Iphupha. Ukuhamba kweenkcukacha zokudluliswa kolwazi.

Nsuku zonke siza kwiLizwe lemilingo lamaphupha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, siphupha malunga namava ethu, iingxaki, uvuyo, amaphupha, uthando, ukunyamekela njalonjalo. Yonke loo mvakalelo esiyifumana ngayo emini okanye sifihla ngokubanzi ngaphakathi kwethu ukujonga amehlo. Ephupheni, thina ngokwethu sithatha inxaxheba, sinandipha izinto okanye sinoyika. Konke oku kuqondakalayo. Asiyi kuphinda siphucule ngokujulile kwimigaqo yesazi yeenkqubo zephupha, sesele sazifunda nabo esikolweni. Masibuyele kwingcamango yokudluliswa kolwazi. Cinga ngawo onke macala. Okokuqala, siphendula imibuzo emibili. Yintoni le nto? Usebenza njani?

Ngamanye amaxesha sinokuphupha, asiyazi kakuhle indawo, kwaye phantsi kweemeko ezingaqondakaliyo, ngeli gama awukwazi nokuba unxulumene nale ndawo kunye neziganeko. Ungakwazi kwakhona ukulijonga leli phupha ngaphandle okanye uthathe inxaxheba kumfanekiso wesinye isihambi okanye ngokwakho, kodwa njenge "umlingiswa" wesinye isihlandlo. Iphupha elinjalo libizwa ngokuba ngumtshintshi wolwazi okanye ukucaciswa.

Lo msebenzi kwaye uthetha njani?
Amaphupha athuthayo afika kuwe kungekho ngethuba. Zijongwa, kukucinga kwakho, ngokuthe ngandlela-thile ulungiswe kwaye ulungele phantsi kwehlabathi lakho elingaphakathi, elingaziwa rhoqo kumntu ngokwakhe, kodwa esinye esinye isihloko. Ngubani obonisa iiloto ezinjalo? Ezi zinto zingaba zivalo, abantu owake wadibana nabo (kungekhona nabaziwayo, abadlulayo) okanye wena ngokwakho, njengoko sele ndithethile, konke ngenxa yakho yangaphakathi. Ingqondo engathandabuziyo engqondweni nje ukuba nje kunzima ukuphuma. Kodwa kutheni konke oku kuwe? Ngokukodwa ukufumana ulwazi kubafileyo okanye kubantu abangaziwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, oku kuyidingayo, uhlobo lweenkcukacha ezingakwazi ukunyanzelwa, kuba ngoncedo lwabo unokutshintsha kakhulu ubomi bakho. Into ephambili ukulungisa isisombululo, esihlala sisifihle emva kwephupha ngokwayo.

Wonke amaphupha, nokuba abo babonakala ngathi awuxhunyiwe, kunye nobomi bakho, banxulumene ngqo. Ingadlulela, ingoku okanye ikamva. Amagqabi angadlulisela amaphupha anjalo, acele uncedo, kwaye oku kungabonakala ngathi: Uza kungena kwiziganeko zobomi beli "hamba", ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe, isiganeko esaba ngumbangela; Khangela ihlazo okanye iziganeko ezenzeka emva koko, kodwa zazinxulumene ngqo nomphefumlo womfi. Kwakhona, izihostlo zinokukunceda ebomini, ngoko kuthetha ukuthatha inxaxheba (loo phantom ingaba ziintsapho okanye abantu abasondeleyo). Kodwa ubuza ukuba kutheni abantu abangaphandle (bephila) banikela ngolwazi oluthile. Kwiimeko ezinqabileyo kakhulu, umntu unokulawula loo nkqubo, kodwa, njengomthetho, kwenzeka ngethuba. Umdluli-unako unokufumana amandla anamandla kwaye oko kwenzeka ntoni kuye okanye sele kwenzekile, uphumele ngaphandle, ukhethe yena umviwa ophumeleleyo, nguwe. Kwaye oku kuhle kakhulu, ngoko ubuchule bakho obufihlakeleyo bunamandla.

Namela amaphupha akho, ingakumbi ezo ziphindaphindiweyo ngexesha lonke kwaye ungaphumi engqondweni yakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzama kangakanani. Emva koko, ukunyamekela okunjalo kunokunceda umntu, ngaphantsi kokusindisa ekufeni. Ukuba wonke umntu uqala ukuthobela iingqalelo ezinjalo njengamaphupha, ubomi babo kunye nabo bajikelezayo bangashintsha ngokukhawuleza. Emva koko, ukuhanjiswa okunzulu kolwazi njengephupha, akubonakali nje. Cinga ngako, kwaye mhlawumbi kusasa ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha ngokuphawulekayo! Jabulela amaphupha akho!