Ngoobani gay kwaye nokuba avela phi na?

Ekugqibeleni wonke umntu lijongene ixesha ezifana ubufanasini. Kodwa ngubani na gay? abazange beze bevela phi?

Russian umphandi obufanayo Kon wayekholelwa ukuba gay - ummeli kwisiqingatha olomeleleyo uluntu othanda namanye amadoda, yaye ubufanasini - ifuna ngamnye abanye abantu besini esifanayo, yaye belandela eli nolwalamano olusenyongweni. Uninzi elikhulu leenkolo abachasene ngokuzibonela.

Kwamanye amazwe, eli uhlobo lolwalamano ugwenxeke kwaphela; yamafanasini phantsi isohlwayo sentambo. Noko ke, uBukhosi baseRoma, ubufanasini njengento isenzeko eqhelekileyo. Abantu babekholelwa ukuba abantu besini kukho amadoda emihle. Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba ezinye abalawuli abadumileyo endela into eyindoda.

Ngoko ke ngubani na gay? Abayi ngenxa yofuzo okanye ukusilela hormone. Yonke into eyenzekayo kwinqanaba engqondweni. Noko ke, amafanasini bathi ukuba kanye bazalwa ngaloo ndlela yaye akukho nto inokwenziwa. Xa abantu banolwazi utyekelo lwabo engaqhelekanga ukuba sisabela ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Abanye bazama ukuphathwa, ngoxa abanye ayifihle ebantwini, kwaye badane, abanye nje ngokuzola ukuthatha lula. Kodwa enyanisweni, ukuzalwa bobulili kunqabile kakhulu, kwaye ezikhoyo ngoku gay wentelekelelo - imveliso ye ukulalana ngaphambi komtshato kunye neengxaki zengqondo.

Kwakhona lo mbuzo ngulo: "Ngoko ke abantu besini esinye?" Kufanele kuphawulwe ukuba ezi amafanasini ukusuka ebuntwaneni kukho ingxaki kwinkcazelo isini sabo. Oku kuxa umntwana athi ukuba wayeyinkwenkwe, yaye ufuna ukudlala kuphela kunye namantombazana, kuba abanye abafana yokuziphatha engaqhelekanga kakhulu. Okanye xa imidlalo edibeneyo, ezifana "Oomama neentombi", amakhwenkwe athathe inxaxheba uninakhulu abafazi, unina okanye intombi. Nangona kunjalo, le ndlela yokuziphatha akuthethi akuthethi ukuba kwixesha elizayo umntwana uya kuba gay, mhlawumbi, ngoko uzama ukubenza abanye okanye ukoyika uxanduva.

Kufuneka wazi ukuba omnye awayebalasele gay olusulungekileyo ubudala. Ngoko ke, amakhwenkwe gay ubukhulu becala kude iyintsomi, naphakathi abadala ngakumbi kwaye real ngakumbi. Bonisa ishishini alichatshazelwa, ekubeni amafanasini basoloko wedwa okanye ngocoselelo ufihle zakhe ezisitheleyo, ukuze kumiswe indlela embi kwabanye. Mva nje, ke, into yatshintsha kule nkalo.

abantwana bayathatheka, rhoqo ngokugcina imizekelo ezimbi zabantu abadumileyo, funda ukutshintsha orientation ngokwabo njengoko ukhetho ukubonisa ubuntu babo. Ukuba umntwana ukuxelela abazali isigqibo sakhe ukutshintsha zoqhelaniso ubanga ukuba yena gay - musa ukukholwa. Le ubufanasini langoku - akanguye isicombululo, nathemba. Kulo mzekelo, thetha nje le elivisayo malunga inkampani okanye ugoba ukuze ngengqondo.

ukuthandana Gay inokufane kwenzeka kwiiklabhu ezizodwa okanye kwinkampani amafanasini.

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