Intetho kaMelania. Imvelaphi yayo

Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, unikwe igama. Abazali abaninzi abakucingi ukuba ngokumisela umntwana ngolunye igama okanye elinye igama, bafaka inxaxheba yabo kwinqanaba lomntu kunye nobuntu bakhe bonke. Wonke amagama kwinqaku enye ayinakuchazwa. Siza kuqwalasela intsingiselo yegama elithi Melania. Sekuvele isandi sawo, ifihla iminqweno, ingaciniseki. Kwaye oku akukhawulezi. Emva koko, ekuguquleleni ukusuka kulwimi lwamaGrike lasendulo, lithetha "bumnyama". Nangona, ngokulinganisa zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki, le xabiso ayikwazi ukuhlanganiswa ngqo kumnikazi wale gama, kodwa oku kulandelelaniswa.

Bonke abazali baphupha ukuba umntwana wabo uyona mhle: uphilile, uhlakaniphile, ulungile kwaye njalo. Injongo yegama elithi Melania esele isuka kwiminyaka yobudala ichaphazela ukuphuhliswa komntwana. Umnikazi wale gama uhlakaniphile ngaphezu kweminyaka yakhe. Sekude kususela kwiintsana, uyazi oko akufunayo. Unomqondo wenjongo, ohlula intombazana evela kwiqela labantwana. Unobungane kunye nabadala kunye noontanga. Esikolo ufunda kakuhle. Unikwe iimpawu ezinjengefesane, ngoko uzama ukunceda bonke abazungezile ukuba bazisombulule iingxaki zabo kwiimeko zabo ezifanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, intombazana enelo gama izama ukungasondeli nantoni na, ngoko ke ayikho abahlobo abasondeleyo. Uhlala enalo uluvo lwakhe ngale nto okanye loo meko okanye isiganeko, uyazimela iimfuno zakhe. Ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala, umnqweno wakhe wenkokheli uyabonakala. Unomnqweno oqinileyo kunye nokuqina, okukuvumela ukuba uhlale uhlala phezulu.

Intsingiselo yegama elithi Melania inempawu ezimbi. Ngoko, umzekelo, akwazi ukulahlekelwa. Xa kwenzeka ukutshatyalaliswa okanye ukungaphumeleli, uqala ukuxabana, apho abeka khona abanye abantwana ngenxa yeempazamo zakhe. Ukongezelela, akasayi kwamkela ukugxeka kwindlela yakhe. Kuba ixesha elide ukhumbula into embi, uyaziphindisela kuye.

Xa uneminyaka yobudala, intsingiselo yegama likaMelanie ifumana iimpawu ezahlukileyo. Le ntombazana iba yindawo egciniweyo kwaye ibekezela. Uzama ukunika abahlobo isisombululo esifanelekileyo, ngokombono wakhe, ebomini, kodwa oku akunjalo kangangoko kunjalo kwiminyaka yesikolo. UMelania akahlali ehleli kwaye akalindelanga oko ubomi bakhe buza kubuzisa. Ufuna yena ngokwakhe, ezama ukukhetha isiqulatho esilungele ukuzimisela kwakhe. Akesabi ubunzima emsebenzini, ngokukhawuleza ahlangabezana nayo nayiphi na imithwalo. Kodwa oku akuzona zonke iimpawu ezenziwa nguMelania. Ixabiso leli gama linike abaphathi balo amandla okusebenza. Mhlawumbi yeso sizathu sokuba akanalo ixesha elaneleyo lokuzonwabisa. Nangona kungenakutsholwa ukuba bayabetha uMelania ngokubanzi. Ukhetha iintambo ezincinci, ngexesha apho angafunda into entsha kwaye inomdla.

Abo ba negama linguMelania bangasebenza kwiyeza. Benza ama-psychologists abanobuchule, ngamanye amaxesha abafazi bezoshishino abaphumelelayo. Ngamanye amaxesha, uMelania angasebenza njengomfundisi. Ngokuphathelele ubomi bomtshato, ngoko kuya kuba ngumfazi ofanelekayo. Ubomi bentsapho, uyazinikezela kumyeni wakhe nabantwana ngaphandle kokulandelelana. Nje ngokuba ubizwa ngokuba yinkosikazi ekuzalweni. Kwaye kunjalo. UMelania upheka kakhulu, uzama ukugcina indlu ihlambulukile.