Umntu enyamezelayo - intsomi tale of zobuntu ogqibeleleyo?

Umntu wokunyamezela. Eli binzana, yaguqulelwa isuka kwisiLatini, lithetha "umntu nomonde." Lo mqondo ligama lwezenhlalo ukuba libhekisela ukuqonda, ukwamkeleka nokunyamezela indlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha, ubomi, iimvakalelo, imikhwa, iimbono, neenkolelo, izimvo, ngaphandle kokuba kabi.

ezininzi equate ingqiqo ka "ukunyamezelana 'ukuya' ukunyamezelana 'nje. Nakuba kunjalo, ngokungafaniyo umguli, ukulungele umntu enyamezelayo ukwamkela ngobubele kwaye abone indlela yokuziphatha, isimo sengqondo kunye neenkolelo nabanye abantu ezahlukileyo yabo. Kwaye nkqu kwimeko apho iinkolelo ephosakeleyo okanye izimvo wena akuyi kuvunywa kwaye ayikwazi zahlulwe.

sengqondo asikho ebantwini onke amaxesha yayigqalwa le isidima bokwenene ebantwini. iingxaki ekufundeni, umzali ucaca ngakumbi xa Ekuveleni ekuphuhliseni uluntu, njengoko wadibana kunye neenguqu ezinkulu iimfuno zoluntu emntwini. Umntu enyamezelayo - ngumntu ohlonipha, wamkela kwaye uyayiqonda abazizityebi kwiyantlukwano yeenkcubeko behlabathi esiphila kuwo, amazwi ethu kunye neendlela yokuba abantu. Unyamezelwano ukukhuthaza nokuvuleleka, ulwazi, unxibelelwano, kunye nenkululeko yesazela, ingcinga kunye nenkolelo. Eyona ndlela isebenzayo yokuthintela sokucalulana ukuhlakulela ezintliziyweni abaselula sengqondo intlonipho ngeenqobo iingcamango zabanye abantu, uvakalelo onovelwano, ukuqonda iintshukumisa nezenzo zabantu, ukukwazi ukuba bahlele ukunxibelelana nabantu iimbono ezahlukeneyo, isimo sengqondo, iinkolelo kunye neenkcubeko. uluntu Modern busenza ukuba ubukho ukunyamezelana, ekufuneka singangumzekelo akhiwa ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, amazwe, izizwe. Ngenxa yoko, ilizwe lethu nayo efuna ukuqonda kakuhle ukunyamezelana, ukuzama ukuqinisekisa ukuba le nto iye yaba zizinto eziqhelekileyo kwintetho yethu yemihla ngemihla. Oku kuya kwenzeka kuphela xa le umba "Abantu ukumelana" ngokusisigxina azinze Lexicon ootitshala besikolo.

Xa amanqwanqwa ngokubonakala kokunyamezela yahlulwe lwezenzululwazi, ezopolitiko, ulawulo kunye nokufundisa. Iingcali zengqondo ngokunxulumene umntu ukuchonga iintlobo ezininzi kolu luvo.

Natural (zendalo) ukunyamezelana

Phantsi kwakuthetha ukholose ukwazi, nto leyo lokuba iintsana. Abangabo umgangatho 'ego "wakhe, njengoko inkqubo yokuba umntu akakafiki ukuqhekeka yamava lwentlalo ngamnye, phambi kokuba ubukho izicwangciso ezahlukeneyo yamava kunye nokuziphatha, njalo-njalo.

unyamezelwano yokuziphatha

Olu hlobo kubandakanya ukunyamezelana, nto leyo ehambisana nalo mntu (ngaphandle i "ego" womntu). To 'ithile enoba kukancinane okanye kakhulu, oko sizalwa inani elikhulu labantu abadala kwaye umnqweno ukunqanda iimvakalelo zabo ngokusetyenziswa kwenkqubo yokhuseleko engqondweni.

unyamezelwano yokuziphatha

Yahlukile indlela yokuziphatha, nto leyo ithetha ukuba iingcali zolwimi intembeko kunye nokwamkelwa ngendlela abanye abantu yobomi, nto leyo ehambisana ne iziyobisi okanye "ego engaphakathi" womntu. Umntu enyamezelayo - ungumntu, a uzazi kakuhle yaye bayazi ngamnye. Kubonakaliswa nobubele novelwano lixabiso lubalulekileyo uluntu oluphucukileyo kunye dash yemfundo lokwenyaniso.