Izinwele Ezibomvu - Oku kukuziqhenya!

Iingcali zengqondo emva kwezinye iinjongo kwintsimi yezinto ezithandwa ngabantu zifikile kwisigqibo esithandekayo - abaninzi abameli besigxina esiqinileyo abafihlekanga ukukhanga kwabo ukuba bangabhenkcezi, ama-blondes abesifazana, kodwa abanokuzithemba, abanomdla kunye nabanamalungelo abomvu obomvu.

Kulula kakhulu ukuchazela umdla wamadoda okhethekileyo kwizilwanyana ezivuthayo: into engavamile kwaye engaqondakaliyo efihle inwele ebomvu kubo, gxi ninisa ithemba lokuba abanini balo mbala. Ewe, umbala wendalo welanga uvela ekuzalweni kungekuyo yonke intombazana. Abaninzi bazama ukupenda ngombala obomvu, ngelixa amanye amantombazana anombala obomvu obomvu ekuzalweni azama ukuwususa ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, oko kukungabikho nto.

Izinwele ezibomvu ezininzi ngamaxesha onke kwaye naphi na kwilizwe litsalane ingqwalaselo yabantu abasondeleyo. Amantombazana anamhlanje azama ukudweba ngokwawo umbala ohlukileyo. Kodwa, akuwona umbala, kodwa ngumnikazi. Ngokutsho kwesigqibo seengqondo zengqondo, iinwele ezibomvu zifanekisela amandla omoya, inkululeko, inkani, inkululeko ekhethekileyo, ubunzima obukhulu kunye namandla okutsha. Amadoda ayesabi ngumbala weenwele ngokwawo, kodwa ngohlobo "lomlilo" lwaloo ntombazana.

Iingcamango zenzululwazi kwimiba yembali, iyeza kunye ne-anthropology ibilisa ngaphantsi komnye into - iinwele ezibomvu yisipho esinqabileyo sengozi. Umbala obomvu unento efana nentsholongwane. Kuyavuma, umnini walo mbala akuninzi. Nangona kunjalo, phakathi kwezona zidumileyo yi-Queen Elizabeth, uMary Magdalene, uMarina Tsvetaeva. Mhlawumbi ininzi yabo yokuthandwa ihlobene nombala weenwele?

Izinwele ezibomvu zibonakaliswa ngabantu abanenjongo, nangona ziphi na izithintelo, zisetyenziselwa ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo. Ziquka imibala ebanzi, ikhanyise nganye nganye indlela kunye 'neenwele' zayo. Abakhethiweyo bebomvu abakhethiweyo bexesha elide bahlala bezolile, nangona bahluke ngobushushu obukhulu. Abaninzi abantu bayazi ukuba umphefumlo wabamantombazana abomvu obomvu uhlala usengozini, unobulunga kwaye ulungele ukudabuka.

Ngaba wakha waphawula ukuba i-silk-silk eyimfihlakalo emzuzwana omnye unako ukuthokoza nabani na. Uhlala ekulungele ukunika iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo. Abafazi abaneenwele ezibomvu zide, banesibindi, kwaye banelungelo lokukhwabanisa.

Izinwele ezibomvu zithetha ngobungcali bentombazana, ukukhangela kwayo ngokukhawuleza, kugxininise ukumncoma. Intombazana enjalo igcwele izinto ezintle. Nangona kulala, kunzima ukuchonga ukuba kuyinyaniso okanye buxoki.

Abanikazi abathandekayo bombala okhanyayo, musa ukubeka izinto ezinjalo. Kuwuphawu oluvela phezulu, olukunika unkosikazi oyinyaniso yakho. Uya ku soloko ufezekisa oko kukuthandayo. Izinwele kukuxhamla kunye ne "cosmos", eya kukunceda kuyo yonke into. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokubuyisela umbala wakho obomvu, ubeka ingozi yokulahlekelwa zonke izipho zexesha elizeleyo kwaye ube ngumntwana oqhelekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, ubuhle obomvu obunobomvu bubuncinane. Khumbula ukuba xa umntu ekutshela ukuba umbala wakho wezinwele awukufanelanga, ngoko ufuna ukukopela kwaye unika into ongenakuyenza. Oku kuthiwa ngumona. Ukuba uva kumntu "phulaphule, kwaye kutheni ungadli kumnyama okanye ukukhanya," uthe ngaphandle kokungabaza, "kutheni ungayinqumli iinwele zakho". Incoko ngokwayo iya kufaka umdlali wakho kwisimo esingathandekiyo, kwaye uya kuphuma kuyo njengomnqoli. Into eyona nto kukunikela ukukhawuleza ngexesha kunye nokubeka yonke into, ukuze abanye bangayithandi. Izinwele ezibomvu kukuzikhukhumeza nokubandlulula, kuyisibambiso sakho kwimpumelelo. Awunjengomntu wonke kwaye kulungile! Esi sipho sendalo kufuneka sithandeke, kodwa, akukho nto ityala. Khumbula oku!