Izindululo ngendlela izilumle umntwana ezandleni

Ngoko ke akukho mfihlakalo umama wam kunye nezandla katata - usindiso ngokwenene usana. Ukuba umntwana egula okanye olitshijolo, ungenza cinezela oko kuye, enikina, waza wazolisa phantsi. Kodwa ukuba kakhulu rhoqo ukubhenela kwiindlela ezinjalo, uza unombuzo malunga nendlela izilumle umntwana ezandleni. Ukuze ufumane impendulo echanekileyo, kuqala sifanele sikhumbule iimeko apho umntwana wakho udinga ukunakekelwa ezinjalo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba umntwana angacela ngesandla. Le indlala, ukucupha imanzi, kwakunye neentlungu, lobushushu ngokungafanelekanga kunye nomnqweno ukunxibelelana.

Kwimeko yokuba usana lwakho ufuna ukutya, nto nje bamondle. Kwaye ukuya ku emnyaka mnye, xa imikhwa yokutya kuqala nje ukuba imilo, oko kunokwenziwa rhoqo kakhulu. Kodwa kubalulekile kakhulu ukugcina umsantsa phakathi feedings iiyure 2.5-3, Kakade ke, ukuba usana utya ngexesha izidlo.

Xa kunjalo, ukuba kid yakho enza phezulu ngenxa ukucupha imanzi, ukutshintsha nje ukuba zome. Qiniseka ukuba anikele ingqalelo ingaba kukho irhashalala ilweyile apha esikhumbeni. Emva utshintsha ukucupha, qiniseka ukuba ahlambe usana kuzisula owomileyo akukho eku- ulusu wabonakala. Kwakhona musa ukulibala ukuba nokuthambisa isixhobo Imihlubulo ngemilenze olungumgubo okanye oli yentsana. Le yenye indlela izilumle usana ukuba cela umama okanye utata phezu kwezandla zakhe, ngokungathi akuyi kumphazamisa intlungu, akuyi kuba abangenazigqibo. Ngoko ke, ungakwazi ngokulula ukusombulula ingxaki yendlela izilumle umntwana ezandleni.

rhoqo kids abangenazigqibo ngenxa nobushushu. Ngoko ke akukho mfihlakalo ukuba oomama abaninzi kunye oomakhulu, ezama ukuba obandayo usana, wabhinqa phezulu okanye ukufudumeza egumbini lakhe elininzi. Ngenxa yoko, usana nobushushu, bekhala ngenxa ubuhlungu yokugula. Ngoko ke, omnye isisombululo izilumle umntwana izandla, kukugcina ubushushu igumbi kunye ubushushu ebonisa angekho ngaphezulu kwe-25 C, ukuba usana akukho kweenyanga kunye ubuninzi 24 Ukuba umntwana wakho hayi iinyanga ezintathu. Le yokusebenza emini. Ebusuku, lo lobushushu kufuneka mayingagqithi 22 degrees sosana egumbini.

Enye imbangela inkxalabo inokuba isifo umntwana. Kulo mzekelo, iqala ukulila ngokuqhubekekayo kwaye siyanikhunga ezandleni zakhe. Okokuqala, kufuneka udibane nogqirha wakho ngonyango. Umntwana baphilileyo ndinikhathaze ngakufuna nto kuni sivumelane.

Kodwa kukho ezinye iimeko apho umntwana andwebileyo kungekho sizathu kwaye usoloko akhwele ezingalweni zakhe. Yintoni na ke, indlela yokuhlangabezana ngxaki? Apha, yonke into ekufuneka yenziwe kancinane. Ukuba umntwana wakho ndingalali ude Yithabathele kuwe, uze uqale ukuba alwe nzima ukuze imfundo kwakhona. Okokuqala, ukuhamba-hamba, urhudo, umntwana wakhe okuphela kwakhe, wandula ke wayiphakamisa kulala, kwaye kamsinya nje akuba uvuka kwaye ufuna ukuba abangenazigqibo, bekhwaza, cinezela kwakhona kuye. Phinda oku izihlandlo eziliqela. Bukela ngenxa yobuso umntwana. Xa ubona ibinzana elithi "emuncu" ngobuso bakhe, thatha nje izandla zakho kunye ujingi. Ngokuthe ngcembe, umntwana wakho uya kufumana kusetyenziswa yokuba ungalala ngaphandle koncedo umama kunye notata. mechanism imfundo enjalo iyasebenza.

Ukuba kukho ingxaki yendlela izilumle umntwana ezandleni, ungasebenzisa ezi ndlela zilandelayo. Dlala ne hide umntwana wakho uze ufune. Vala ubuso bakho ngezandla zakhe, esithi: "nengabangaba", uze uvule amehlo akho. Le ndlela iza ukuqonda, umntwana wakho ukuba nokuba ngunina ayibonakali, kusesemini kufutshane. Kid ngokwayo ukuvala amehlo izandla, nani ngelo xesha nye sizibuze apho wazifihla. Ngovuyo iza kuvula amehlo sihleke.

Ukuba uza ukuya kwelinye igumbi, zama uyakwaziswa ukuba umntwana wakho. Thetha naye, yaye ukusuka apho, makayive into nto elilandelayo. Nangona uyilumle umntwana ezandleni akuyondlwan 'iyanetha, kodwa kunokwenzeka ngokupheleleyo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukufumana unobangela uze nilicombulule.

Kubalulekile ukuba abazali ixesha elininzi enikelwe Kiddies zabo. Uthando, care, ukufudumala - ukuba kuyimfuneko kakhulu ukuba usana lwakho. Umsebenzi kubalulekile kubazali kukukhulisa nokuphuhliswa kwabantwana.