Imfundo kwabantwana ngokwesondo

Yintoni na imfundo sex? Sesikolweni xa engakanani ngobudala kufuneka aqale incoko nabantwana kwi "elihlazo 'umxholo? Nokuba kungakanani kufuneka uye kulo mba?

Kakhulu inkolelo sicinge ukuba imfundo ngesondo abantwana besebancinane - oko kuphela kakuhle ekhethwe zokudlala kunye nempahla. Oko kukuthi, amakhwenkwe nayiphi na imeko ayikwazi kunikwa ukudlala oonopopi yokudlala posudku kunye namantombazana contraindicated oomatshini, oomatshini kunye neeglavu amanqindi. Nangona kunjalo, Kakade ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukuyilwa isizukulwana eliphumayo ukubuza umntu kwicala elifanelekileyo.

Kodwa ungakhathazeki ukuba inkwenkwe uqala ukudlala posudku okanye uzama ukuthunga unodoli isinxibo entsha - i abathungi zibhetele epheka ukuba amadoda ingqalelo ukususela kwixesha lakudala. Ngoko ke akukho mfuneko engxolisa unyana wakhe okanye ukumgculela kule meko.

Omnye umbuzo, ukuba inkwenkwe, ukudlala, ukuzama ukondla unodoli 'isifuba. " Apha kule ngongoma kufuneka sele basazise abadala. imfundo Sex, nto leyo ngokuqinisekileyo asuka nzulu ebuntwaneni bam, ikakhulu kufuneka ezingabo lwangaphakathi yokuqhelwaniswa umntu kwindima yakhe elizayo entsatsheni: uyise nokuba ngunina. Umntwana lowo kweminyaka emibini Kuyinto nako ukuchonga kunye uyise nokuba ngunina, ukuphindaphinda nabo kumdlalo iipateni zabo zokuziphatha. Fine, xa kulawula elinomoya okholekileyo, kuncedana nokuqonda.

Kwaye yintoni engalunganga ukuba usana ukhwela ukunceda umama ahlambe izitya - ezininzi ooyihlo elungileyo musani ukuyeka nzima kangaka! Imbi into: xa uyise nonyana ayimise encinane odorgivaet: "? Ngaba ngokwenene umfazi, kwisinki bemthandele ukuba sisebenzise 'Uphindo amagama kamva daddy, umntu oyindoda omdala bekuya kuba ukujongelwa umsebenzi lwabasetyhini, soze kunceda umama wakhe nomfazi, babe baberhabaxa kwaye chorstvym . Kwaye uyise okulungileyo, naye ingqalelo unyana wakhe, wamnika ingcaciso kunokuba umntu ntoni, yaye yintoni - abafazi. Noko ke, imfundo sex ezinjalo wenza okubi ngakumbi engqondweni yomntwana, kunokuba inzuzo.

Kodwa ke kunzima ukuba ukufundisa kakuhle ikamva woMntu kwintsapho enomzali omnye, apho ngeenxa kuphela abasetyhini ezinye kwaye akukho umzekelo akukho mntu yokwenene kaThixo. imfundo sex kwiintsapho enjalo ngokupheleleyo osimelela emagxeni yamabhinqa. Kakade ke, ulwazi olusisiseko kwezi iintsapho bazama ukufundisa umntwana wakho nge imidlalo iincwadi, iimovie, imidlalo, indima-idlala. Kamva Uyeza uncedo yesikolo. Kakuhle, ukuba iziko inkwenkwe emfundo abantwana wadibana utitshala olungileyo - indoda ngubani na kumnika umzekelo indoda yokwenene - indoda intsapho!

Umba yesibini ebalulekileyo kwimfundo ngokwesondo bamandulo bakholelwa imfundo ngesondo. Kodwa akufuneki ibe indawo sex imfundo sex: eyokuqala kuphela yinxalenye yesibini. Nangona awukwazi kusithela kuye phantsi titsongahata bobuxoki okanye ukungakhathali wayenza, ukubalisa amabali kid umdla malunga nalapho iintsana zivela.

Kakade ke, iinkcukacha minor usana egezayo ukuba achaze indlela amadoda ngesondo kunye nabafazi, ukukhulelwa uthatha indlela ndawo zonke iinkcukacha nokomzimba. Kodwa nantsi impendulo itakane kwi umbuzo yaba kakhulu kunokwenzeka ngokucacileyo.

Rebonochka esiswini sakhe uvelisa kumakazi. Yena nzima, okanye kube buhlungu, kodwa okona akuthandayo kakhulu umntwana wakhe, khon 'ukuze eve konke oku. Kwaye umama wakho kwakungelula Andinakunithwala, kodwa ngenene, ngenene ndinithandileyo nina sele, kwaye uyakuthanda kude kube ngoku! Xa umntwana kwi mama kwesisu ikhula ubungakanani ezinqwenelekayo, esibhedlele wanyuselwa phandle, uMakazi uyawondla ubisi. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana Kwanele oku. Le nguqulelo Ubeka umphefumlo waloo mntwana, nokuba uyinkwenkwe okanye intombazana, intlonipho, uthando kumfazi-nonina.

Kamva, ngokufuthi sele yi kweminyaka 6 - 7, abantwana baqala ukuzibuza omnye umbuzo: indlela abantwana bangene esiswini kumama wam? Ngokuqhelekileyo abakule minyaka yobudala abantwana sele eqala ukuya esikolweni. Ngoko akumele kuba lo mbuzo wokugqibela kukuba isikolo imfundo ngokwesondo kufuneka ningaqali kwibakala 9, kodwa kakhulu ngaphambili - ukususela kwiklasi yokuqala.

Uyakwazi ukumema umsebenzi lonyango eklasini okanye kwisayikholojisti unako inku- kubanjwa ngokwahlukeneyo amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana. Kodwa ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukubamba iiseshoni ezinjalo kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo. Kungenjalo, abantwana bethu baya kufunda kwicala kakhulu nokuthantamisa nobumnandi lamakholwane yobomi evela kwimithombo athandabuzekayo sibafundise konke oku engcolile, avanyisa, ezonakele ukukhanya.