Yintoni ukuzidla? Iintsingiselo kunye neentsingiselo

Kukho amagama angagqitywanga, angagqitywanga, kodwa adala abantu ubunzima obuthile. Ingaba umntu uphendule ngokukhawuleza umbuzo wobugovu? Mhlawumbi kanye, kodwa kuthekani ukuba akunjalo? Kubalulekile njengoko kuyimfuneko ukuxuba lo mgangatho wobuntu kungekhona kuphela ngolwimi, kodwa nangokwengqondo.

Nentsingiselo

Ukuba unesichazamazwi sisesandleni, unokukwazi ukufumana lula nantoni na. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuba ukhangele "ukuzikhukhumeza", umhlobo omhle womntu uya kuthi:

• Le ngxaki.
• Oku kukratshi.
• Oku kukratshi.

Ngaloo ndlela, xa siphendula umbuzo malunga nokuziphakamisa, sibulala iintaka ezimbini ngelitye elinye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sichaza intsingiselo yengcamango phantsi kokufundisisa, kwaye ngakolunye uhlangothi, sihlolisisa iimpawu. Ingxaki ngale nto yinto enye: ukutshintshwa kwabo badinga ukuphawula.

Ukuhlaziywa kweempawu: i-snobby, ikratshi kunye nekratshi

Mhlawumbi into ebalulekileyo kunendlebe yindoda yanamhlanje isichazi sokuqala kwisihloko. Isizathu esilula ukumisela: asiqhelwanga ngokuqhelekileyo ngoku. Njengoko kulula ukuqonda, ukuguqula - lo ngumntu ophatha abantu ngokuzidla, njengokungathi ungumnye umvelaphi - ungumfokazi.

Le ndoda ayiqhayisi. Akumangalisi ukuba ulwimi lunamagama amabini: "ukratshi" kunye "nekratshi." Zivakala ngokufanayo, kodwa isiseko sazo sahluke. Wonke umntu kufuneka abe nekratshi - eli lizwi elifanayo ngokuzithemba, kodwa kungcono ukuba angazikhukhumeli kwiqhayiya. Uguqula umntu abe yindalo, ucinga ukuba kukho inyaniso yakhe kuphela, ixabiso lakhe kuphela, kunye nabanye abantu, ukuyibeka ngokuthobeka, engalunganga. Ukuba siqonda intsingiselo yesipelisi "ukuguquka", siya kukwazi impendulo kumbuzo malunga nokuba igama elithi "ukuzikhukhumeza" lithetha ntoni.

Ukuzikhukhumeza kuyona mgangatho ogqithisileyo wokuzikhukhumeza, nangona, ngokwemvelo, xa kuqhathaniswa ukutshatyalaliswa, umbuzo wokubonakalisa umgangatho yinto enomdla.

Umntu ozikhukhumeleyo uphatha abantu ngaphandle kwentlonipho. Kodwa abantu abazikhukhumezayo benza into enyanyekayo, bashiye ingqiqo. Ukuzikhukhumeza, okwenziwe ngama-narcissist (i-narcissistic people), kulula ukuyithwala.

Umfundi ukhululekile ukubeka izikhalazo zakhe, nanko wonke umntu akhululekile. Ulwimi luquka ukutolika ezininzi, kwaye kuyamangalisa. Ukuba ubani ukhohliwe, singena kwi-essential question of what is pride.

Abahlali be-Hollywood kunye neVV Nabokov

Siqaphele ukuba phantse zonke iibalati ezimbi zamafilimu aseMelika azihlakaniphile, kodwa zikhukhume, zikhukhumele kwaye zizidla, ngamanye amazwi, zikhukhume. Umfundi okhawulezayo unokufumana lula uqhagamshelwano ngqo. Kodwa akukho mithetho ngaphandle kwemvume. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu onelungelo elihle akanako ukugcina ukuthozama kwesizathu esithile. Ngokomzekelo, umbhali weelwimi ezimbini uVV Nabokov wayezikhukhumeza.

Ukuba usebenzisa i-hyperbole, ngoko wayekholelwa ukuba kukho umbhali omnye kuphela emhlabeni, uqikelele ngubani? Kwaye kunzima ukuthetha ngokungahambi kwengqondo. Ngezinye iziganeko kwenzeka. Khumbula ukuba ngaphandle kokuqinisekisa kuphela imithetho. Umfundi ulungele ukuphendula umbuzo malunga nokuzikhukhumeza, ngokuzimela.