Indlela yokufumana ishishini nje? Indlela ukuya umsebenzi wakho okuthandayo?

Ngenye imini phambi kokuba umntu omdala ngamnye umbuzo umbuzo: yokufumana indlela ishishini nje? Ngapha koko, ukuzeyisa ukuqaphela unika ulonwabo yokwenene yobomi kwaye kuzisa umvuzo ophucukileyo. Ukuba wenza oko kuwe, omthandayo, ngoko ke umsebenzi lula, kuba ukukhula ngokukhawuleza leri umsebenzi kunye nezakhono ukhula chu. Fumana umsebenzi na ukuba kuthiwe "ishishini wam", yaye nayiphi kusasa uya kuba okulungileyo, yaye bonke ubomi buya kuzisa uvuyo kakhulu ngakumbi.

Kutheni khetha okuthile wonke

Society kanjalo yakhiwe ukuba ngamnye amalungu alo kufuneka zinendawo ethile, leyo igalelo layo eliphezulu elibonakalayo kuphuhliso lwayo. Ubukhulu becala, umbuzo yokufumana njani into ngokokuthanda kwakhe, elalijongene kuphela nabantu. Abaninzi bakhetha ukuba ukhetha ezilu-.

Uhamba charted ngomnye umntu ngendlela, umntu akakwazi ukucinga, kutheni ukuba ukuphelela ngokwaneleyo ubomi, akukho imvakalelo uvuyo ndandifeketha na. Ubomi bethu iqulathe zihlandlo ezininzi injabulo ezininzi. Umsebenzi kuthatha ubuncinane iiyure ezingama-40 ngeveki, kwaye ukuba umsebenzi okhethiweyo akanalo ayiyoyomtyali emphefumlweni, ngoko kakhulu imigudu kuya ukoyisa ukwaliwa ingenanto kwaye ongenakunceda nto kodwa imali, ixesha.

Ukuba into ukuba bathi, "Ewe, oko ishishini lam," kunye nemvakalelo yokulungelelanisa yakwalubala ngeke. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, umsebenzi ozithandayo kuya kubangela iimvakalelo ezintle uze uzise ulwaneliseko iziphumo. Abo lucky ngubani ngokuzithemba uthi: "Ndiyayithanda umsebenzi wam" a ukukrokrelana malunga ekhwela yokuqala, imizuzu nje embalwa ngaphambi kokuphela kolo suku kwaye abanye veki, hayi bathuthunjiswe ingcamango ubomi ngqwabalala bemihla ngemihla. Abantu abanjalo bonwabile-gingxi.

Iimpawu ukuba umntu waziphatha "hayi yakhe 'into

umsebenzi abamthandi banokubenzakalisa ngokwenene impilo yakho. uxinzelelo elide ikhokelela utshintsho ezithile kwamadlala, mvisiswano leyo, kwelinye icala, esilimaza ukusebenza kweenkqubo zomzimba womntu. Noko ke, ezinye iimpawu kungabonwa kokuba kuya kubakho iingxaki ezinkulu.

Ukungazi ukufumana njani into ngokokuthanda kwakhe, umntu abangene kungekhona into ayifunayo, badla nokuba uyayiqonda ubungakanani bengxaki. Iimpawu, nto leyo ukubona ukuba lo msebenzi efanelekileyo:

• akukho ulwaneliseko iziphumo zomsebenzi - amaholo akonwabanga, kwanokuba oko kwazi, Kuphezulu, waphumelela ithenda akubangeli uchulumanco badumise abaphathi baqonda kunokuba irritably;
• kungekho kungenzeka okanye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, umnqweno ukuphuhlisa kwinkonzo yabo;
• Akukho mnandi kum inkqubo umsebenzi, kubonakala uyadika, ekruqulayo engenamsebenzi;
• ngokucacile Andikuthandi naliphi na iqela okanye umsebenzi ulawulo; Oku, ke umqondiso ngqo, kodwa ukuba emva kokuba utshintsho umsebenzi yonke yenzeke kwakhona, ndicinga: mhlawumbi isibakala sokuba eli tyala - hayi into ofuna ukunikela ubomi bam bonke;
• kukho imvakalelo rhoqo ukuba unika ngaphezu uthatha; iibhonasi, nemivuzo, iibhonasi, indumiso - konke kubonakala ukuba labayo;
• ingcinga Ityhefu kusasa ngoMvulo ekuphumleni ngeCawe kunye neeyure zokusebenza ndasolula ngonaphakade.

Kakade ke, zonke ezi mpawu kufuneka kuqwalaselwa entsonkothileyo, unako nokudinwa banal, kunye baphelelwe. Kodwa xa umsebenzi okhethiweyo kwi ubizo wentliziyo, ukudinwa udlula emva kweeholide, kwaye ingxaki iyatyhilwa kunye baphelelwe kwengqondo. Ukuba impendulo yakho nguewe kule ubuncinane isiqingatha imibuzo, ngoko ke lixesha lokuba ucinge ukuba ukhethe njani into abangayithandiyo. Kwaye, ungafuna ukutshintsha ububanzi bemisebenzi ukufumana imfundo engakumbi okanye zama ukuvula ishishini.

Yintoni eyenza ukuba njalo umphefumlo

Umntu ngamnye abe umsebenzi, utyekelo ezithile kunye ukuthambekela kwimisebenzi ethile. Kanye kunye isigqibo lo mbuzo: "Yintoni na loo nto kum ishawa?", Uya kufumana ulonwabo kuqonda injongo yawo.

Wonke umntu kufuneka alwele kangangoko uluntu. wenza kanye into ayithandayo ngokuzinikela ngokupheleleyo nokubeka onke amandla, uya kufumana iziphumo ubuninzi. Lowo ifumana umsebenzi bakhe, elindele ukuba umsebenzi brilliant kunye imbuyekezo onesidima umgudu.

Wazi njani ukuba ityala ekhethiweyo - into oyithandayo?

Kwakhona kuyenzeka ukuba umsebenzi okhethiweyo njengazo, kodwa akazange afumane ukumisela ukuba ingaba i-ubizo liyafezekiswa. Kukho eziliqela iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba impendulo yombuzo yokufumana njani into ngokokuthanda kwakhe, banikwa abathembekileyo:

• Umsebenzi ayikho nje umthombo wengeniso kodwa kubangela ulwaneliseko;
• kukho umnqweno kunye nethuba lokuba self-uphuhliso kunye yokukhulisa kulo msebenzi awuqeqeshelweyo ;
• ufumana uyolo yokwenene evela komsebenzi, wenza uyolo phezulu, ukhuthazo evela kubaphathi bakhe hola limnandi;
• kanye kanye indawo yomsebenzi - wokwakha, ofisi, emisebenzini; nabo, abangaphantsi nabaphathi - konke oku, okanye uninzi, achukumisa iimvakalelo HIV;
• ube nomnqweno akhule kweli candelo nokudlulisela ulwazi lwabo kwabanye;
• kukho ingqiqo umgudu yovavanyo luyasebenza.

Ukuba impendulo yakho nguewe kule isiqingatha okanye ngaphezulu amanqaku, vuyani - ishishini ezikhethiweyo kwaye ukubizwa kwenu okwenyaniso.

Uphendlo lwetyala isibheno

amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba umntu angalaziyo ngoko nangoko endaweni yakhe kweli hlabathi aze abone akukho mfuneko ukutshintsha into. Xa sikhula, kuba nzima ukuba nijike utshintshe ubomi babo. Kodwa ukoyika musa. Yaye 20, no-60 ze emva kwexesha ukuqala yonke kwakhona.

Ukuze isigqibo ukuba lifikile ixesha lokuba ngathi kunjalo, ngokwaneleyo ukuba baqonde: umsebenzi yangoku engazisi kuphela ukwaneliseka, kodwa kufuneka bachithe amandla akho engqondo ukoyisa uxhathiso. Akuyomfuneko ukuba ubomi ukulandela umkhondo engqushiweyo, ukuba ibangela iimvakalelo ezimbi kuphela. Ezazichaza imfuneko yokutshintsha, uzive ukhululekile liqhubeke khangela entsha. inkqubo Ukufuna isibheno kunokuba umdla kakhulu kunye nengqesho enemveliso.

Amanyathelo okuqala ukutshintsha umsebenzi:

• kuthetha-thethana neengcali kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo;
• ukufumana lunee okanye ngokutsha ukufumana kumiswa yesibini;
• Fumanisa ukuba njani ngetyala ngenxa yophuhliso lwamashishini amancinci;
• zama ngokupheleleyo ukutshintsha le meko, umzekelo, ndikhwele inyanga elalini.

Imiqobo ukuba umsebenzi uthanda

Ukufumana ubizo lwenu, usenokudibana inani nemiqobo, kodwa musa izakunikezela kwaye utshintshe iphupha. Ukuqhubeka kwaye musa ukuma phambi kokuba nayiphi na kwizithinteli.

Imiqobo amaphupho zoshishino:

• izihlobo bokuxhathisa kwaye nabazali, zingakotshwa ingqalelo kwityala ekhethiweyo ithemba;
• yokunqongophala kwemali ukuze baqeqeshwe ngokutsha;
• yokungabikho kwexesha simahla ukufunda entsha enye;
• iingxaki emisebenzi kwimboniselo yabucala ekhethiweyo.

Phezu kwazo zonke iingxaki, musa izakunikezela kwaye Kananjalo ungatyhafi. Yiya injongo baziswa, nangona amanyathelo ezincinane kakhulu, into engundoqo - ukuba uyakholelwa kwisiqu sakho.

Xa kwafika ixesha lokuba athi "Ndiyayithanda umsebenzi wam"

Kuya kuthatha ixesha elithile, yaye uqinisekile ukuba avakalise eli binzana. Ulonwabo, ulonwabo kunye nenzaliseko ubomi - oko japan kakuhle nelilifaneleyo yokulwa imiqobo. Phuma ummandla intuthuzelo isoloko uthembisa ulwazi olutsha abafowunelwa luncedo kunye novuyo amazwe. Ubomi akufuneki ibe kumgxobhozo buthuntu - ufanelwe umsebenzi oyithandayo!