Nivele yabantwana: njengendlela yokhuseleko okanye limiter

Namhlanje, ukuthengiswa ingabonwa into nangoku pretty exotic kwilizwe lethu - le uyikhulekele abantwana. Imbonakalo kufane amabhanti ukuya buyo apho encamathele nangasemva ethambileyo ehambelana ubude emphinini. Nivele yabantwana - kukuthi, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, yokusindisa ubomi kunye nempilo umntwana oselula, yaye akukho nto ukulwa iminqweno yakhe inkululeko.

Kakade ke, kukho izimvo ezahlukeneyo malunga nokusetyenziswa kwale into. Ngoko ke, isigqibo kufuneka uyikhulekele umntwana ukuba athenge okanye hayi, kufuneka nobunzima elungileyo nengalunganga koko. Le ngxoxo engundoqo abeke phambili ngabo bakholwayo ukusetyenziswa engalunganga esi sixhobo - kuba nempembelelo engentle kummandla we-uphuhliso nesimilo mntwana. Ngenxa yazo, kukhokelela umntwana ithintela inkululeko yakhe, oko kwenze ukuba libe non-self. Isiphumo sale mhlawumbi lokuba iza kuya ikhula bobusana, abo bamoyikayo ukwenza izigqibo, abakholosa kwabanye kungekhona ngenxa ngokwabo. Ukongeza, bacinga ukuba isithintelo ngomatshini senkululeko ngo ubudala umntwana iya kuqulunqa ezintsonkothileyo, isantya uphuhliso ubuntu yoyilo. Enye impikiswano ethunyelwe abachasi oku kuthetha - inkangeleko ayithandeki, leyo kuba umama kunye lokuhamba kunye nosana lwakhe phezu ngomnxeba-ezifana umnini kunye Pet.

Mhlawumbi oku maqhezu encinane inyaniso. Kodwa kulo mzekelo, ukuba uyikhulekele abantwana babuye izixhobo zokhuseleko asetyenziswa kwimiba neemeko kuyimfuneko, isifundo ukuba abazali basebenzisa rhoqo ngenxa sobuvila yabo. , Kufuneka siqonde Abo wagqiba ukuba uthenge le ebalulekile ohamba ukuba kuyimfuneko xa umama okanye utata akwenzeki ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko ngeendlela zakwaNtu.

Ngokukodwa, oku xa usana ezinokususwa ukwenzela ukuba abazali abakwazi ngokoqobo ukugcina up naye. Ngokukodwa kwezo ndawo apho lu dityanisiwe engozini impilo kunye nobomi bakhe. A yingozi usana kwi bume lwangaphandle kule ubudala phantse nantoni na. Ngokuba oonyana isoyikiso asphalt nzima benqumla, iibhotile ezaphukileyo phantsi, ukuhamba kwezithuthi, vula imithombo yamanzi, nezitenxo ezahlukeneyo. Sibala uluhlu alupheli.

Kutheni kuyingozi lo? Ngenxa kakuhle ngophuhliso ulungelelwaniso weenjini, ukwazi lwabo namava encinane lomphefumlo usana ngokulula angene engxakini. Ngoko kutheni uyibonise ingozi. Ngaba umama okanye utata ayeke ngcono umntwana wakho ngexesha, uze uzame ukucacisa usongo theoretical ngaphezu ufunda itakane kumava yayo nabenzakeleyo. Noko ke, umntu athi ngaphandle ngeempazamo zabo, uya zikhule kakuhle. Kodwa ixabiso yabo yahlukile. Bawelwa ikhaphethi ethambileyo kwi indlu okanye njengentlabathi yokudlalela - yenye into, kodwa asphalt benqumla nzima kakhulu - yinto enye. Apha uyakwazi ube esibhedlele, xa traumatology. Kwaye ukuba yindawo exineneyo apho umntwana ngokulula usenokulahleka xa abazali be- abone ngabo, okanye babambekile nokuba - emdeni ecaleni kunye endleleni. Ngoko ke, xa kukho imfuneko njongo ukhuselo enjalo lo mntwana, ngoko ke kungcono ukuba ufumane uyikhulekele umntwana, emva koko ibe excruciatingly buhlungu.