Ingcali ngeentsapho

wazi nganye kakuhle le meko xa, ngexesha kungalingani yangaphakathi (engqondweni, ukudakumba, amava) kwakufuneka ngaphandle uncedo. Kwaye lo uncedo kubahlobo, obaqhelileyo, usapho kunye nabasebenzi. sengqondo yethu ubalisa ngendlela eqhelekileyo ukuze kulungiswe le ngxaki - isikhalazo izalamane, oogxa, abahlobo. Emva koko, njengoko eYurophu naseMelika, abantu abaqhelekileyo zikhetha uncedo lobungcali. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba iingcali ukusebenza nabantu siphilile kwaye babe nolwazi nobuchule ukuze ngexesha elifutshane kunye ngempumelelo enkulu ukusombulula iingxaki nazo. Kunjalo, iingcebiso nasengqondweni kukunika ithuba ukulungelelanisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwezalamane apho enemveliso therapy ekhitshini. Uncedo abahlobo okanye izalamane ayisoloko kakuhle, ngenxa yokuba: akanayo indlela methodological, ikakhulu, kuba luluvo. Konke oku kukhokelela ekubeni le ngxaki ayilungiseki, kodwa nje kude kube lixesha elilandelayo. Kubonakala ukuba abantu abakhetha ndibano ezilungileyo endala ekhitshini, njengoko isisombululo kule ngxaki idla ukufumana isiphumo eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kunokuba ufuna. Kakade ke, oku akuthethi ukuba ukubonakala kumcimbi ngamnye, kufuneka ngoko nangoko uye ingcali, kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa onke kulo, kodwa uhlobo olufanayo imeko ngokuqhelekileyo zifuna uncedo lobungcali.
Xa ufowunela ngokwakho umntu mihla ungaqali ugwebe, ixesha elide, mhlawumbi wafumana ngengqondo yakhe, ezinye uyavuma ngokupheleleyo ubunzima zangaphakathi. wengqondo abucala umntu namhlanje njengoko kuyimfuneko, njengoko, nithi, igqwetha, apho kusoloko kusenzeka ukucela icebiso. Oko kwenza kwisingqi amava obomi isiphithiphithi ebalulekileyo ngokweemvakalelo, nto leyo ekhokelela ukuba unbalance psyche. Yezengqondo koncedo kwenza kube lula ukuba ixesha elifutshane ukuze ufumane iziphumo ezinqwenelekayo ne okungenani ixesha izimali zemali. Private iingcebiso zengqondo inoluhlu lwezinto eziluncedo zingenakuphikwa kuphela phambi unyango ekhaya, nalo kude ngaphambi inkxaso ezinokunika kwizibhedlele zikarhulumente. Kuyimfuneko ukuba kwakhona ukugxininisa ukuba nawuphi na ummi esinengqondo unalo ithuba lokuzuza ingcebiso nasengqondweni. Ngayiphi indlela? Umzekelo, etyelela uqeqesho. Aba masifundisane zinika ithuba lokuphuhlisa kujoliswe ocacileyo impumelelo, ukuqinisekisa ngokufumana amava akhe-bume ezikhuselweyo.
Weni yoqeqesho soyise ezininzi iingxaki ngaphambili kwabonakala ezingenakunyibilika. Ngokwahlukeneyo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuqeqeshwa iqela efakwe isisombululo ziqhelekile iingxaki. Kwezinye iimeko, le iiklasi data kunceda ukufumana iingxaki ezinzulu kwaye ukuba ukufana bahlanganise izakhono zabo practice. Yahlula lungiselelo owaziwayo ngayo Hellinger. Le ndlela yenza kube lula ukoyisa iingxaki, kude angena imvelaphi yayo entsatsheni, kwangaxeshanye wachukumisa kwizizukulwana ezininzi. Kwesi sifundo oluneenkcukacha, nto idla into izicacele, nto leyo ngaphambili akunakwenzeka ukuba bagcine. Isinkwenkwezi ndlela ivumela ukoyisa iingxaki zenkqubo ekufuneka isonjululwe naziphi na ezinye iindlela eziyimfuneko ukuze ixesha elide, yonke ukucacisela enye kuphela. Indlela ngokwayo na uhlobo unyango zexesha elifutshane.