Abantwana uphangwe iimpawu. Uninzi abantwana oniwe ehlabathini. Indlela ukuba ukuphinda-ukufundisa umntwana ibhuqiwe?

Xa Ucinga umntwana ibhuqiwe, ucinga malunga itakane, endihleli endlwini ezininzi zokudlala ezininzi mihla ezinkulu. Kodwa iingcali zithi ukuziphatha yabantwana lifezekiswa hayi kwipropati. umntwana okonakeleyo yokuzingca, befuna. Usebenzisa lukhulu yokuntlokothiswa ukufumana into ayifunayo.

Baphi na abantwana oniwe? Iingcali zengqondo zithi, njengoko umthetho, ukuba bakhulela umkhaya elwayo, apho abantu abadala benze amazibuko zabo.

Ngoko ke, masikhe ukuchaza ezinye iinkalo ukuqonda, owosindiswa ngawo wena, "konakalisa 'umntwana wakho okanye hayi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ixesha ukuchonga ezi iimpazamo kwaye zama ukulungisa ndawonye.

"Centre of the World"

iminqweno ethile umntwana wakho - oku yeyona nto iphambili, anokufundiswa ukuba ihlabathi lijikeleza kuphela naye. Oku kuthintela ukuba athathe ingqalelo iimfuno kunye neminqweno zabanye.

Oogqirha babantwana bathi umntwana kufuneka aqonde aze athathe. Xa igama elithi "athathe 'uba umsebenzi kuphela wakhe, kukho ukuphazamiseka kulo mbono kunye nesimo sengqondo kwabanye. Sonakala abantwana abathandi ukwabelana. Kunzima ukuba nobuchule exchange, kwaye kunzima ukuqonda ukuba yintoni na uthando.

Awumboni ukuziphatha eyiyo

abazali Modern axakekile rhoqo kunye nemiba ebalulekileyo. Kwaye ngoko ke musa uqaphele ukuba abantwana babo badlale: lula okanye yingozi. Ukuba ngaba uchazele kubo ukuba kukho imigaqo ethile yokuziphatha ngexesha emnandi, zikhula kunye, ngoyaba yonke imigaqo nemithetho. Kodwa elizayo, abantwana ziphangwe izaphuli ingozi!

ukuziphatha Nomvuzo okubi

Umntwana Wakho Enomsindo kunye iinyembezi - lo "isixhobo" best umntwana olweyeliselayo. Nokuba sisekhaya, nokuba kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zoluntu, yena uqala ukuvusa ukukhala, awunandaba malunga babo ababathandayo nabantu iyayijikeleza. Maxa wambi abazali nje musa ukuma ngenxa yokuziphatha kwaye amnike into ayifunayo. Siwenze kuyo nayiphi na imeko engenakwenzeka.

imida kwindlela yokuziphatha

Ukuba ngaba ufake kwaye musa nokuqinisekisa ukungqinelana nemigaqo ethile yokuziphatha kakuhle, phakamisa umntwana krwada, ukungabi uyala nentsebenziswano nokuxabisana. Olu sana luya kuba rhoqo ukuvakalisa ukungoneliseki kwabo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana ibhuqiwe musa va ulwaneliseko ngokupheleleyo bona na. Ukuba ubona into yokudlala, abayenze na, nangayiphi na indlela iza kuzama ukufumana kuyo. Ke ukuba abathanga bafundise "ukulunga" ezinjengezo umonde kunye nentlonipho, umntwana wakho mnandi kuba olungalawulwayo kwaye kukungakhathali.

ukuxhaphaza

umntwana Bad-emihle usoloko ufuna ukulawula abazali bakhe kunye nabanye abantu abadala. Ngaloo ndlela, uya ukufikelela into ayifunayo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, lo mntwana uya kwenza yonke into ukuze uzive ungakhululekanga eluntwini.

Naye akayi va umahluko phakathi abadala kunye noontanga babo. Ngoko ke uya kwenza umama kunye notata wam zakhe zonke iimfuno.

Uziva ukusilela

Kakade ke, abantwana abaninzi ibhuqiwe rhoqo ngoyaba isicelo lwabazali bakhe. Bona abaqondi ilizwi, akukho nezoyikiso okanye ukweyisela. Kwaye xa ilizwi "hayi" ndizama ukwenza okwahlukileyo ngokubonakalisa amandla akhe phambi kwabo.

kids krwada musa ingqalelo oomama nootata, xa uzama ukuthetha nabo. Kufuneka ukuba ube kubo igunya, ukuba abafundise ukuba simamele wena kwaye wenze le nto uyithethayo.

izipho Random

Lumkisa umntwana wakho nxamnye show ngqiqweni. Umzekelo, wena lathenga isithuthuthu entsha unyana wakhe, ngenxa yokuba lowo ezidlulileyo, nje uthenge kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, ediniwe.

Enye impazamo eqhelekileyo - izipho unetyala. Ukuba itakane esithi, "ukuba unina yimbi ehlabathini Wena" - eli yayingeloxesha izimanga. Kakubi wena, uye afumane oko akufunayo. Yaye kwixesha elizayo uya kuba rhoqo lo sisingcikivo.

Akukho nomnqweno wokunceda

abantwana ziphangwe Magwalandini, akwavuma ukuba ukunceda abazali babo. Abafuni ukuba benze umsebenzi wasekhaya okanye wenze ukucoca jikelele eyadini. Ezi imvuthuluka bakhula ingqiqo ukungahoywa kunye engayenzanga ukusebenza nemisebenzi yabo.

Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ngexesha xa umntwana wakho asiyo "sana", kufuneka zifundiswe ukuzalisekisa iimfuno amancinci kunye nabazali ukugcina umkhondo izinto zabo zokudlala.

Uyaba- abadala

umntwana Bad-emihle xa uncokola nabantu abadala yeny nga doslushivaet yaye encokola libhekisela ngamazwi abo. Kusenokwenzeka nokuba ukuvakalisa ukungoneliseki kwabo la magama "embi".

Abazali kufuneka ufundise umntwana wakho ukuba intlonipho omdala ngezizukulwana. Kungenjalo, kwixesha elizayo kuya ngoyaba onke amaxabiso yokuziphatha kwaye ukukhanyela ubulumko yookhokho babo.

Indlela ukuba ukuphinda-ukufundisa umntwana ibhuqiwe?

Musa ukuphaphazela ukuba nje ukuba umntwana wakho uye waba indlela nambeko baphanga. Iingcali zengqondo zithi uyakwazi ukulungisa yonke into. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukuze benze zonke iinzame oku. Landela ezi zicwangciso ukuze umntwana wakho imfundo ephucukileyo uye waba ngumzekelo kuba oontanga babo:

• Beka imithetho ecacileyo ukuba umntwana wakho kunye nokuziphatha umda. Ke ukuba uthe wagqiba ukutshintsha kubo, cacisa ke kulowo a ngaphandle okhethekileyo.
• Yenza okukhuthaza ukuziphatha kakuhle. Ngokuqhelekileyo, baya kuxhomekeka ubudala usana lwakho. Umzekelo, unga zama ukumnika yinkwenkwezi ngezenzo ezikhulu. Yaye iya kuqokelela ikhulu yezi amabhaso, mnike isipho yokukwamkela.

• Imiphumo ngokwaphula imithetho. Ezi zisukela ukupheliswa amalungelo kokuthathwa zokudlala abazithandayo.
• Ndifundise ukuba ukupha kubaluleke ngakumbi kunokwamkela. Bandakanya abantwana bakho ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yesisa. Qhuba ukuba ezivenkileni ukuba bathenge izipho abahlobo kunye namalungu entsapho.
• Mfundise ukuba baqonde elithi "hayi." Ukuba ukhetha ukukhanyela umntwana wakho nantoni na, oko akuthethi ukutshintsha isigqibo sayo, phantsi kwempembelelo babesaba ekhwaza.
• Yiba ngumzekelo omhle. Thatha ingqalelo nokuhlonipha abanye abantu - kwaye umntwana uya kuzama ukulandela umzekelo wakho.

Uninzi abantwana oniwe zehlabathi

Okwangoku, igama elithi "ukonakala" liye Ndizuze nombala entsha. Ingakumbi xa - umntwana leenkwenkwezi Hollywood. Ngaba unokuyithelekelela into yokunika izipho abazali babo sisityebi?! Sazise amagama oonyana abaninzi ibhuqiwe nesipho sinokufunyanwa, abazamkele:

1. Suri Kruz - intombi abazali abaziwayo Tom Cruise kunye Katie. Xa umtshato, baza baqalisa kakhulu ukuba niyinikele izipho zakhe zexabiso, ku kokela nyingiso eka yena. Nenkwenkwezi "Umnqophiso: Ayinakwenzeka" ifilimu wanika Suri ipomakazi lendlu emangalisayo eNew York ukuba ihashe lakhe bawathandayo zokudlala ezahlukeneyo.

2. Valentina Pinault - yenzeka ukuba intombi omnye abafazi ezininzi ezintle ehlabathini, umdlali Salma Hayek. Uyise, uFrancois-Anri pino (Kering CEO), wanika indlalifa kuzingela Lodge wakhe, inkonzo leyo ethatha amawaka-50 eerandi ngenyanga!

3. Zakari Fernish-Yohane - unyana wayeyimvumi edumileyo Elton John kunye neqabane lakhe, bhanya waseKhanada uDavide Nikeza. Buyela ngo-2011 uyise wamnika egumbini lakhe kwindawo ekhethekileyo Los Angeles for $ 2 million.

4. Eshicilela Dzhordzh -, unyana ka ePrince William kunye Keyt Middlton. Ngosuku lokuqala lokuzalwa kwakhe, wafumana isipho eyothusayo esivela Stylfile - ukhathalelo isixhobo Nail. Kodwa, ngokungafani manicure iseti eqhelekileyo, ezi zenziwa ngegolide ecocekileyo kwaye ezihonjiswe ngedayimani 350.

5. eBrooklyn Harper Beckhams - ibhuqiwe abantwana abanabazali abazizityebi Victoria kunye Devida Bekhem. Isipho ilungileyo wazala intombi yakhe yokuzalwa yokuqala ukusuka umama kunye notata, akukho nto ihashe nkqu unodoli. A umfanekiso $ 1 yezigidi, ebhalwe igcisa yaseBritani UDamien Hirst. Ngoku Igcwele egumbini lakhe lokulala yaye kuyamkholisa umnini wakhe yonke imihla. Kwathi xa kuqala engengowamazibulo, eBrooklyn, wayeneminyaka engama-6 ubudala, isibini esitshatileyo phambi kwendlu yakhe ukwakha iqhaga imitha-16 ngokwenene imidlalo ezimawaka 200 eerandi.

6. Diddy, Kakade ke, uyazi ukuba elininzi kwimfundo yomntwana ibhuqiwe. Xa unyana wakhe, Justin bamanqatha, kwiminyaka eli-16 ubudala, utata wamthengela imoto. Kodwa hayi boqobo Honda Civic, eya kumkholisa uninzi abafikisayo kunye Maybach yesilivere 360 lamawaka eerandi. Kwakhona wafumana itsheki kwi imali amawaka 10 zeerandi ukuvula akhawunti yokuqala yebhanki.

7. Emma and maks Entoni - amawele abazali odumileyo Dzhey Lo kunye Marc Anthony. Ngomhla wokuzalwa zabo salungelelaniswa amaqela emikhulu, apho kwakufuneka ukuba loo msebenzi wokumkani amawaka 200 eerandi uyise nonina. Umkhosi yayihanjelwe iinkwenkwezi ezininzi: Elton Dzhon, Victoria kunye Devid Bekhemy, Pizza kunye nabanye. Ukongeza eninzi inomyili iimpahla amatakane waze wanika Urhashaza phezu diamond.

8. Beyonce and Jay-Z uyayazi indlela yokukhulisa umntwana ibhuqiwe. Ukubhiyozela le mini yesibini yokuzalwa intombi yakhe, Blyu Ayvi Carter, abazali wamnika ihashe nabaKhulisi amahashe Isidanish, wena uhlawule 75 amawaka eerandi. It lolu sana kakuhle kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba wayeyoliswa kakhulu kwezilwanyana.

9. Max Bratman - unyana wayeyimvumi odumileyo Christina Aguilera. Yaye akumangalisi ukuba emva kokuzalwa kwakhe, ngoko nangoko waqalisa bahlambe kubunewunewu. Owayesakuba Nkosikazi Bratman bayisindisile akukho mali kusana lwakhe. nursery lwakhe bahlala iinyanga ezine: ifenitshala yoyilo Max kakuhle enziwa ukuze okhethekileyo. Ngenxa yoko, ukuyilwa "izindlu basebukhosini ', unyana ka-Christina uchithe amawaka 35 eerandi.

Ngoku sinokugqiba ukuba enoba usisityebi nosaziwayo okanye umntu oqhelekileyo, musa lokukhathalela kwimfundo yabantwana babo. Ngapha koko, wobeka phi na uqhoboshela kule iinzame nothando eziya kuchaphazela ikamva labo.

Ngebhaqo wafumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho - a ndini ibhuqiwe?! Imiqondiso ekubhekiswa kuwo kweli nqaku liza kunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyenziwa lo ngokwenene. Kunye nengcebiso enikwe kwiingcaphephe entsimini sengqondo kuya kukunceda kwakhona kuyo. Kwaye uya kumangaliswa ngayo umntwana wakho uya kunandipha ubomi nawe!