimba badla cebisa kuthi apho kuya kuba kuhle ukuba kuthi, yaye apho ungelelanga. Ngokomzekelo, xa ufuna umsebenzi omtsha, phulaphula intuition yakho. Ukuba incoko umphathi elizayo wanenza ngendlela eyakhayo - sisiqalo esihle. Kodwa xa isakhiwo ngokwayo, le umoya olawulayo apho, ukuvela kunye nendlela kwabasebenzi zonxibelelwano kubangela uxinzelelo kwaye zinqanda, ukuba anithanga uziva ukhululekile kule ndawo - mhlawumbi isilumkiso.

Nendlela ukuthatha isigqibo esifanelekileyo ebomini bakho? Council of the efanayo. Musa ukuzama ukuqiqa, isicwangciso, ndicinga iindidi eziphakamileyo. Zizwe nje le meko, hlala kwezo mizwa. Ukuba, njengokuba apho kuya kubakho unxibelelwano naloo meko okanye loo mntu, kaninzi kwimizuzu ezibalulekileyo kuqala. Kwaye ukuba ukhululekile, siziva ephephile, oko kuthetha oku na ulwalamano lwenu ikamva. Kwelinye icala, ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima ukufumana imisonto aqhelekileyo, xa amanqina, kodwa, umzekelo, ezingqondweni wanamathela babecinga ukuba enkulu iqela, zama ukuthemba intuition. Siphila le ndoda, hayi isimo sakhe, imali okanye isikhundla ekuhlaleni.

Enye indlela uza kukuxelela ukuba ufunde indlela ukwenza izigqibo ezizizo. Lendlela kubizwa ngokuba "bakhangele elizayo." Kucingwa ukuba bazame ukucinga ukuba kunokwenzeka uphuhliso ezininzi iinkcukacha kangangoko kunokwenzeka, eya kulandela iphupha lakho. Unikwa umsebenzi, kodwa andazi nokuba ukuthatha yona? Njengoko kungaba eneenkcukacha ngakumbi yaye umbala nomfanekiso kule ndawo ngonyaka, emibini, zantlanu. Yintoni usuku lwakho, indlela onxiba ngayo, ukuba bakhululeke njani? Kumnandi ukuba eze ofisi okanye uzama ukuza izizathu ukuba kancinci kangangoko ukuba kuvela khona? Ngayo, nina kuva ukuzilungiselela ukuba athathe amanyathelo.

Kwaye mhlawumbi yeyona kakuhle waziwa kakuhle indlela - "ukulala" le ngxaki. Zibuze lo mbuzo ngokuhlwa phambi lokulala, kusasa wena ufumane impendulo lilungile. Umsebenzi ngokuba niya kwenza ienjini okanye intuition. Maxa wambi kuyanceda ukuba ukuthetha nabantu abangabazi kunye nomntu bengenamdla. Ewisa ngokuvakalayo zonke iingxoxo zabo yaye amathandabuzo, uyavuma ukuba bafikelele kwisigqibo. ithamsanqa!