Isimo emtshatweni kweli phepha lemibuzo: ngubani yaye kutheni kufuneka ukwazi ngayo?

Ukubayinxalenye "iseli yoluntu 'ngamnye kuthi - yenye yeendawo ezibalulekileyo ebomini. Siza sitshatile, niqhawula umtshato, babe nabantwana, ukufundisa abanye ... Ngoko ke, imeko yomtshato kwi isicelo sephepha-mvume lokundwendwela okanye umsebenzi unika isuphavayiza enokubakho okanye unozakuzaku kwaye ulwazi oluninzi .... ukunceda ukuqikelela ukuziphatha kwethu. Kakade ke, akusoloko ntoni abanye abantu bacinga ngathi, ngokufanayo leyinene. Nakuba kunjalo, le grafu "ubume bomtshato" kwifomu yesicelo ukuze umsebenzi apho, nangona wadlula leSoviet, xa izalamane nabahlobo, "Iintshaba zabantu" ngokuzenzekelayo kwakhona zaphumela ukuba aphoswe "elwandle" uluntu.

Kutheni kufuneka abaqeshi okanye consuls yamazwe angaphandle zethu ukuba siyazi lowo silala kwaye uvuke, wonwabele isidlo sasemini, sichitha-veki nangeeholide? Kubonakala ngathi imo yomtshato kwi lemibuzo kufuneka nje usana kunina. Hi ndlela leyi, ndithanda ukuba alumkise umfundi nxamnye "ubuqhophololo omsulwa". Nakuba enjalo "sibulisa 'prevaricate kwaye sugarcoat akukho mfuneko. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ndinibhalele ukuba awutshatanga, ukuba ngaba civil union okanye ukuba "akukho bantwana", ukuba nje nina musani uhlala nabo lavuma. Inyaniso iya kufika ngokukhawuleza kumphezulu, wayikhanyela encinane nokuba omsulwa ziya kwamkelwa ayikho egameni lakho. Ukuba ukukhohliswa umcimbi onjalo, ngoko niya kukholwa njani kwixesha elizayo kwizinto ezininzi kakhulu kwishishini?

isimo emtshatweni kwekhweshine idla ngentetho evakalayo abasebenzi kwisebe abasebenzi kunye nolawulo ngqo ngokwembono eziluncedo yakho kwinkampani. Yintoni logic balilandele? Ngokomzekelo, kukholelwa ukuba abantu ubume a bachelor - uhlobo isiginali ayinakuthenjwa. Kutheni? Ngenxa akwanelanga ukuba kubanjelwa kulo mzi, ke ungalahleka neenkampani okanye uhamba ude uyeka. Ukuba ayithanga abakhathalele nabani na, ukuba ingeniso unxulumene diki ngakumbi. Akuve omnye - utata eliselula lentsapho. Emehlweni umqeshi ngumntu onoxanduva ekufuneka axhase intsapho yakhe. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umgangatho imivuzo, kwaye oko kuya kulungiswa "ngokupheleleyo", oko baya kuzuza nempumelelo yenkampani. Kodwa ke oomama abaselula okanye abasetyhini abaya kuzeka nje koko - izibonelelo zabasebenzi okanye oyintloko okunokwenzeka ngoko nangoko ulahlekelwe iingongoma ezimbalwa. Ngapha koko, umsebenzi onjalo ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwi umthetho, kuya kufuneka ukuba uhlawule imali yesibonelelo, ukuba indawo yakhe. Kwaye ukuba sele unayo abantwana abancinane - kaninzi inokuba ugule, ngenxa kamama isiqingatha-ixesha lam ubungqina esibhedlele. Ukuba umntu kwi "ubume bomtshato" izishwankathelo ibonisa ukuba ithe yaliwa, usenokuba neengxaki kunye nokuhlawulwa isondlo. Ukongeza, umbuzo uvela ngoko nangoko wokuba njani na oluthembekileyo. Indoda, ngokuchaseneyo, ubonakala njengomntu oye umothuko kakhulu, Ukuziva udakumbile. Kunye ezinjalo ngokuyimfuneko ithathelwe ingqalelo ngumqeshi.

Iifom zokwenza isicelo visa nazo ngokufuthi kufuneka kuphela ukubonisa imo yomtshato. "Single" ukuba ibhinqa eliselula ofuna ukuya kwamanye amazwe, njengoko zachazwa yi-Consulate rhoqo lithetha "umtshakazi abavela kwamanye enokwenzeka" ... Ingakumbi xa ekhwela lady ngu amadoda isimemo labucala, oko kusenokuba isizathu sokuba ukwaliwa visa. Kwimeko engcono baya kunyanzeleka ukuba ukufumana i "imvume umtshakazi."

Noko ke, xa ugcwalisa kwikholam "ubume bomtshato" kweli phepha lemibuzo Kucetyiswa ngamandla ukuba ubhale inyaniso. Kubhetele ukuba aphelise amathandabuzo malunga abasemagunyeni uze ubonise ngokwabo kwicala kakuhle ngaphezu ukuzithethelela, ndineentloni, kuba 'nenkohliso abamsulwa. "