Sisoloko sisiva ukuba abantu abaselula namhlanje - abantu izinto eziphathekayo ngokupheleleyo. Eli gama weza Russian evela isiFrentshi, apho Mercantile - ". Yokuzingca, nanceba" lithetha Ngaba ngokwenene yini ukumangalela nokuba le meko iyingozi? Makhe uzame ukuhlalutya.
Xa inkcazelo, abantu izinto - ". Ilize" abo musa ukwenza nantoni na Kuyo yonke ke ubone iingenelo zayo, kwaye ukuba akunjalo - ungenamdla oko kubo. Kodwa ubuhlakani kulwalamano lobuqu ngokuqhelekileyo baqonda embi. Kungenxa yoko le nto nathi mnandi kangaka abantu Mercantile. Kuvakala kulungile, ukuba kuyabanda kwaye akanako ukuvelana. Bona andikhathali malunga imeko interlocutor okanye iqabane, kubalulekile ukufumana into ofuna kuye. Kodwa ukuba ubudlelwane ishishini nanjengokwesimo, yaye indlela apho mhlawumbi ezingafanelekanga iimvakalelo zakho, kusapho kunye nobuhlobo Mercantile abantu - liyingcwele amaninzi ngabo bona bathi "engqondweni yakho," yaye abo bazama ukuthintela unxibelelwano. Kutheni le nto isenzeka? kanye intsingiselo yegama elithi "Abantu Mercantile" iphatha ityala elibi. Ngapha koko, akukho namnye kuthi awufuni ukuba waqonda njengoba into, njengomthombo ukwanelisa iminqweno zomnye, nokuba oko kusebenza kuthi umntu kusapho okanye izalamane. Nangona ihlabathi isekelwe phezu umgaqo "kwenu - Mna, mna - nina", oko kukuthi, leyo ngxoxo iinkonzo kunye neemveliso, unxibelelwano eqhelekileyo yabantu, abanyanisekileyo efudumeleyo, kubalulekile ukuba uxolo lwengqondo. Awunako ukuthenga intlonelo, akukho uthando, akukho nkxaso lokwenene. Kwaye yintoni "Mercantile 'abantu? Ingaba lowo othatha zonke amakhonkco kudidi "ubudlelwane yorhwebo-mali." Yena ingasonjululwa abantu 'luncedo' yaye 'lingeloncedo' - ke, ngokuba yena. He iyazivavanya kuphela yintoni umnike, yaye ngokufuthi ngakumbi - ngokwalo eziphathekayo. Ngelishwa, mercantilism - uhlobo iingxaki ngokweemvakalelo yokomoya xesha yongxowankulu. Nakuba kunjalo, kufuneka kube bedidekile ngomoya zoshishino. Kunoko, ubulumko, silwa, kushishino ulwalamano lobuqu. Ukuba ishishini, vein ishishini zibonwa kakuhle, ngoko ke elithi "nanceba" ngokucacileyo okubi.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ayeke lo mmangaliso? Ngapha koko, abantwana sele abancinci bafunda zengqondo abathengi abazali babo. Emva koko kuqala ubuhlobo norhwebo entsatsheni - umntwana akafuni ukwenza nto nje ngokuzithandela, kuba zonke iimfuno zentlawulo. Kwezinye iintsapho, kufikwa ezitenxileyo xa kuvuzwa ngemali nokuba izifundo ukwenza. Kubonakala ukuba ukuze kupheliswe mercantilism - okanye ngaphezulu kanye - ukuthintela ukukhula kwawo - ukuba umntwana ukufundisa abantu abaselula nemfesane. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukwalathisa iingqondo zabo ukuba ubudlelwane babantu, iimvakalelo, uvuyo konxibelelwano - nanto. Kwaye ukuba ngokwenene unako ukubavuza igama nje "enkosi", wathi ngokusuka entliziyweni. Emva kokuba abantu Mercantile ukumimitheka yodwa: beqhelene ukuba, ukuba akanako ukunika. Baya bonke abanye ezikrokrelekayo efanayo, ngaphezu isono ngokwaso. Yiloo nto kunzima ukuthemba omnye umntu, bangabi nabahlobo bakho kunye nosapho badla kutshatyalaliswa. Ezi ulwalamano lobuqu kunokuba qotho kuphela. Yiloo nto kufuneka zifundiswe abemi abatsha zehlabathi, ukuba bakhulile bonwabile-gingxi.