Yintoni na kubomi yakho womntu

"Kwakungekho ubomi ngayo ndoda" ithetha ngokubanzi ukuba akukho ntsapho binzana. Ukuba yokugqibela kukuthi, baza bathi kuye: "Ukususela ubomi lobuqu yena Kulungile." Kubonakala ukuba uninzi lobomi lobuqu kulingana kusapho. Ingaba bonke uyavumelana nalo?

Loomama abakhulisa abantwana bodwa kwaye ukuthwala umthwalo intsapho iingxaki zemihla ngemihla, mhlawumbi uyavumelana nale "quadratic". Amadoda phantse akahlali ekhaya, lenza umsebenzi getter wayo kwaye engumzekelo nenkxaso kwiintsapho zazo kunokwenzeka ukuba ukukhusela ilungelo. Baya kuthi ukuba ukususela kumaxesha ngamaxesha kufuneka ubomi yabucala akazalani yosuku ngalunye kwamashishini kunye neembopheleleko zentsapho. Kwaye ukuba utyala luni umxholo kweli gama: nokuba neentlobano uzale omnye umfazi, okanye enyuka iintaba, watshona ukuya emazantsi zokugcina okanye ukubhabha neziwuza - umbandela yesazela kunye esizithandayo.

Yintoni ubomi yobuqu?

Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba indawo efihlakeleyo ukuba akukho namnye umntu azi.

Abanye bacinga ukuba oku naluphi na uhlobo lolwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.

Kanti abanye ukuthini le nto lobomi ezinxulumene izilangazelelo zobuqu ukuba nanto yakwenza inkonzo kunye nemisebenzi zentlalo. ingongoma nganye imbono yenza ucacelwa.

Ukusuka kwindawo osemthethweni ubomi yomntu ibonwa indawo ya ndyangu, usapho, kunye nezinye kubudlelwane, bakhululwe umthwalo imisebenzi yoluntu.

Zengqondo ukubona njengento sphere ekuziphuhliseni ngamnye. Kukho indawo yonke, eyenzelwe ukubonelela ngeenkonzo zokuphucula le iinkalo zobomi ngendlela yokuphucula iimpawu zabo lomlinganiswa. Ngenxa yoko, iingcali ukunceda umntu ukuphucula izinga lokuphila kwakhe, siqu.

Kwimbali ekuphuhliseni uluntu yaba ixesha xa zakho ngobomi umntu kwaba nezinyuko kuphela ukuqinisekisa ukusinda ebonakalayo zombini ngamnye kunye noluntu lonke. Kwafuneka ukuba mna kunye nabanye ukutya kufuneka sakhe phezu kwentloko yayo. Andizange nokuba ingqikelelo wedwa. Kamva, kodwa phambi kokuba uphuhliso zobugcisa, saqalisa ukuqonda umntu ummeli umsebenzi othile, ukuzonwabisa, okanye ezinye izinto ezithile kwakhona akazange aye.

Namhlanje, ukuba umntu ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba bakhe izinto zasemsebenzini yayahluke nto ibalasele ngamandla kukuba ukusuka ubomi ngayo lokuzonwabisa. Ngoku wonke umntu ufuna ukwenza inguqu ekusebenzeni kuzinto non-yokusebenza wakhangela ngakumbi kakhulu kangangoko kunokwenzeka. umntu Onge kuthatha ngokuzithandela ekhaya umsebenzi. Phuma aphume ngomnyango ofisi, ivenkile okanye ulawulo kukwaquka lenguqu ukuya kwenye indlela yokucinga kunye uhlobo olwahlukileyo umsebenzi. Idla zezemidlalo, kodwa kubekho ezinye iinketho.

Kodwa kuthekani ngobomi lobuqu evela kubasebenzi non-manual, abasebenzi kwezesayensi, umsebenzi yengqondo leyo ibandakanya umsebenzi non-ikuthintele wolawulo? Yintoni indima jikelele ulwazi kubomi babantu?

Kuqala kwinto zonke, nabantu, sixhobe kubo, bakwazi ngcono ukuziqhelanisa eluntwini. Ba olunokhuphiswano, ukuze bafumane umsebenzi ongcono. Ubomi ngayo aba bantu, kakhulu, kunqabile ingxaki, kuba bayazi ukuba indlela yokufunda uncwadi okanye ungafumana ingcebiso kwingcali kubani.