Indlela ukuba utshintshe ubomi bakho?

Abangabazi ukufunda isihloko senqaku, ukuze abuze: "Yintoni ilungelo othile engaziwayo ukucebisa ukutshintsha njani ubomi kuba ngcono?"

Ndicinga nga ukunika ezimbalwa la macebiso, ngokuba ndakwenza oko. Mna batshintsha ubomi bam. Kule ndlela ifanelekileyo.

Emva kokuba umtshato elide enzima, mna bendisele kunye nabantwana ababini. Kwaye ngoko kwafika ngokutsha. Kwaye ngaphandle kokuba umsebenzi onzima yokufundisa amantombazana kungekudala wanciphiswa ingxaki elula: indlela ukondla iintombi zabo? Ngaloo mihla kwakungekho ixesha lokucinga malunga nendlela ukutshintsha ubomi ngenxa ngcono. Kwafuneka ukuba enze. Nomvuzo Awahlawulwa iinyanga, kwaye imali leyo, ukuba abantu ezinkulu, thenga kwiivenkile nto. Kodwa ndandifuna kwakhona ukunika imfundo kubo abantwana. Emini ndisebenze, ngoko moonlighted, ngoko yanceda omncinane ukwenza izifundo kunye nesinxibo amakhulu Alter-bathunga: yona benza isangqa wokubonelwa. Ke wazalwa i umzukulwana sikhulile, kwakukho ixesha ngaphantsi. Ingcamango ukuba ixesha ukutshintsha ubomi bakho bube bhetele, nje musa ukuza engqondweni yam.

Kwaye ke ngesiquphe ikhule abantwana nje kuphela kodwa umzukulwana. Ndaye azifuneki. Into ukuba ngelo xesha? Ukusebenza, nditarhuzisileyo lancipha, iinzuzo kuphekwe ... ubulolo. Akukho abahlobo, akukho indoda, kungekho nethemba.

Apha umbuzo zendlela yokwenza umahluko yaba ubambo. Ukhetho yayincinane: noba yenza utshintsho, okanye a engqondweni.

Ndaqalisa ukwenza etyeni yaye angenzi, kodwa ukwenza.

Ukuqalisa weza kwi Simoron. Kukho indawo enjalo. Ukuba ugqiba ukuba utshintshe isiphelo sakho, qala kunye naye. Apho unako udlamke, ukufumana abahlobo. Kwaye kukho amacandelo umdla: Indlela eya Ubutyebi, Iminqwenelo, luncedo kunye oluninzi kwezinye. Bathanda kwaye engaphucukanga, kodwa ekuqaleni kwisenzo amaphupha ubugcisa, ndoziqiqa ngokwam yintoni kanye ndifuna.

Ngoku ndiyazi ukuba utshintshe njani ubomi ngcono. Liye laqulunqa uluhlu iminqweno, iindlela ukuphunyezwa zabo. Ukuze bahlukane ndidandatheka ukucamngca. Wandula ke wathabatha yena esandleni waza waqalisa ukuya kufuna umsebenzi. Ndandingasekho engama-40 ubudala, ngoko ukufumana indawo esihle ngaphezu nzima.

Ochwayithileyo Simoron kwafuneka atshintshe kwiziza ngendlela ukukhangela ngokufanelekileyo umsebenzi, nendlela aphila ngayo. Icebo bengqondo, kwezentlalo, nabaqeshi undincedile: Ndiye kuye umsebenzi omkhulu. Ube linyathelo lakho lesibini: baqale ukwenza oko kumnandi.

Ngenxa yokuba a mood embi maxa wambi wabuya, kunye nabahlobo yaye akazange avele, ngokuhlwa, ndandisoloko wahlala kwi web. Kwenye kwiiforam Ndadibana nendoda. Thina nayo ngokuhlonela, izimvo akazange avume, siye ngelithi iiveki ezimbini. Wandula ke phezu uhambo ishishini emzini wam. Thina kweminyaka emine, watshata.

Yenza i Inyathelo lesithathu: Fumana phezu kwakho, qala ujonge ukuba iqabane umphefumlo wakho. Hayi ngoko nangoko, kodwa uya kuwufumana. Kwaye xa abantu omthanda kunye umsebenzi ozithandayo, oko ihlala kuphela ukufumana abahlobo.

Siye entsha ubuhlobo ubudala, ukufumana abahlobo abatsha kunye izinto ezifanayo. kwafika abathile kuwo bemka, eshiya umkhondo ebomini bethu, umntu waba ngumhlobo osenyongweni.

Yiya abahlobo ubudala, ukufumana abantu abatsha. Ngapha koko, akukho nto lathatha, akukho wazuza.

Abo abafuni ukujonga umsebenzi, abahlobo abatsha, omthandayo, kodwa bemangalisiwe ukutshintsha njani ubomi bakho kuba ngcono unako ukunika ingcebiso njenge ngengqondo (oku isidanga wam wokuqala):

• Musa ukoyika eliphupha. Musa ukubonis nomfanekiso wakho. Dream wasebenza rhoqo. Ke yenyama iingcinga, kunye namaphupha kuzaliseka. Ukuze oku kwenzeke kamsinya, wenze imaphu iminqweno.
• Khetha injongo, wozibeka ngayo ngokokulandelelana kwazo. Kwaye izimisele kuyo, nangona iingxaki. Ukuhamba - soloko efika kwisiphelo.
• Musa ukwenza into andiyithandi kuwe. ukwenza nje izinto ozithandayo, uya konwaba ngokwabo.
• Musa ukusika wena. Ngokuhlwa, UPawulos imini, avuyisane ngokwakho ngokuba nako ngokukhethekileyo. Hlela ngomso. Ukwenza njalo rhoqo, uya uqonde into ofuna nendlela ukutshintsha ubomi ngcono.
• Balila iinkcukacha ukuze anandiphe lukhulu.

luck Good kuwe!