Isakhiwo uphawu

Ngeendlela ezininzi, ngoko thina, ngco ngenxa yokuba sasisaziwa yethu thina. Yintoni ubuntu? Le into enzima. Libhekisela kwindibaniselwano nokuzinzileyo iimpawu ezahlukeneyo apho ichazwa ngokuzimeleyo nangomlinganiselo ongafaniyo. Uhlobo kunye nesakhiwo sayo ziye zahlolwa yi iisayikholojisti ezininzi phambili. Baye babona indlela umlinganiswa kuchaphazela ubomi bomntu, Outlook yakhe, isimo sengqondo kwabanye abantu. isakhiwo ubhalo ngemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo echazwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ithetha zizo zonke i mpawu eziziprayimari nezizisekondari. Ziziphi izinto, kakade, kunye nabo kunye nabanye.

Indlela emayenziwe ngayo umlinganiswa psychology

bonke esibaziyo siziphatha ngolunye ukuba kwenzeka ntoni macala. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iimpawu psyche ezintsonkothileyo. uphawu isakhiwo ezithile ukuba izinto zayo ezidibene omnye nomnye. Ngokufuthi umntu ligcine utyekelo endaweni efanayo. Kudla ethathwe kwenye kwezinye. Eyona nto kukuba umntu okhaliphileyo, njengoko umthetho, esithatha esisebenzayo, kunye lavaka kunye touchy eyoyikekayo.

isakhiwo ubhalo ibandakanya iinkalo eziphambili, kwakunye umntwana. Okokuqala ukubeka indlela yophuhliso ngamnye. Ngokwesiseko kwifom yesibini.

Ulwazi mikhwa ezikhokelela ivumela sikwazi ukudala umfanekiso nangokwasengqondweni umntu, baqonde ukuba yintoni na. Qaphela ababhali ukuba atyhile umfanekiso zomlinganiswa nangoko ibeka ugxininiso ngakumbi iimpawu ezithile bobuntu bakhe. Xa sinokubonisa ngokuchanekileyo, ngoko ke umlinganiswa ziya kuqondwe umfundi ngoko nangoko.

Imikhwa onokuchaza isimo sengqondo yomntu ngokwenene, kodwa kukho, ngokusekelwe apho ukwazi ukwenza izigqibo eziphosakeleyo.

Mpawu sivakala ezahlukeneyo ngeemeko, ngokunjalo kubudlelwane nenyani. Bona kakhulu ngokucacileyo:

- ngexesha intsebenziswano nabanye abantu. Ukuthetha zizwana, zilahliwe, ukuphana njalo njalo;

- ekwenzeni nawuphi na umsebenzi. Oku kusebenza inkuthalo, ukusebenza nzima, ingqibelelo, njalo-njalo;

- xa usebenza ngokwakho. Umntu kukuphakamisa okanye ayijongele phantsi wena, kuba amadlala, okanye amnyanzele ngokwakho ukuba zibe ukusixolela wena. Ngokusekelwe konke oku kuyilwa ngeempawu ezifana ezifana amandla okumelana ;

- ubume bendalo kunye nezinto zayo nazo zifumaneka ekuhlalutyeni ubudlelwane bomntu kwipropati. Apha umntu unokuba zixazalala, ukucoceka, alichumi, njalo-njalo.

isakhiwo ubhalo sinzima. Oku kuthetha ukuba awukwazi ndigwebe zonke kuyo nayiphi na into enye. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba nje sisiphumo njengomzi kwabenzi iimvakalelo. Kubalulekile ukuba sikhumbule ukuba kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo abantu kuba lilungile, nokuba libi, i kakhulu okanye igwala, ukucoceka okanye zixazalala. Abaninzi siqinisekile ekhaya, kodwa elalahleka, eya eluntwini.

Ngokubanzi, ubume bendalo ubukhulu becala ziyalandeleka ngawo ngokunxulumene lomntu ekuhlaleni kunye nabameli zaso. Singalibali ke ukuba umntu ukuba a ekuhlaleni, oko kukuthi, indlela yakhe nayiphi na imeko, uluntu nje. Uluntu ababi nempembelelo gqitha mlinganiswa.

Ezinye yimikhwa Iimpawu ngabantu kuphela ezahlukeneyo, kodwa amaqela yonke kwezentlalo. Akukho nzima ukuba mabaqashele ukuba amajoni Iliqhayiya iimpawu, isibindi, isibindi, isibindi, ingqeqesho, nonyamezelo ngenxa mgodini, ukusebenza nzima, ukukhuthala, njalo-njalo.

Kukholelwa ukuba uhlobo isegazini. Oku kuyinyaniso, kodwa asimele silibale ukuba abaninzi iimpawu awo avele nje ngenxa naziphi na iimeko ezithile okanye ngenxa phindo ixesha elide into enye, ukusetyenziswa nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha.