Ingxaki: indlela yokuphila

Ubomi yahlulahlulwe ukuze kungabikho bani ukwazi kakuhle oko kuya kwenzeka kuye elandelayo. Ukubona kwangaphambili ukuba naziphi na Isiphelo sakhe, okanye isiphelo abahlobo nezalamane zabo. Ngubani na ongathi, ukuba ingomso liya agxothwe emsebenzini nto leyo ngokupheleleyo yonke kuye? Ngubani unokuqiniseka ukuba akayi ahlukane ngumntu osondeleyo lokuzalwa? Kufuneka Yomelela, Kakade ke, kufuneka ukuba silungele nantoni na. Kufuneka wazi ukuba siphile ngayo, xa kwakukho ilishwa olukhulu bayiwelayo yonke into yake. Khangela entsha raison d'être kunzima, kodwa ngaphandle nangayiphi na indlela. Nabani na uyazi ukuba aphile ngayo emva kwentlekele, ilahlekile kwaye akukho kuphinda baphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Ezimbi zenzeke. Abanakukwazi ukuba iphetshwe. Ihlabathi ukhohlakele, kodwa useza utshabalalisa okulungileyo okuninzi.

Ndinokuqhubeka njani ubomi

Ilahleko imanyumnyezi umntu ukulahleka umntu omthandayo, kwakusentliziyweni. Bazali, abahlobo, usapho, omthandayo omnye ... Xa ukufa angayivala ubomi bomnye. Ngakumbi rhoqo kwenzeka xa abantu abasondeleyo ngenene, xa umntu akakwazi ngokwam ngqondweni ngaphandle enye.

Bonke abantu uzicingela. Kufuneka uthathe lula. Kholwani ndim, umntu ofileyo akunakwenzeka ukuba ndifuna ukuba ubeke aphelise ubomi bakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo umele ukuba wayefuna ukuba ufumane amandla kwakhona kunye nesihamba ngayo. Gcina lo mfanekiso entliziyweni yakho, kodwa sijonge phambili ngethemba, kunye nokwazi ukuba unako kwakhona ukuba onwabe. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kufuneka achithe ixesha elininzi neenzame kubuyela ezingqondweni. kakuhle kakhulu, ukuba kukho abo bakwaziyo ukunceda nokuva intlungu yakho. Ukuba akunjalo, zama ukufumana inkxaso phakathi kwabo baye balahlekelwa umntu omthandayo.

Indlela yokuphila emva njengokonzakala esinzulu? Akukho nto shame ukwazi ukuba asisoze sikwazi ukuba sibe njengaye wonke umntu. Kodwa ngaba baphile ubomi apha? Kwihlabathi kusoloko kukho umntu mbi kunawe. Qiniseka - abaninzi zatshintsha iindawo kunye nawe. Akufunekanga udangele. Enyanisweni, amathuba mikhulu yaye abantu phantse mda. Cinga amadoda amakhulu abaphulukana izandla, funda ukudlala ukuba ukhubazekile a imilenze isixhobo somculo, wabhala iincwadi ezinkulu. Abantu abaninzi kuphela emzimbeni ezinako ukudala iintsapho ezomeleleyo baphila ngolonwabo emva. Bakwenza njani oko? Ewe, bazi nje indlela ukuthatha ubunyani lula makaqonde ukuba kakhulu abakwazi ukutshintsha. Eqonda konke oku, bafunda ukuba nemihlali yokuba kukho. Akukho namnye kubo uyabuza: "ukuba siya kuphila kuyo." Baya nje siphile ngokuvisisana nehlabathi.

Ungakhathazeki ngenxa yokuba beye waphelelwa ngumsebenzi? Abantu abaninzi musa ngokwenene ukwazi ukuba siphile ngayo, ukuba sinyamalale, ukuba bathi owoyamaniswe kuyo. Kholwani ndim, ukuphelelwa ngumsebenzi - ukuba akukho sizathu ukuba ekhandiweyo ekoneni kwaye ucinga ukuba ubomi buphelile. Khumbula ukuba abantu abaninzi baba kakhulu ngenxa yokuba ngaxa lithile anikwa ukukhaba elungileyo. Siyohluleka neelahleko kwenza kube lula ukuqala ukusuka ekuqaleni, kodwa ke ukucinga. Veki uchithe ixesha elininzi kwaye zange afumane nto? Musa ukuba engevayo! Uye wafumana amava esixabiseke eziya kuba luncedo kwixesha elizayo.

Indlela bephila emva ekuphazanyisweni zakho ozithandayo mntu? Le isihloko nokuva kangangokuba ukuba uhlobo olutsha nto kuthi. Cinga intloko yakho. Ukuba ngenene ufuna lo mntu - mlo. Ukuba ukulwa engazisi iziphumo, okanye ebangela umntu ubuhlungu (hayi nje wena) - kumka ngesidima. Bafuna ukuhlala bonwabile ngaphandle kwakho - baphile. Ihlabathi inkulu, yaye olo thando ebomini kwenzeka kanye kuphela - ezingento. Ukuba uziva kakubi emva ligqobha indlu, ngoko mhlawumbi, uphoswa akanguye ngokwakhe umntu, aze ke okunike. Nje kancinci ukuphuhlisa ukuqala ubomi obutsha.

Ngethemba, la macebiso kuya kukunceda ukusombulula iingxaki ezithile. Musa amandla, yaye bonke baya kuba kakuhle.