Ukususela kwixesha lakudala, kwiinkcubeko ezininzi kwathiwa ingqalelo: ukutshata abantwana - iintsapho sendiselane. ERashiya, umtshato entsha kukwathethe ukuvela ezininzi izalamane non-gazi. "Ekhaya" omnye komnye kwakusithiwa abazalwana noodade indoda nomfazi, kwakunye nabazali, anti oomalume. Ngokufuthi, zonke izalamane zidluliselwa rhoqo kwaye iiholide ndawonye emva edesikeni enkulu. Namhlanje, ezinkulu kunye nosapho lula - lwepaki ngokwenene. Abaninzi kuthi andazi, lowo bekuthiwa ngokuchanekileyo umolokazana, kodwa umntu - Devereaux. Ngubani na unyana ngokwasemthethweni?
Isihlobo entsha abazali umtshakazi lowo
Xa ulwalamano sibini yafikelela incopho yawo, kunye esivumelwaneni ngayo umtshato, lo mfana, nokuphuhlisa umdla intombazana, ebizwa ngokuba nesoka lakhe. intanda yakhe efanelekileyo ukubiza umtshakazi. Ezi nkcazelo zibonisa ukuzalana kwabantu abatsha ngababini omnye komnye. Kodwa ukuthetha kangaka ngabo kunye namaqela wesithathu, umzekelo: "Phuma nesoka umhlobo wam uhamba" okanye "Le umtshakazi unyana wam." Emva komtshato abo bantu ngokunxulumene nenye indoda nganye nenkosikazi. Ngubani na unyana ngokwasemthethweni? indoda intombi yelizwi ngokuba abazali bakhe. Ngokufutshane, ngo-mthetho - intombi lomyeni. Umfazi unyana ka nabazali bakhe emva kokuba betshatile ukuba intombi.
Xa kufanelekile kakhulu ukuba ukusebenzisa igama elithi "kwi-mthetho '?
Ngamanye amaxesha indoda inkcazelo intombi ngqo xa esetyenziswa yi amanye amalungu entsapho yakhe. It ingqalelo efanelekileyo umfazi, unyana-umfazi ukuba ekuthiwa udade wabo. Sebenzisa amazwi abazalwana nomfazi ngokunxulumene endodeni yakhe. Ulwimi Russian namhlanje akukho lizwi linye ukuchaza iqondo nomini phakathi amaqabane abazalwana / oodade omnye komnye. Ngoko ke ukuba ufuna ukucacisa oko kwakufuneka omnye udade 's yendoda kunye nomfazi umzalwana lo mfazi, singakwazi ukusebenzisa inkcazelo jikelele. Kanti ke, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, impendulo ithandwayo umbuzo olandelayo ngubani na unyana umthetho: iqabane intombi / dade. Ukuze kumiselwe ulwalamano ngakumbi "esimbaxa" ngokuqhelekileyo kusetyenziswa izindululo enenkcukacha ingcaciso.
Ezinye amagama umyeni yentombi
Kwilizwe lethu, ulwalamano phakathi unina-in-mthetho, yaye - oku kwisihloko ethandwayo iziqhulo kunabo. Ngoko, abantu abaninzi abafuni nokumbona idatha definition phakathi kweentsapho. Amaxesha amaninzi abazali yomfazi na kuviwa: ngo-mthetho - lo ngunyana wethu. Ngokulandelelanayo, yaye indoda kule meko libhekisela abazali umfazi wakhe, "mama" yaye "utata". Ukuba, ke, phakathi ubuhlobo amatsha entsapho zazikufuphi kunjalo, kufanelekile ukuba unyango isesikweni. Khumbula ukuba, neengcaciso eneenkcukacha nolwalamano ezinxulumene nazo ukuba, umzekelo: "Nguwo lo umyeni bentombi yam" okanye "ngabazali umfazi wam uthi ..."
LweMveli kunye real nolwalamano entsatsheni
Ukuze ufunde indlela yokunxulumanisa omnye komnye unina-in-mthetho kunye nonyana-in-isongwe imizekeliso emininzi kunye neziqhulo. Ngelishwa, eneneni, ezi izalamane akusoloko inkxaso omnye komnye. Izizathu zoku antipathy ezimbalwa: Kakade ke, uMama noTata ufuna okungcono kakhulu ukuba umntwana wabo kwaye ungakwazi ngoko ngeliso kukhetho lo intombi yakhe. Indoda oselula kunzima ukuziqhelanisa ngokukhawuleza emva komtshato kwaye baqonde ukuba, umntu omdala, kwakukho abazali yesibini, ukulungele ukuvavanya izenzo zakhe "bafundise ubomi." Sekunjalo, omabini amacala kufuneka sinyamezele enye nenye kwaye uzame ukufumana izinto esivumelana ngazo. imenyu nje zonke ubandlululo kanye uzama ukufumana ukuba sazana ngakumbi, sinako ukwenza abahlobo kunye ngokwenene babe nosapho. Landela imithetho elula bembeko komnye nomnye kunye bazame ukunqanda ungquzulwano ukusuka ngokwaphula ixesha. Kwaye ngoko, mhlawumbi, ngenye imini unina umfazi wakhe yena athi: "Ngubani na unyana umthetho? I enye nonyana! "Okanye indoda ngokwakhe, ethetha ngonina umfazi wakhe, ngokuthi kuqala, endaweni" Tiffany mama "" igama hlobo ".