Lithathelwe umntwana enkulisa: amagama ambalwa malunga nokubaluleka

Kuzo zonke usapho kuza ixesha apho umntwana uza ukukhokela enkulisa. lula Abantwana abaninzi unokufumana wasebenzisa kwindawo ezintsha kunye nokusingqongileyo, kodwa inkoliso ayikwazi nangoko ukwamkela olo tshintsho. Ngoko ke, kukho ezinye iingxaki, leyo kuphetshwe ngokulungiselela kakuhle umntwana ndaza ndaqwalasela iimeko ezithile ukunxibelelana naye.

Ngokubanzi, kukhubazeko nokulungiswa umntwana enkulisa kulula ukuba usana ukunika emva kweminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-5. Eli lixesha kakhulu ukuba umntwana ukuqonda zonke iingenelo yomyezo kunye nokufikelela nabantwana, kwaye babe baqhele-bume entsha. Ukuziqhelanisa Sadiq kufuneka kuqale emva kokuba umntwana ithe yaqabela umbundu layo njengoko "kindergartner", yaye kungekudala ngaphambi koko. Umama Kufuneka buye accustom usana ukuba ingcamango umyezo, ukubonisa, ukuthetha ngezinto ezintle ngotyelelo lwakhe. Kwinyanga ngaphambi kokuba umama uza kunika umntwana, umele uchithe ixesha ngaphantsi naye kunesiqhelo. Oku kwenzelwa ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ufumana ukuze ingcamango ukunqongophala umama ixesha elithile.

Kuyimfuneko ukuba ngokutsha ixesha ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana okhule enkulisa: abanekratshi nenzala yabo (nguye elikhulu, ngoko ke ukuwela umbundu enkulisa), bonisa abantwana badlale indlela apho into abayenzayo. Noko ke, musa ungayibaxi: musa ukuthetha malunga notshintsho ezayo rhoqo, ukuze nomkhwezeli.

Ukuze kukhubazeko nokulungiswa umntwana enkulisa waya ngakumbi ngempumelelo, rhoqo kufuneka babe nalo usana esidlangalaleni, phakathi zombini abadala kunye nabantwana: hamba, ukuba batyelele iipaka, indawo labantwana, apho kukho isihlwele esikhulu kwabantwana. Oku kwenzelwa ukuqinisekisa ukuba usana akoyiki kwengxoxo kunye solulelwe kuye.

Kwakhona lithathelwe abantwana kuxhomekeke kakhulu kukhetho lwakho yeziko kwaye katitshala, ogama iqela na umntwana wakho. Xa ukhetha enkulisa kuyimfuneko ukuvavanya embindini kunye nempahla egumbini ngokubanzi ingakumbi kweli qela. Ingxolo, ukuhleka nolonwabo - iimpawu eziphambili zokuyilahla loo meko. Ukuba ngethuba lotyelelo enokuba ningawevanga, kunye nesandi; khangela esinye isikolo. Ukongeza koku, kuhlangana komkhapheli, khangela kuye. Umele babe nesimilo esihle kuphela. Kufuneka nabo banibikele malunga iimpawu umntwana wakho: ubuntu bakhe, inqanaba kwezakhono zonxibelelwano kunye nophuhliso, ezi nkcukacha yokuziphatha.

Lithathelwe umntwana enkulisa kuxhomekeke kuhlobo uqala kuqala kuvele umntwana. Okokuqala, khumbula ukuba, akuba ndafumana umntwana apho, musani ukukha ingalo yakhe ngogonyamelo, yena uyindulule iye yedwa. Okokuqala, kungcono ukuba babe kunye naye; malive kid kakuhle kwaye liya kuyeka ukuba woyike. Qiniseka ukuba simkholise ukuba uza kubuya aze bambambe.

Kubalulekile xa ngokwahlula ukuba kuyilibazisa-ntle. Ukukhathazeka ebusweni bakho baya zigqithiswe itakane, yaye akafuni ukuba uhambe. Ukuba umntwana nzima ukuba ahlukane kunye nomama wakhe, kungcono ukucela kwiiveki zokuqala ezimbalwa uyise, wathabatha kude unyana okanye intombi.

Ukuze alungelelanise umntwana enkulisa liyaphumelela, unako ukunika kulo yokudlala oyithandayo. Emva koko, ukuba uyavuma ukuhamba naye ebusuku, sithwalwe nawe yonke imihla.

Maxa wambi iimeko ezinjalo kuvela xa umntwana akafuni kwamkela utitshala, ikhalazela ngayo yaye akafuni ukunxibelelana naye. Kulo mzekelo, ukuba imeko kubalulekile, zama ukuguqulela kwenye iqela. Musa amenze ubunzima kunye namava: oko kuchaphazela ngokungalunganga psyche umntwana.

Khumbula ukuba umntwana kufuneka kuqhutywa enkulisa ukuba badlale yaye ukusebenzisana kunye noontanga babo. Asimele silibale ukuba umyezo kunye nosapho - izinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba awufuni ukuya ngayo abantwana babo nokubonelela ngamathuba ophuhliso kunye nemfundo enkulisa ngokupheleleyo, oko kuya kuchaphazela kakubi abantwana bakho. Kufuneka uthando lwabazali kunye enkulisa - oko kuphela kweyunithi abangabancedani, yaye awunakho ukwenza ngolunye uhlobo.