Umyeni udade wam - ngubani na le nto kuwe?

lukhulu - usapho. Wow, ukuba simanyene, it has a lot of nezalamane. Ukuba ngokubanzi entsatsheni ungathanda ukuqokelela abazali, abantwana, abatshana, bazalwana, umyeni, udade - oko kukuthi, ngokoluvo lwam, igqibeleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, phambi kukho inani elikhulu nezalamane nabazala, oomawokhulu, oomalume kunye oomalumekazi, abaye nentsapho zabo kunye nabantwana eziliqela, kuba kunzima ukutsho, ngubani na kubo kuyimfuneko. Zama ukuqonda lo mbandela enzima, ngenxa yokuba ilungu losapho ngalinye ilungu lentsapho waqamba igama layo.

Kungenzeka, abantu abaninzi sele uyazi ukuba unina ngumyeni wakhe - umama umthetho, uyise - e-mthetho, kunye nabazali umfazi wakhe - nonina-in-mthetho kunye uyise womkaMoses.

Okanye, kuba isiqalo kubalulekile ukukhumbula abo abe ngumfazi? Siyakukhumbuza - umfazi, naye ubudlelwane ezisisiseko sentlalo eziqulathwe kuMgaqo emtshatweni. Kodwa umntu ngokunxulumene nenekazi naye utshatile - umyeni wakhe. UDade - ke isizalwane. Isibakala sokuba akwazi ukuba abazala, nabazala yesibini, njalo njalo, akukho mfuneko ukuchaza. Vumela kuphela qaphela ukuba usapho igama abo kwabelwana ngabo bobabini umama notata. Ukuba wakowenu ke unina nabazalwana okanye oodade kuphela kuthiwa zesibeleko kuzalwa uyise efanayo - ozalana naye.

Ngendlela, ukuba indoda umzalwana, ibizwa ngokuba Devereux, udade - e-mthetho.

Ukuba Umfazi umzalwana, uya kuza kumzalwana wakho umthetho, udade wabo - udadewethu-kunye nomyeni udade wam umfazi - umzalwana-in-mthetho. Kodwa Schwager - igama eliqhelekileyo kunye ozalana nendoda yakhe nenkosikazi umzalwana wakhe.

Umolokazana, umolokazana - onke la mazwi kwacaca kwabo tayi ngeqhina lomtshato. Bambalwa abantu bazi ukuba nentombi ingabizwa nje kuphela umfazi, unyana, kodwa umfazi wakhe kunye nomntakwabo, kwakunye kangangoko kunokwenzeka xa ethetha nenye abafazi abazalwana ababini. yatrovki Phantse kulityalwa snoshennitsy - naye amagama ezizodwa abazalwana abafazi. Kodwa ngokubanzi, intombi - umfazi utshatile, ngokunxulumene unina nomyeni wakhe, abazalwana bakhe, noodade-in-mthetho, bazalwana, nabafazi (yatrovkam).

Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba unyana - intombi nomyeni wayo; kodwa xa uthe weza kuhlala endlwini umfazi wakhe, kuye ukususela wamandulo kubiza, wambiza Primakov. Hi ndlela leyi, umyeni udade wethu - kuba nayo e-mthetho.

amalungu osapho akufutshane abancinane - abantwana umzalwana (udade) - abatshana. A umzukulwana umzalwana unayo grandnephew. Abantwana abazala, abaza yesibini kunye noodade ndagqiba kwelokuba abaza, nabazala yesibini kunye nabatshana. Kodwa umzala nomyeni wam, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngokuba umzala-in-mthetho.

Nendodakazi kunye indodana - step-intombi nonyana ngokunxulumene omnye wabalingane.

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula kunye godparents - zibizwa ngokuba owayemele kunye Ummeli. Yaye ngubani na oya kufuneka Ummeli unina? Impendulo ilula - umakhulu umnqamlezo, uyise - uyisemkhulu emnqamlezweni, kunye nabantwana bakhe - uthixo-abazalwana noodade. Mazingabhidaniswa kunye nabazalwana cross - amawele. Ngoko ke wabiza amadoda ukutshintshiselana zabo Umnqamlezo.

Kanti ke, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba umbuzo umyeni udade ongazange - lo ubhekiswa kuni, uva: "La manzi yesixhenxe ukuba ijeli" okanye "ngokuyintloko nokuqinisekisa kwi-mboleko." Ngapha koko, ukuba aphile ubuhlobo kunye nezalamane, kufutshane ebantwini, ngoko, ukuba inqaba ethembekileyo kunye nenkxaso. Kwaye oku kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bethu xaka.