Reflections on indlela umntu kufuneka baphathe umntu

Ngamnye kuthi yinxalenye yoluntu kunye nendlela yemihla ngemihla okanye omnye wadibana ngohlobo lwazo. Kodwa loo nto malunga nendlela abantu kufuneka baziphathe umntu, abanye abantu ukulibala.

ubudlelwane Modern phakathi

Kakade ke, namhlanje, xa kukho amathuba amaninzi kangaka, obunazo zabo ngaphezulu izilangazelelo zabanye, akukho ixesha ubuqili ulwalamano. Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ngokwabo, ukuba andikhathali malunga izimvo zabantu ngeenxa zonke kubo, ukuba imeko yabo. Kungenxa yale wedwa kunye ukungakhathali, kuvela iingxaki. Uwutyeshele ukuziphatha ezininzi ezingundoqo malunga nendlela abantu kufuneka aphathe abanye, ukubonakala ngamnye thinning of uthando, inxaxheba.

Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abantu baye baqaphela ukuba, zihlanganise-nye, ukuhlala ngoxolo nemvisiswano ngamaqela, kuthathelwa ingqalelo iimfuno kunye neminqweno omnye komnye, abantu unako ukwenza iintlantsi onocwangco phambili. Abantu - ntle a kwezentlalo, nokuzingca - yinto ngumkhuba imini lwethu obonakalisayo ubuhlobo kwi amathupha, yaye ihlabathi ngokomoya xa iyonke.

Indlela abantu bafanele baphathane? Impendulo kumphezulu

Lo mbuzo zefilosofi abanomdla kunye zo onke amaxesha, wanika impendulo yonqulo iinkolelo, wayesele wasondela umbhali kwaye isithethi kwaye mhlawumbi babaninzi ababuleweyo kuthi. Kodwa ukuba ufunde umntu kufuneka sibaphathe njani umntu, khangela nje ngaphakathi wena. Le ubuxoki ezingundoqo kwi enyanisweni, akunamsebenzi nokuba yintoni isimo sengqondo ngamnye kuthi angathanda ukuba ngqondweni. Ngokuqinisekileyo basiqonde ngaphandle, imbeko, nobuhlobo. It ufuna ummelwane wakho kunye nomfazi omiyo line for isonka. Abantu kakhulu idibane iminqweno ngale ndlela, akukho bani ofuna ukuba baphathwe kakubi. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka sizame ukutshintsha ihlabathi jikelele, kwaye ucinezele umsebenzi lokuqala ngokwakho.

ubudlelwane - oko kusoloko umsebenzi onzima, nto leyo iya kuba nempumelelo kuphela xa ngaba eyayizinyaswe ngabantu. Ukuba va interlocutor, ukuze eme endaweni yakhe, ungabona kakhulu okuninzi ngokwabo.

Lutho, ubuhlobo, ukuthobela ngexesha ... Nokuba awukwazi ukufikelela phezulu ngenxa oye babemsongela, ecaleni uya kuhlala nabantu kufuneka, enoba yintoni. Isimo sengqondo esinjalo kuwe ukuba bayisebenzele. Kobuntu lixesha eliphezulu ukukhumbula amava wooyise, ukuba ndiphilise Ngokufa ulibele "thina" endaweni uyazingca "Mna" mihla.

usapho

ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kufuneka ihlawulwe njani abantu bafanele baphathane entsatsheni. Kuqala kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ubomi bentsapho - iluxanduva kanye ukhona, hayi kuphela ngokwabo kodwa iqela labantu ezinxulumene kufutshane kuwe. Asimele silibale ngayo uncedo efanayo, kufuneka ityeshelwe bebingelela izilangazelelo zabo ngenxa ilungu losapho lwakho, kufuneka ukuba bakwazi ukumxolela nokuthanda.

Oku ubudlelwane ziko loluntu nakhelwe phezu umgaqo isipho, yaye kokukhona ubona uvuyo phezu kobuso ummelwane, i ngakumbi uba yena, kule minyaka, uyazi ukuba mnandi ngakumbi ukuba utyalo entsatsheni, yaye ukuba uthathe into kulo. Nditsho mizuzu aphazamiseke xa ngumsindo iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo, musa ukulibala njani abantu bafanele baphathane entsatsheni, njani ukuba ube lixhoba umntu onwabe embi nendlela dear kuni, yaye wena uya kuvakalelwa kamva, xa "kuqhuma" ekupheleni. Emva nayiphi na impikiswano ihlala ekugqibeleni kuba krakra, yiyo ke le nto kungcono ukuba ukuphepha nokusombulula iingxabano phambi kokuba uwele.

Ukungxamiseka ngxaki

Njengoko umntu kufuneka baphathe umntu - isihloko kubalulekile ukuba siqwalasele nkqu ebuntwaneni. Ukuba ubonisa umntwana wakho ukuba sibaphathe njani abantu, kwixesha elizayo iza kuya ikhula abazi nokuqonda umntu kuye, kuya kuba mnandi ukujamelana nawo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha lethu, lixesha lokuba anikele ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kulo.

Kwizikolo, indlela abantu kufuneka aphathe abanye, isincoko-argument ngalinye kwathiwa, oko kuya kunceda isizukulwana ekuphumeni ubuntu asakhasayo ukuba ukujonga impendulo nokwenza izigqibo ekunene, ukuba uhlakulele iimpawu ezichanekileyo zexabiso.

Xa ndandineminyaka kweteknoloji, ukhuphiswano, i-intanethi, apho azisithelisiwe ihlabathi liphela, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ukuba ekuhlaleni, ubudlelwane nabanye iguqukile kwaye asikwazi kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kwicala ngcono. Cinga le meko: indoda kwisitrato nokubi. Asingabo bonke sukela ukumnceda. Umntu ugqiba ukuba enxilileyo, umntu uya kucinga ukuba akukho umntu ochaphazelekayo, uninzi isigqibo sokuba kuya kunceda omnye umntu, kodwa akukabikho nako ukuya imicimbi yawo 'kubaluleke kakhulu ". Kwaye akukho mntu swi nga pfuna ...

Ukuba ucinga ngendlela umntu kufuneka aphathe umntu, kuphothulwe ukuba intumekelelo ukunceda - oku kubalulekile. Usenokuba nabo babe kule ndawo akuyo. Nabani na angakwazi. Yaye kubalulekile ukuba enqabileyo ukuqonda umntu oya kuthetha nokunceda ngesandla.