Self-ibinzana - yintoni leyo? uhlobo nkulumo

Kweli nqaku sithetha ukuzichaza. Esi sihloko umdla kakhulu echaphazela uluhlu lwemiba. Eneneni, kutheni na kubaluleke kangaka ukuba abantu bakwazi ukuba baveze izimvo zabo? Kuba yintoni na, ukuba ngubani, yintoni hlobo, kutheni abaninzi abantu baneentloni ukubonisa ihlabathi ungabi kwaye kula mava ukubandezeleka kakhulu ophathekayo? Ekugqibeleni, oko simele siqonde yi igama elithi "ibinzana elithi"? Makhe zama ukujongana nemiba asakhulayo.

Self-ibinzana - yintoni oku?

Ndingathanda ukuchaza isivakalisi esinye, kodwa kuyabonakala ukuba akuyi kusebenza, ngenxa yokuba nkqu izichazi ngqo yaye ngokuqhelekileyo yavele nje, senze le nto, ukuba wayediniwe.

Sinokuthi ibinzana womntu - eli lilinge lakhe evakalisa kwihlabathi ngaphakathi kwezinye kubonakaliswa yangaphandle. Xa ngezenzo, ngamazwi, nangezenzo, njalo njalo. E. Kukho actualization yangaphandle isiqulatho engabonakaliyo yangaphakathi (iinkolelo zakho ngamnye, iimvakalelo, zengqondo, njalo njalo. D.). Kwaye lusoloko ukuze umlinganiswa ufowuna okanye ingxwaba (kaninzi kwenzeka elivisayo). Nkulumo ubuntu yi sisenzo nenkululeko, umgangatho walo kubalulekile ayikho ulwazi esinengqiqo spontaneity.

Kutheni kukho imfuneko self-mazwi?

Siphila kwihlabathi inzima kakhulu. Ubomi sibonakala ezininzi izithintelo umntu: .. Moral, inkolo, ezentlalo, njl Ukuba bekungenjalo, ubuntu, mhlawumbi kwakudala abasekho. Kodwa abantu abakwazi ingaguqulwa njani na ibe ubunzima egalelwe ongwevu, iingxaki ekhathazeka kuphela okuphila abo. Ngethamsanqa, sinenkululeko nobuntu eyenza ngamnye unique, omnye ube uhlobo. Akumangalisi ukuba abantu abaninzi bafuna ukubonisa abanye ngokuphuma kwabo.

Kukho imbono yokuba ibinzana - yenye yeendlela ezininzi olufikelelekayo enamandla ukuze ndonwabe kwaye simahla, uxelele ihlabathi malunga ubukho balo njengento ndahlukile esihlweleni omkhulu ngohlobo lwazo, ukutyhila ezendeleyo amandla yoyilo. Self-elinomqondo bayakwazi yanobhobhozo oluphuma lidiniwe ezingakhiyo iimvakalelo, ukukhulisa ukuzithemba, ukwakha ukuzithemba, ukufutha umlinganiswa aze avelise ngokuzimeleyo izimvo zabanye abantu.

iindlela neentlobo yokuvakalisa Various

Mhlawumbi, bekuya kuba nzima ukuba udwelise zonke iindlela ngayo abantu basebenzise ngokuphuma yabo. Siza kuzama ukubalaselisa, iifomu zixhaphakileyo obabuthandwa ibinzana ezikhoyo kweli xesha lethu:

1. Self-Amazwi art. Kukho iintlobo ezininzi uyilo, apho ukwazi uveze "I 'ngaphakathi:

• art (ukupeyinta, ukubumba, ukuzoba, mosaic, etc ...);
• uhlobo lomculo yokukhuluma (vocals, ibhaleyi, umdaniso mihla, ukwakheka umculo okanye yokusebenza);
• umsebenzi wokubhala (iprozi kunye nemibongo, ukugcina iidayari kunye blogs kwi Internet);
• Ezinye iindlela (mime, yeqonga, njalo njalo. D.)

2. Self-ibinzana kuso nasiphi na isenzo:

• impumelelo kwezemidlalo;
• ekufundeni;
• izinto zasemsebenzini;
• ukuphunyezwa naziphi na iiprojekthi zayo (iimbono zoshishino).

3. indlela yangaphandle yokuthetha (ifom, abantu abaninzi abayinqobo abaselula abafikisayo):

• iimpahla ome;
• yomzimba;
• iinwele umbala kwi Imibala engaqhelekanga, iinwele ubugcisa;
• lihlaba;
• scarification;
• engaqhelekanga, ebiza ukwenza-up;
• ukuguqula inkangeleko ngoncedo uqhaqho zeplastiki.

Amazwi yokukhula

abantwana abaninzi abangena lokufikisa, babe abavukeli, abangaswele kuthobela mntu. Abazali siphele nje ukubona abantwana babo. Kudla elivisayo uqale unxibe wayenxiba etyeni ngokupheleleyo, ukunyanzela isixa okukhulu makeup, ngokuziphatha ngokungafihlisiyo kakhulu kunye nodlame.

Olunye uhlobo uphawu kwebinzana abafikisayo - yelo lempucuko (iipunks, ngamaGoth, emo, baneendima ezithile, Tolkienists, njl ...). Abantu abatsha abaqalayo kweso uluntu lonke umzimba kunye umphefumlo abazonwabisa intanda-intshukumo uze uzame zonke ubukhazikhazi zangaphandle. Ezingqonge le ndlela yokuthetha ibonakala etyeni, eyinqaba, eyinqaba, kodwa elivisayo andicingi bekhululekile kwiindima zabo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, aba iinkanuko ngokwabo ukuya kuzo, njengoko umfana yokukhula eliqela, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, umnqweno ngokuphuma singathatha ujiko ezingathandekiyo.

amazwi esiyingozi

Kwasekuqaleni senqaku wabhala ukuba self-ibinzana - kuyinto imele uvuyo, isiqulatho ngokweemvakalelo. Ngelishwa, oku akusoloko kwenzeka. Umntu bazikhethele okuthile, nto leyo eyingozi ngenxa yobomi bakhe nangenxa ubomi babanye.

Umzekelo, kusenokuba inkanuko zokwalatha obukhulu. abantu abaselula ukuba bazazi ixabiso lobomi, ukuba unako ukwenza efaka yingozi edubula omnye kwi camera mobile phone iyabala ngaphandle iifoto nevidiyo kwi Internet, efuna ukuthandwa ekuhlaleni virtual.

Iziyobisi kunye notywala - kuba ezinye kukwayinto entle uhlobo ukuzichaza. Mhlawumbi olo khetho, ezijolise self-kwintshabalalo, ukuze abonise ubuthathaka ngokugqithisileyo okanye ubuthathaka babantu, ukungakwazi okanye ukungafuni ukwenza nawuphi na umsebenzi eyakhayo.

Iingxaki kunye ukuzichaza

Ihlabathi lizele abantu bayakuphepha ukuzichaza. ubuntu babo sele bucinyiwe, kwaza mfiliba. Intloko yomntu uchubekile nesemgangathweni, noogxa emsebenzini - nice nezinobuntu inkampani - ezingabonakaliyo kunye cwaka. Enxibe kakuhle yaye unobtrusively, uthetha ngokuchanekileyo. Enyanisweni, akukho mntu ke ingelosi ... Kodwa ke onjalo? Mhlawumbi akunjalo. Ihlabathi engaphakathi loo mntu abe ziyagungqa ze ezaliswe ezahlukeneyo iimvakalelo kunye neminqweno.

Ke yena ofihla ngenyameko kwabo kwabanye. Xa intliziyo yakhe kokuba ube sobulumko enkulu okanye imvumi, kodwa umboniso awuthintelwa uloyiko ezahlukeneyo: uve uvavanyo elibi, zange bafezekise izinto endandilindele ukuba, ukoyika yokuba ungaqondwa. Oku kubonisa ukunqongophala inkululeko engaphakathi, malunga neemvakalelo ukulicudisa kunye stock nezakhiwo. Kungenzeka, oku urhulumente enemvelaphi yayo ebuntwaneni, xa abazali amgxeka kakhulu itakane, asizange isaziso uloyiso bakhe omncinane; hayi ukudunyiswa ngenxa impumelelo yabo. Man wakhula waza waba 'buttoned ". Ngenxa yoko, ubomi bakhe, ndayihluthwa ende enemikhono neemvakalelo, nto leyo enika abantu ithuba lokuba baveze izimvo zabo.

intetho lokuvala

ubuso bethu kufuneka kunceda thina abo ecaleni kuthi, ngoko kuphela esinokonwaba ngokwenene kwaye zonwabisa kwihlabathi elibangqongileyo. obubonakala yangaphandle ubuntu kusoloko zibonisa oko sawuzalisa umphefumlo wethu. Makube ihlabathi ongaphakathi ezintle!