Half-umzalwana - ngubani na le nto?

Nezo ubudlelwane kwiintsapho akukho lula ukuqonda, akumangalisi ukuba maxa wambi abantu akayiqondi intsingiselo 'isiqingatha-umzalwana "," isiqingatha-udade ", bekudidekisa kanye nenxenye-umzalwana nodade wabo.

Izihlobo okanye ku-imithetho

Xa intliziyo mihlaba yi emtshatweni phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, nto leyo ekhokelela ukuvela nxulumano omabini amaqabane kunye nezalamane ngalinye enye, kwakunye izalamane kunye naphakathi amaqabane. Ezi buhlobo ngokuba iimpawu kunye inqanyulelwe, njengoko umthetho, kunye ukupheliswa komtshato.

Komzali nganye amaqabane zangaphambili kuphakamisa omunye iliza yonxulumano yinqobo kuye. sele beza, kwaye abantwana emtshatweni wakhe wokuqala. ngoko ke ukuze babonakale isiqingatha-abazalwana noodade.

Ngoko ke ntoni "isiqingatha-umzalwana '? "Consolidated" inqaku ezithunyelwe magama Ushakov. Ngokutsho kwakhe, nakwisiqingatha umzalwana - na unyana utata okanye kaVan, ingcaciso esifanayo, kwaye ibinzana elithi "isiqingatha-udade". Isishwankathelo abantwana - abantwana kwimitshato yangaphambili, amadoda kunye nabafazi, zihlangene olunye nolunye kwi kwimitshato yabo yesibini. Abayi lomthonyama, kodwa "inkcazelo" kuphela intsapho jikelele. Ngaphandle koko, iya kuthi isishwankathelo abazalwana noodade abangenabazali lodaka, idityaniswe ubuhlobo usapho, kodwa hayi nomini eziphilayo.

Xa usapho elisandul 'ukusekwa angafumana umntwana kunye amaqabane, okanye eziliqela. Nabantwana kwimitshato yangaphambili umntwana kwabonakala ukuba ngumzali eqhelekileyo, aba bazalwana noodade kuthiwa aluzali. Phakathi kwazo kukho ukungcola: abo ubawo eqhelekileyo, ebizwa nakwisiqingatha kunye nabo nomama eqhelekileyo - zesibeleko. Abazalwana noodade anesiqingatha izalamane igazi, ukuba ngokusemthethweni amalungelo afanayo ngokupheleleyo-gazi.

ukuntsonkotha ubudlelwane

Kubomi bomntwana, nto leyo itakane kuphela entsatsheni, ngesiquphe ukuvela stepsister okanye stepbrother. Oku ngokupheleleyo utshintsha ubomi bakhe kwaye ufuna ukutshintsha imikhwa ezininzi. Ingxaki yokuqala sinxulumene nomqathango zaloo mntu. Umhlalaphantsi ngoku kunokwenzeka kuphela xa ucango luvaliwe kwi lock. Ukuxabana lunokwenzeka ngenxa usebenzisa lokuhlambela ukuba umntu emntwaneni ichitha ixesha elininzi. Kaloku akukho nto iya ngokupheleleyo abanini ngumntu omnye wabantwana. Kufuneka ukwabelana iithoyi, ikhompyutha kunye yomnxeba. Phakathi isiqingatha abantwana badla khona umbango ngenxa yothando imfutshane bonke abazali babo.

Zibandakanyeke phezu eziphathwa isicwangciso cover into entle eyenza umntwana isiqingatha-udade okanye isiqingatha-mzalwana. Oku, umzekelo, ithuba lokuba ndibe nganeno kumntu lowo unako ukudlala, oko kukuthi kakhulu ezinomdla kakhulu kunokuba wedwa lonke ixesha. Umsebenzi wesikolo ngoku yahlulwe inani elikhulu lamalungu osapho. Nokuba zingaphi amathuba ukunxibelelana! Ukuba isiqingatha-abazalwana okanye oodade ingafumana ulwimi eqhelekileyo, ukuba bangaxoxa ubusuku bonke.

ukunceda abazali

Nceda isiqingatha-abazalwana noodade ukufumana izinto avumelana ngazo kufuneka ibe ngabazali. ukuziphatha kuphela ilungile, umonde obungapheliyo, ukukwazi ukulindela ukuphelisa izinto ezimbi kuya kunceda abantwana basuka aweve neengxabano yonxibelelwano kunye nemidlalo. Emva kwexesha, abantwana ezidityanisiweyo baqala uyavana omnye komnye, ulwalamano phakathi kwazo banobuhlobo. Ke kaloku, ubuntwana iyonke indibanisa ngokukhawuleza isiqingatha-abazalwana noodade, abantu kunzima kakhulu ngakumbi abantu abadala ukuba babe ngabahlobo abasenyongweni. Ngoko ke isiqingatha-umzalwana - oku isizalwane, isihlobo-in-mthetho, kodwa yena ngokwakhe akanako ube ngumhlobo olungileyo.