Ipeyinti yefinger kubantwana kuze kube unyaka: zama ukupenda

Oomama abaninzi baphatha inxaxheba ekuphuhlisweni kweentsana zabo kwi-diapers kwaye bazame ukuqala nabo ngokukhawuleza. Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana eyeka ukudonsa zonke izinto ezingaqhelekanga emlonyeni wakhe, unokunikezwa ngamacwecwe eminwe. Kubantwana ukuya kunyaka, ukuwadweba ngumsebenzi ongezantsi. Akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo ukuba umntwana wakho uyakuthanda upende, kodwa kungcono ukulinda ade ayeke ukwenza yonke into ayibonayo emlonyeni wakhe. Oomama abaninzi bazama ukudweba kunye nezingane, besebenzisa amacwecwe eminwe. Iimpendulo zabo zihluke kakhulu. Omnye akakwazi ukujonga indlela umntwana ehlanganiswe ngayo ngopende, aze aphange yonke into ejikeleze. Kwaye umntu osuvele sele ekhulile inyanga ezintlanu ubudala usekulungele ukunikela ibrashi kunye nento. Endaweni ethile phakathi kunye ne nyaniso. Makhe sijonge kule nto.

Yintoni na kutheni?

Umntwana ngamnye unesithuba xa efuna ukuzityhila ngokwakhe kwi-creative field. Ekubuntwaneni, oku kuya kubakho ukususela kwiinyanga ezintandathu ukuya kwisiqingatha seminyaka. Apha uya kufuna iimpepha zeminwe kubantwana ukuya kunyaka. Zinegalelo ekuphuhlisweni kwehlabathi ngombala, imizwa ephathekayo, ukuphuhlisa izakhono zezithuthi ezifanelekileyo, uvelwano olubukhali, ukunyamezela kunye nokugxininisa. Zikhuselekile, zenziwe ngamalungu eco-friendly. Imibala yamanqaku ifake isandla ekuphuhliseni ukucinga kunye nengcamango yomntwana wakho. Zama ukuyisebenzisa ukuze ufunde amagama emibala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, inzuzo yezo peyinti kunzima ukunyanzelisa, iyakwazi kwaye isetyenziswe. Ngoku makhe sithethe malunga nendlela yokwenza ngayo.

Iiklasi kunye nomntwana

Awukwazi nje ukunikela amantombazana omnwe kumntwana ongaphantsi komnyaka omnye kwaye ulinde oko akwenzayo kubo. Ukuba uqala ukujwayelana nabo ngexesha elidala, ngoko kufuneka ufake imbala emva koko, emva kwexesha elithile. Kufuneka ulungele ukuba umntwana uya kuzihlambalaza, kunye netafile kunye nayo yonke into. Ngoko ke, mnike insimu enkulu kumsebenzi kwaye akukho mcimbi ungamgxeka ukuba ufumana into engcolileyo. Ngokuchaseneyo - kufuneka udumise yonke into ebhaliweyo. Nawaphi na amagama angakhathaliyo angamtshitshisa kule nkqubo yokuzonwabisa. Emva koko, xa uneminyaka yobudala, unokunika umntwana imidlalo ehlukeneyo yemidlalo. Ngokomzekelo, unokufumana imvula ephuma efini, ukubetha iminwe yakhe ephepheni. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukugijimela izinto, vumela umntwana nje anike indlela yokuphuma kwamandla okudala ngombala. Ekugqibeleni, namhlanje amaninzi amaninzi adumile ajonga ngokufanayo. Zonke ezicetywayo kufuneka zixhomeke kwindawo ebonakalayo, njengebhodi lozuko, ukuze umntwana abone ukuba uyaziqhenya ngeempumelelo zakhe.

Imidlalo eninzi

Imibala yeminwe (kuze kube unyaka ukusetyenziswa kwayo kulula) ingatshintshwa kamva ibe yimifanekiso yamanzi, ipensela, amanqaku kunye neekrayoni eziqhelekileyo. Zama ukudweba yonke into, into efana nomntwana wakho, into encinane. Yandisa ipeni ngepende usebenzisa ibrashi kwaye ushiye ukushicilelwa kwiphepha lephepha. Kamva eli phephancwadi liza kuba likhadikhadi le-grandfather. Ukupenda kwintambo yabantwana kuze kube unyaka nako nako ukusetyenziswa ukuhlamba. Kwaye umntwana uya kuhlala ehlambulukile, kwaye ibhedi ilula ukucoceka. Into embi kuphela kukuba imidwebo enjalo imfutshane.