Ngoobani swingers, yonke inyaniso ngabo

Ukuzama ukuba azi ukuba ngubani na swingers, akunakwenzeka ukuba uqaphele oonobangela esi simanga. Njengoko bathi, uthando ubomi iminyaka emithathu, kakuhle, uthando kunye ngaphantsi. Kodwa i wenza ntoni xa amkhanuke sele idlule, uthando ingasekho, lakhula laba into elidangeleyo?

Umntu agobe amaphiko ayo kwaye ujikeleze ngokucothayo ngobomi obungabangeli mdla, yaye umntu ayikho wonwabile le meko. Kubonakala ukuba nakwisiqingatha sesibini yanelisekile ngokupheleleyo njengomhlobo, kwaye abantwana bakhule, yaye njengabo bonke abanye abantu, kodwa walahlekelwa drive elithile ebomini, intshukumo okanye into ethile. Ezinye zezi yokuphila obungabangeli mdla, ezinye izityalo ngokwabo abathandi. Yaye inxalenye ugqiba ukuba wangena ujingi, okuthiwa uya kusindisa isikhephe usapho.

Njengesiqhelo, emva kwexesha kuza kuthi ingqiqo kodwa ngubani na swingers? amaqabane Sex abenza sisananelo phakathi ngababini kwakhiwa.

Ntoni uyisele?

Igama elithi "swinger" livela jazz 'ujingi ", ie lamba nekhawulezayo kwinqaku omnye komnye, yaye kwimeko yethu - "ukutsiba 'ukusuka iqabane ukuya kwelinye. Isimo kule meko inokuba nomahluko kakhulu kumaqela ahlukeneyo labantu, kodwa, njengoko siyazi, izibalo - izinto banenkani. Kwaye losasazo ukuba malunga ne-20% lezibini ubuncinane kanye kwenziwa ujingi umsebenzi, ne-40% simahla ukusuka kwiqhina nenwebu ebonisa ubuntombi nto ubuncinane kanye waphupha ukuba ubuhlobo enga ebomini babo.

Swing wohlulwe iintlobo:

• swing lula akuthethi ukukrexeza ebonakalayo phakathi kwamaqabane, kodwa uvumela kuphela xinakulobye efanayo, umnqweno kumkhawulela, njengoko babeza kuba nomnye umntu;
• swing soft uyavuma ukuba alale kufutshane omnye komnye ngaphandle yokutshintshiselana amaqabane;
• swing ngaphakathi ivumela kubuhlobo ngokwasemzimbeni, amaqabane exchange izibini abhacele kumagumbi ahlukeneyo okanye ezindlini. umkhuba wakhe ezo zibini abangathanda ukuzama ubuhlobo ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nomnye, umntu hayi kakhulu eziqhelekileyo;
• swing yangaphandle xa amaqabane ukwabelana ngesondo yonke kunye, ikhuphe amandla zabo ngengqiqo yokuba esisenzo ukubizwa ukuba badlale.

A incinane

Efuna ukufumana impendulo yombuzo ngubani na swingers, lokumba imbali. Ngenxa yaso nasiphi na isizathu, wagalela kwakuvela eCzechoslovakia kwixesha yali phakathi kwinkulungwane yokugqibela.

Kodwa ke kunayo yonke le nto kukuba e California phakathi amahippie yaseMelika. Akukho ukoyika AIDS okanye enye venzabolevany ukuyeka umnqweno abantu ukuze abangafaniyo ngesondo - kuba Isaci zabo.

Kwiminyaka 60-70 kwinkulungwane yokugqibela, ingqiqo wabonakala ehlabathini , "usapho Swedish" kunye nabameli yolutsha ngokugqibeleleyo, njengoko kuchasene iintsapho zemveli, imibutho "oonxantathu uthando". swingers Swedish - bangamalungu "usapho Swedish", ukuba zihlelwe ngokubanzi, ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: indoda + Indoda + umfazi okanye indoda + umfazi + umfazi kwaye unxibelelwano phakathi kwiqela.

Ukuxoxa umbuzo wokuba ngubani swingers, kuye kucace ukuba isimo ngokumalunga nalo mba na zahlukahlukene kakhulu, ukususela swingers kakhulu ezimbi ukuba kakhulu ezintle, kunye umntu lingenandaba ngokupheleleyo.

Lo mkhwa kwizixeko ezikhulu zilungiswe clubs ujingi nabahlobo kunye ukuthandana, njengoko iminyaka obufutshane-of swingers izibini, ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-6 ukuya ku-12, ngokuba umongo olu lwalamano amahlakani esisigxina utshintsho.

Nkqu uSigmund Freud wakha wathi ezinxaxhileyo ngokwesini - ukuba angayazi ngokwesondo ngaphandle amadoda alalanayo noku, kunye nokungabikho iyonke ngesondo.