Wazi njani xa uye esibhedlele?

Wena ulinde kudala, kodwa xa umntwana wakho azalwe, kwaye nayo eyoyikisayo kunjalo, ngenxa phambi kweenkonzo, inkqubo leyo Kunzima ukucinga, kodwa wonke umntu uyazi ukuba buhlungu kakhulu. Asikukuphela ke oko kuyoyikisa. Eyoyikisayo, ukuba ukubulaleka ziya kuqala kwangoku, uye esibhedlele, wena awunayo ixesha. Umhlobo, aqhelekileyo kunye ngokubanzi yonke nokunyanzelisa ukuba amabali uloyiko malunga nokuzala emotweni, evenkileni kunye nomnyango. Kwaye ngoko ke umbuzo othi "Xa ukuya esibhedlele?" Nsati abukhali ngokungaqhelekanga.

Noko ke, ingqalelo kakhulu kuzo zonke ezi zixoxwa ukuba kuyimfuneko, ngokuxhomekeka, Kakade ke, ukuba uthe kodwa waliphulaphula ngenyameko emzimbeni wakho kwaye uzive ixesha ukuya ekubelekeni. Ngapha koko, nkqu unikezelo olukhawulezayo - ziyure 3-4, kodwa eqhelekileyo ekugqibeleni nulliparous iiyure-8 ukuya kowe-10, a vtororodyaschih encinane ngokukhawuleza, 6-8, kodwa sele uyazi into omawuzilindele.

Xa ukuya esibhedlele? Normal, full-elide ingqalelo ukuzalwa kwi kwiveki 38-42, Noko ke, bayilungisa ngengqondo kuba kufuneka ube sele kwiveki 36, ngakumbi xa ngaba ukhulelwe. Kunqweneleka ukuba kumi engxoweni izinto ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ukuzisa yi ixesha. Kholwani ndim, xa izishunqulelo ukuqala, ukuzikisa wabeka kunye ipasile iya kuba nzima kunene, nokuba uyenza kuluhlu. Kunye namaxwebhu (yokundwendwela, nepolisi ye-inshorensi, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ikhadi wotshintshiselwano) kufuneka zisoloko ngesandla, naxa sele kude nekhaya. Kakade ke, lo esibhedlele uya kuba ngaphandle kwabo, kodwa, ekuqaleni, akukho utshintshiselwano ikhadi, oogqirha ngeke bakwazi ukwakha isicwangciso delivery, kwaye miss into ebalulekileyo, ingakumbi ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kwakukho ezinye iingxaki. Okwesibini, kukho umfazi ngaphandle lonaniselwano ikhadi kungenzeka ukuba bafakwe kwibhloko ngenxa njengongahluzwanga, njengoko kwakubekwe oko zizifo ezosulelayo. Kwaye kunzima ukuba isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi na kwezi zinto zimbini kubi. Kungenxa yoko le nto, xa kufuneka uye esibhedlele, into yokuqala kwakuza kufuneka sikhumbule - lo maxwebhu.

Xa isingxobo iyaqokelelwa, ihlala yodwa ukulandela ngokusondeleyo kwenzeka ntoni kuwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nangona akasoloko, umzimba ulumkisa ukuya ekubelekeni kwangaphambili. Ezinye iimpawu kungenziwa ngayo kwiiveki 2-3 phambi kokuba unikezelo. Ngokukodwa, axelwe okanye uqeqesho kokuphelelwa. Isibeleko siqalisa ukuncipha kancinane, ulungiselela izihlunu zakho. Ezi ukulwa ngokuqhelekileyo yalula kwaye engaphumi. Lo mahluko zazo eziphambili ukusuka imilo yokwenyani.

Kwiintsuku nje ezimbalwa, okanye ngqo ngemini yokwenziwa zingenzeka ptosis isisu: esiswini lokugcina ehlela ngezantsi, litshintsha imilo, kuba lula ukuba aphefumle. Ngeli xesha ke usana ihambisa sisiya emjelweni ekuzalweni icwangcisa intloko phambi wesibeleko. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukulungele ukufumana phandle, kunye nokunikezelwa uqale nangaliphi na ixesha. Ngelo xesha maxa wambi kuvela obhobhozayo imazi lobufazi, mhlawumbi sizizifanya igazi. Kulungile, oku kushiya i plug yencindi, nto leyo ebonisa ukuba wesibeleko uqala ukulungiselela ekubelekeni.

Ukuba ubona wena kuyo nayiphi na kwezi ziganeko, oko kuthetha phambi kokuqala yabasebenzi yahlala mbandela iintsuku okanye iiyure. Zilungiselele.

Ngoko xa ukuya esibhedlele? Xa ingabe impi lokwenene. Kufuneka rhoqo, oko kukuthi, qho ngamathuba amiselweyo, ngokufuthi ukuba buhlungu. Ukongeza, ngokuhamba kwexesha amaxesha phakathi izishunqulelo ndiwanciphise, kunye indyebo yawo ngamandla. Ukuba ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba idabi okanye uqeqesho, kungcono ukuya esibhedlele, akukho mntu usibeka bala na impazamo, uziva kwethu. Ngokubanzi, kuzo zonke iimeko zengxabano kungcono ukuya kunokuba ukuba ukuhamba.

Amaninzi kule oomama eklasini bayacetyiswa ukuba alinde iiyure ezimbalwa, yaye kuphela emva koko uye. Khuthaza ibhunga lokuba ukuzala - yinkqubo ende kwaye akukho mfuneko ixesha elininzi lokuba bahlale esibhedlele. Le mbono olungachanekanga ngokupheleleyo. Kakade ke, ukuba ukuzalwa wena eziqhelekileyo, ngoko kutheni na ukuba ahlale ixesha elingangeyure ekhaya, kwaye ukuba ngokukodwa ityala lakho liya kuba ukunikwa rapid? Ukuba uya kube kanye, uya kuba ixesha qinisekisa ukuba an extra iiyure ezimbini ukuze bachithe ekhaya, ngoko kukho ithuba wokwenene kubeleka kuloo moto.

Kwezinye iimeko, nkqu phambi kokuqala yabasebenzi kumka fluid. Ngamanye amaxesha onke kanye, ize ke ngokucacileyo isenzeko kunye nto ayikwazi badidekile, ngamanye amaxesha amanzi nje kuvuza kancinane. Xa uye esibhedlele kule meko? Impendulo enye kuphela, ngoko nangoko. Ekubeni uqhekeko lweenwebu, umntwana wakho uba sesichengeni zizifo ezahlukahlukeneyo, kwaye zikhawuleze kulo mzekelo uya kuzalwa, ngcono kuba umama nomntwana.

Ukushwankathela, impendulo jikelele umbuzo xa ilixesha lokuba ukuya esibhedlele, hayi, kodwa ukuba uziva imfuno yona, kungcono ukuya.