Ndidiniwe yinto yonke kwaye andifuni ukusebenza, ndimele ndenze ntoni?

Ukukhethwa kobugcisa bexesha elizayo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba wonke umntu athathe kanye kunye nabo bonke abaselula. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ukhethe indlela yakho ebomini, kwiminyaka embalwa uvakalelwa kukuba akuyiyo yonke into, ukuba awuyidalwanga kulo msebenzi. Ngesinye imeko, musa ukuphelelwa lithemba, kuba awuyedwa. Abantu abaninzi emva kweminyaka emininzi yomsebenzi bayaqonda ukuba baye benza isigqibo esifanelekileyo kwaye lixesha lokutshintsha imisebenzi. Emva kwakho konke, uyaziphinda ngokwakho: "Andifuni ukusebenza, ndimele ndenze ntoni na?" Impendulo ilula. Mhlawumbi lixesha lokucinga ngokufudukela kwenye eminye imisebenzi? Ulunge kwaye awuyi kucinga! Ekubeni abantu balahlekelwa ngumdla kwimisebenzi emininzi kwiminyaka emibini, okanye iinyanga. Umsebenzi awusayi kubahlangula kubo uvuyo, awuzenzeli ukwaneliseka, awusayi kuphinda ufune ukwenza oko, ukuba konke oku kukuphazamise.

Nangona kunjalo, njengommiselo, abo baqeqeshi abaye benza isigqibo esiqinileyo sokutshintsha imisebenzi yabo, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, bafumana umzabalazo ongaphakathi. Emva koko, baya kuguqula ubomi babo. Shintsha umgca womsebenzi, uye kwiqela elitsha ngokungaqhelekanga, kwaye ngubani owaziyo oko kuza kuba kwindawo entsha yomsebenzi. Ewe, yintoni enye ongayenza ukuba ukuba ukhathele ngumsebenzi? Uya kufuneka uthathe ithuba kwaye ukhangele indlela ongaya kuyo kwenye indawo.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyazi ngokucacileyo ukuba iingcamango zakho "azifuni ukusebenza, nento endiyenzayo andiyazi" ayiyi kuhamba naphi na, ithetha ukuba lixesha, yonke into iyatshintsha.

Ngoko, andifuni ukusebenza, ndimele ndenze ntoni?

Okokuqala, cinga malunga nokuba uzimisele ukutshintsha umsebenzi wakho, nokuba akukho nto ingatshintshwa. Buza iingcebiso kumphathi wakho, mhlawumbi njengengcali onolwazi oluninzi uza kukunika iingcebiso ezilungileyo. Ngubani owaziyo, le ntlungu inokuthi ibe yesikhashana kwaye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zonke ziza kusombululwa. Okanye mhlawumbi ukhathele kwaye ufuna ukuphumla? Cinga ngako, ukuze kungabi khona ukuba "wanyulwa", waza wazisola.

Ukuba akukho nto inokukuncengela, kwaye akukho ndlela enye ngaphandle, indlela yokushiya, ngoko ungesabi. Emva kwakho konke, ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nesigqibo sakho kuya kunceda ukunqoba zonke izithintelo. Ekubeni kwinyani impilo yakho kunye nomsebenzi wakho kuxhomekeke kuwe kuphela. Yaye ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umsebenzi wakho wangaphambili awukwazi ukukunika nto, kwaye akukho namathemba ekugqibeleni, uze uzimisele ukuyishiya. Vumela kwaye uza kuba nobunzima ekuqaleni, kodwa ekugqibeleni, uya kufumana isifundo esiza kukuzisa uneliseko olungenakuthetha kwaye ujabule.

Ngaloo ndlela, impendulo kumbuzo othi "Andifuni ukusebenza, yintoni endiyenzayo" yinto yokuqala. Ukuba into engasebenzi emsebenzini kwaye isizathu asikho kuwe, kuthetha ukuba ixesha lokuba uzibonele kwenye indawo. Ungalokothi ukwesaba ukuzama nokuphucula, ngenxa yokuba ufumana izakhono ezintsha, uziqinisekisa ukuba uhlala ukhululekile kwixesha elizayo kwaye ungabonwa kuphela phakathi kwabasebenzi bakho, kodwa nangaphandle kwendawo yokusebenzela.

Ngoko, emva kokuzama konke, ufumanisa ukuba ufuna umsebenzi omtsha, cinga ngezinto othanda ukuzenza. Ukuba usoloko uphupha nayiphi na iikhosi, ubhalisele kubo. Ngokomzekelo, emva kokuya kwiklasi yezinwele okanye umculi wokwenza izinto, unokusebenzisa ngokulula ukusebenzisa izakhono zakho kumsebenzi omtsha ngokuzibeka kwi -salon enobuhle. Mhlawumbi, sele usuqala ngosuku lokuqala kwindawo entsha uza kubona ukuba wenze iphutha kwaye ufuna ukubuyela.

Xa uvakalelwa kukuba kufuneka uhambe, ungesabi ukubeka umngcipheko. Yaye ukhumbule, ukuhluleka, unako ukubuyela rhoqo kwikhosi eqhelekileyo ngaphandle kwelahleko. Emva koko, iingcali eziyimpumelelo kunye ezifanelekileyo zifunekayo kuyo yonke indawo kwaye rhoqo.

Ngoko, wenzeni, ungayithandi umsebenzi? Emva kokuba unqume ukutshintsha lo msebenzi, zama ukulandela icebo elilandelayo:

• Zama ukunqoba kwaye ungashiyi. Ukuba zonke iinzame zingenanto, ke ixesha lifikile.
• Cinga ngento "uxoka" ngayo umphefumlo.
• Bhalisela iikhosi okanye uye esikolweni ekhaya.
• Fumana umsebenzi. Kwaye akukho mfuneko ukuba uyazisola ngayo.