Yintoni ubulumko, kwaye ndiwuphumeze njani

Meko zinzima abantu baqonde ukuba kufuneka abe sisilumko. Noko ke, ngokufuthi ubulumko bedidekile kunye nezinye izinto ezifanayo kuyo, kodwa eyahlukileyo kancinane eneneni. Ukuba siyazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni na ubulumko, sinako lula ukwahlula zonke iintlobo womgunyathi. Cinga ingongoma uthandwayo ngayo.

Wisdom - uqhagamshelo yamava kunye nengqondo profound

Le nkcazelo ichanekileyo linokuchazwa kunye umzekelo meko inobungozi. abantu abasindwa kwiimeko ezinzima, abakwazi ukuba extricate yena kubo. Smart uya kusoloko ukufumana phandle indlela. Umntu osisilumko kuze oko akuyi kuwa. Amarhamente le mbono bakholelwa ukuba olu phawu ukukwazi ukusombulula iingxaki ezahlukeneyo, umzobo kwi lobuqu okanye amava abanye, maxa wambi bade Asebenzisa ukwalathisa imisebenzi ubhalo. Ngoko lo mbuzo: " Yintoni na ? Ubulumko" ziye ziphendule ukuba iza ubudala.

Yintoni yenzululwazi ithi?

Kulo nyaka uphelileyo, iisayikholojisti Canadian baye bagqiba ekubeni ukufumana indlela oku kuchaphazela umgangatho ngenkcubeko woMntu. Ngokukodwa, abaphengululi waqhuba uvavanyo kunye namavolontiya Japanese kunye American. iziphumo zovavanyo ukuvumela ukuqonda ngcono zinobulumko bukabani na, nokuba iza ubudala okanye isegazini. Amavolontiya abaneminyaka eyi-25 ukuya 75 bacelwa ukuba ufunde inqaku lephephandaba malunga ngquzulwano phakathi amaqela ahlukeneyo abantu, yaye emva koko esisigxina uluvo lwabo malunga izizathu ezabangela ukuba iimeko ezinjalo, kunye noqikelelo iziganeko elizayo. Ngephanyazo, yacaca ukuba ubulumko baseMerika kule minyaka olukhulayo, kunye yaseJapan, ngokuxhomekeke yayingunyaka wobulumko, abakufumana. Kubonakala ukuba Sakura Country ubuntwana unokubenza uthando ukuvumelana nabanye abantu. Ngoko ke, abantu Japanese kukwazi bhetele ukumelana neemeko eziyingxaki kunye noontanga ubulumko American. Ngoko, kwenzeka ukuba ubulumko ngenxa yempembelelo yokusingqongileyo yenkcubeko bubonakalaliselwe umntu, kungakhathaliseki ubudala.

Yintoni na ubulumko ukusuka kwindawo lamaKristu lwembono,

Ukutolikwa kolu luvo eBhayibhileni lwahluke kubulumko oluqhelekileyo. Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba le ncwadi iqulethe eninzi izibakala ethembekileyo zembali. Ngubani na weva uKumkani uSolomon kunye nendlela waqiqa ingxabano phakathi abafazi ababini malunga umntwana? Ndicinga ukuba bonke. Ubulumko bukaSolomon Lusetyenziswa njengomlinganiselo wokuthathela kuthi sonke. IBhayibhile iqulethe iincwadi ezintathu, ezo ngokwesiko lithathwa ukuba ibhalwe ngesandla sakhe: Ingoma Yazo Iingoma, Iintshumayeli ne iMizekeliso. Ukuba yokuqala la, ngokuba becala amthande, zokugqibela ezimbini njengoko uncedo yeyona engcono ukuba ubulumko. Ngokukodwa, kwisahluko 14, indinyana 8 of the Book of Swivuriso ithi ubulumko bezilumko - ulwazi lwe endleleni, kodwa ubudenge kwezinyabi - ezilahlekisayo. Qaphela ukuba ayithethi nto malunga ubudala. Ukuba ufunda iNcwadi IMizekeliso, sinako ukuza kwisigqibo ilandelayo: ubulumko - oko indlela esisilumko iingcibi ubomi ngokungqinelana ngokupheleleyo icebo likaThixo, oqala ngokoyika uThixo yaye usoloko lubonakaliswa yokuziphatha kwabantu. Ngamanye amazwi, iBhayibhile, ephendula lo mbuzo: "Yintoni na ubulumko," isixelela ukuba inqondo liphindaphindwe ngokuthobeka.

Indlela ukuthenga ubulumko

Ukuze Ukuphuhlisa umgangatho nto, akukho mfuneko yokuba alinde de ekugqibeleni yande amava. Kwanele ukuba ukufunda incwadi ixesha elide baba "obungunaphakade." Ukongezelela eBhayibhileni, sinako suku ngalunye ukufunda nokucamngca phezu aphorisms bagxila apho bonke ubulumko East kunye West, ukuze senze ukucamngca kwaye wenze imisebenzi echazwe kwi eendaba ezithandwayo kulo mbandela. Kukho iindlela ezininzi, kwaye wonke umntu ukhetha into awuthanda kakhulu.