Ukucwangcisa ngokukhawuleza okanye ukulawula ixesha?

Kanye, xa unqume ukuba uphumelele, ufumanisa ulwazi olungabalulekanga kwi-gurus eyaziwayo, efihla phantsi kwegama lomlingo "ulawulo lwexesha". Ufakela ulwazi oluninzi, olukufundisa ukuba uceba ixesha lakho ngokuchanekileyo, ufunde ngokuzimela, ukulawula rhoqo, kwaye uqale nokugcina idayari. Emva kwexesha uqonda ukuba awukwazi ukuba khona, njengebhobhothi. Ngaba amaphupha okuphumelela awele? Ngethamsanqa, kukho enye ingqiqo.

Kwalaba bazondayo amaqonga aqinile

Siyavuma ukuba sonke sizalwe ngeempawu zethu. Abanye bethu bavelisa ngokusa, kusasa umntu ohamba phambili kukuphefumlelwa ebusuku. Sizahlula ngama-introverts and extroverts, abantu base-sanguine kunye ne-choleric, abantu kunye nabanomdla bezesayensi ezichanekileyo. Omnye ulawula amandla omlilo, umntu unamanzi, kwaye umntu unomoya. Kutheni sicinga ukuba bonke abantu kufuneka bachithe ixesha labo belandela iingcebiso kunye nemigaqo eqinile? Ukuba udidekile ngexesha lokulawula, ngoko uhlukile kwimithetho. Kodwa unako ukuphumelela xa ubeka ingqalelo ukucwangcisa ngokukhawuleza. Makhe sibonise le ngxaki kwincwadi yethu yanamhlanje.

Iindidi ezibini ezichaseneyo

Abantu bahlula kwiintlobo, iintlobo kunye neentlobo, ngokusekelwe kwimigaqo yezesayensi ezahlukeneyo. Kule nto sele siqinisekisile. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba udibanisa zonke iinkalo ezikhoyo ukusuka kwimbono yokusebenza kwengqondo, ukubhula ngezinkanyezi, i-isotherics, i-numerology okanye i-sociology, unokwenza iindidi ezimbini eziphambili kunye neziphambili. Kuthetha malunga nobuqu bokungacwangciswanga nokungenangqiqo. Ukuba isiqingatha sokuqala sinokulandelelana kwezenzo, ezichanekileyo, ezichanekileyo nezicwangcisiweyo, isiqingatha sesibini sabantu sikhokelwa yimpembelelo nemvakalelo. Kwaye kulungile. Emva koko, isigaba sesibini sineemfuneko zokudala ubuchule, ukuphucula umgangatho kunye nokukwazi ukuphendula imibuzo ngendlela engavumelekanga.

Uninzi lweengcamango zanamhlanje zolawulo zifanelekile kuphela kwiirhafu. Zonke iingcebiso kunye neyinyathelo ngeyinyathelo zabhalwa ngabameli beli candelo kwaye zisekelwe kumava abo. Kwinqanaba elithile, oku kulungelelweyo, ngenxa yokuba abantu abangenangqondo babengazange bacinge ngokufaka imiyalelo yephepha yokufumana ugqozi. Kodwa ukuba iqela lesibini labantu lizama ukujoyina inkampu yekampu echaseneyo, oku akuyi kubakhokelela kwisiphumo esifanelekileyo. Ukuqhawula umhlobo wakho akusiyo yendalo kwaye kuyonakalisa umntu.

Ukuba umntu ongenangqiqo uhamba ngendlela engaqondakaliyo yokulawula ixesha, okungafaniyo kuya kwenzeka. Loo mntu uya kutshisa ngokomzimba nangokomzimba. Eli lizwe liya kuba neengxaki ezintsha. Umntu ulahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo kwaye uyazonda umsebenzi wakhe.

Iimeko ezifanelekileyo zokusebenza zentsholongwane

Yonke into esiyithethayo ngaphambili, ibonisa ukungonakali kokusebenza kwiimeko ezinzima kunye nenani elikhulu lemfuno. Ukungangqinelani akunakwenzeka ukuba yingcambu kwindlela enkulu kunye nokulungelelaniswa kakuhle, uyanyanyiswa ngcamango yokuhamba kunye nolawulo olucacileyo lweli nqanaba lomsebenzi. Ejongene nokusebenza kunye ne-bureaucracy yolawulo, lolu hlobo lwabantu luvakalelwa ngathi alukho namaphiko okanye akukho ubuso. Isiphumo esihle kakhulu esinikela ekubhapheni kwamahhala. Bangakwazi ukuqhuba ngempumelelo ishishini labo (kwaye baninzi) okanye babe ngabameli be-intelligentsia yokudala. Ukufezekisa iziphumo eziphambili kunye nempumelelo yomsebenzi, nayiphi na imisebenzi engenazo iimfuno eziqinileyo kunye nezimo ezifanelekileyo eziya kuhambelana nazo.

Ngubani olungcono?

Ngokuqinisekileyo, asikwazi ukuzimisela iqela kwimpumelelo ye-marathon ebomini. I-canon ye-classic yobulungisa ithi: "Yilowo nalowo." Njengoko siyazi, akukho bantu ababi okanye abalungile. Sonke sineenzuzo kunye neempembelelo, zikhona iingxaki kunye neengxaki. Ngoko ke, ukuba awukho kwinani labantu abanengqiqo, musa ukubuhlungu. Oku akuthethi ukuba unobungozi. Ukungahambisani nokuphefumula kwakho kwindlela yokugqiba ishishini? Kuphela nje ukuba awazi ukuba ungayifumanisa njani amandla akho angenasiphelo.

Ungaziqonda njani: iimpawu zomntu onengqiqo

Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isiseko esithile sesikhokelo solawulo lwexesha, akunakulungele ukuchonga ukuba yeyiphi na iindidi ongowakho. Emva koko, siya kuqwalasela iimpawu ezahlukileyo zabameli bezo zombini "iinkampu". Khumbula: akuyimfuneko ukuba onke amanqaku ahambelane, kwanele ukuba kubekho uninzi. Ungowesigaba sezithethe, ukuba:

• Yenza umsebenzi wokuzihlambela.
• Uthando ukulandela imiyalelo ecacileyo, ube nenjongo enye enkulu kunye neembalwa ezimbalwa.
• Ukusebenza kwakho akuxhomekeke kwisimo sengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.
• Awunelisekile ukuziva ungaqinisekanga, uthanda ukulawula imeko.
• Izinto zakho zibekwe kwiithala, kwaye nganye inendawo yayo.
• Ukwazi iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufezekisa iinjongo. Xa ungaphumeleli, usebenzisa enye indlela.
• Iimeko ezingalindelekanga eziphazamisa ukufezekiswa kweenjongo zithukuthele, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha zichithwa.
• Ukufunda incwadi, uhambelana kwaye unxibelelwano.
• Ngomso uyazi ukuba ungadla ntoni isidlo sakusihlwa. Sekude phakathi kweveki uyazi ixesha elifanelekileyo lohambo oluya kwiziko lokuthenga ngeveki.

Ukuba ngaphezu kwesahlulo seempawu ziye zahambelana, ngoko unomntu onengqiqo. Unokufezekisa impumelelo enkulu kwimisebenzi oyikhethileyo. Unokufaniswa nomqhubi wesitimela. Nganye yezenzo zakho zicatshangelwe, kwaye imisebenzi ehleliweyo yenziwa ngexesha.

Iimpawu zomntu ongenamdla

Enyanisweni, ukunyanzeliswa komhlaba kungaphantsi kwabo bachasi babo. Iingcali zithi ipesenti yabameli beli qela lilinganayo. Ngaphambi kokuba ube yimpawu yomntu ongalungileyo:

• Ukusebenza kwakho kuxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kwimvakalelo yakho. Ngaloo ndlela, unako ukuyeka ukwenza umsebenzi kude kube ngamaxesha angcono.
• Kukho intlanzi kunye nokudideka kwindawo yakho yasekhaya nasemsebenzini, kwaye oku akukukhathazi nhlobo. Ngoko kulula ukuba ufumane iingcamango ezingaqhelekanga.
• Ukuba uqala ukuthobela imithetho yolawulo lwexesha, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kukukhokelela ekuphumeleleni.
• Yonke imisebenzi yakho ihamba ngokukhawuleza. Awazi ukuba ikuphi ubusuku kuza kukuthabatha apha namhlanje, kodwa apho kuya kwiveki ezayo.
• Ukusebenza, uhlala uphazamisekile, ubuyela emsebenzini, uze uphazamise kwakhona.
• Uneenjongo ezininzi kwaye uzama ukuphumelela ngeendlela ezininzi.
• Ukuba into ayikusebenzelanga yona, khawukhawuleze ukuya kutshintshi elandelayo. Awukwazi ukucinga ukuba ungatshintsha indlela efanayo yokuphumelela.
• I-Monotony emsebenzini okanye kwizifundo ziphazamise. Kunoko, awuyikucinga ukwenza umsebenzi kwifomu yemidlalo.
• Awunakulinganisekanga kwaye uqobo. Nangona kunjalo, ezi mpawu zibe yikhadi lakho lexilongo, ukuba kuziwa ekuthatheni izigqibo phantsi kweemeko zengcinezelo yenkxaso okanye ukunyanzela amandla. Ukungabikho kolawulo phezu kwimeko akukwesabisi nonke.
• Awukwazi ukufunda incwadi okanye ukufunda izinto ezintsha ngokulandelelana ngokuchanekileyo.

Ukuba unesiqingatha sale miqondiso, unokuthelekiswa nomqhubi we-SUV. Ukuhamba, nangaliphi na ixesha ungaphambukela kwindlela ehleliweyo uze uphendule kwilizwe leendlela. Ukucinga okungenangqiqo kukunika inzuzo. Awuyi kumela kwi-jam yomzila elinde ukujika kwakho. Uyazi ezininzi zeepasta. Xa usabela kwiimeko eziguqukayo ngokukhawuleza kwelanga, yilokho eyokukuphumelela. Ukuba ulawula ukubonakalisa amandla akho, abantu abajikelezile baya kumangaliswa.

Indlela yokuphumelela?

Ukuze baphumelele, abantu abanjalo kufuneka batshintshe ubuthathaka babo kunye nobuthathaka baba ngamandla. Ngokubanzi ezi ziphoso zibonakala nje kuphela kubuntu bobuchule. Ngoko, umzekelo, uhlangothi olubuthakathaka oluphambili lwama-irrationals lubonwa njengokuba akunakho ukukhupha icala. Nangona kunjalo, kumgca weengcamango, "igolide yegolide" ingafihlwa. Ukuba umntu ushiye intshiseko, ngoko kunjalo. Musa ukunyathela emqaleni wakho kwingoma yakho. Enyanisweni, aba bantu banokuhamba ngokulula kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo ngexesha elifanayo. Sonke sikhumbula umzekelo wombusi omkhulu waseRoma uGaius Julius Caesar. Igosa likwazi ukuba wayazi ukwenza izinto eziliqela ezahlukeneyo ngexesha elifanayo. Kumele uhambe ukusuka kwi-monotony kwaye ulandelele kwaye uthathe i-arsenal ye-multitasking.

Isiphelo

Yenza nantoni na engena engqondweni yakho, kwaye uguqule ngokukhawuleza kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo. Mhlawumbi, awukrokreli ukuba unokusebenza kwisigqi esinomsindo. Into ephambili kukuba yinto ebangela umdla kunye novuyo.