Kuthekani ukuba umfana ezifana guys? Iingcebiso kunye ngengcebiso kwengqondo

Kwamanye amazwe, ipesenti amadoda alalanayo, unako ukufikelela ukuya kwi-30%. Emizini eyinkunzi, inani labantu ukuziveza abambalwa ngokwesini, okuninzi kumaphondo. Ngethamsanqa, iRussia asezantsi kakhulu. Kolu luhlu, abelwe saseChelyabinsk, apho inani amafanasini kuziwa kwi 4.1% kuphela, ngoxa eMoscow,% 3 kuphela. Namhlanje, amantombazana baya ucinga ukuba benze ntoni xa umfana ezifana guys? Kulo mbuzo, Kakade, kusenokuba izimvo fair, "Kutheni gay, ngokubanzi, kufuneka umfazi"? Noko ke, njengoko uninzi sexologists, kukho bokuqonda ezininzi.

Indlela ukuqaphela orientation lo mfo?

Okokuqala, umntu nokumazi malunga esizithandayo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, non-zemveli buqondwe nkqu ngexesha lokufikisa, kodwa umntu ahlale ebumnyameni kuba ixesha elide. Isigqibo sokugqibela zingachaphazela umhlobo, falling eluthandweni, ukudandatheka lokuqala kudala uxinzelelo okanye kuyoluka.

Kuthekani ukuba umfana ezifana guys? Ukumisela ngabantu zobufanasini akulula kangako! Oku kunokwenzeka kuphela xa kukho imitha eyodwa uyakwazi ukunakana isidanga inkanuko yesini. Ugqirha-sexologist ibonisa imizobo, nto leyo ebonisa iintyatyambo, amadoda, abafazi, kwaye imisela isigulana koko izigaba iimvakalelo. Thina psychoanalysts kukho imvume elide-imi, ukuba umntu uthetha ubufanasini uphambene kakhulu, oko akufuneki ukuba kwacinywa ngokupheleleyo ndakukhupha gay efihlakeleyo. Kungenzeka, lo mfo yokuziphatha ngabom ukukhupha ukusuka ezingqondweni yakhe ezo esizithandayo.

Indlela ukuziphatha intombazana esinyuliweyo ukuba ukuba ndisisitabane?

Kakade ke, ukuba ukunyanzela nesithandwa sakhe ukukhangela yokuqhelwaniswa etyeni kakhulu, kodwa ukuba a guy ezifana guys? Kuqala kwinto zonke, musa ukulibala ukuba wakho abakhethiweyo umntu kwicala, nokuba umntu kwaye umntu yonke into - re-ukuhlalutya ubuhlobo bakho. Sex kwicala - oko kuyo nayiphi na imeko a ewolo. Ukuba emva koko uthando lwakho ngesondo ingasekho, sex yaba umsebenzi engenanjongo, kwaye oyintanda aba kunye ongakhathaliyo ... Kulungile ukuba sahlukane.

Ngenxa impembelelo yentsingeiselo eninzi Western, uninzi abakhaya ababhinqileyo baye benyanisekile basabela njani emehlweni abantu abathandana kumboniso ishishini, kodwa bayayamkela into yokuba ukuze ibe ngathi umlinganiswa aziphethe ngayo ebomini bakhe buqu, cishe akunakwenzeka! Noko ke, amanye amantombazana zonke omnye uyazibuza: "Kuthekani ukuba lo mfo lowo endibathandayo, ndiyamthanda guys?"

Okokuqala, ukuze ukuba kuyithoba mfana, akukho mfuneko ukuphikisana ukuba ubufanasini - yinto isifo. Xa umntu uqala ukuba siqonde ukuba gay, kunzima kakhulu ukuba up nale mbono, kwaye nexesha lokuqala unokufuna ukuqonda zenu kunye nenkxaso. Okwesibini, ungaze soyithomalalisa naye kubi, kwaye musa ahlawule yonke nje a joke. Siza kufuneka ukuba olu lwazi lula.

Ngaba unako ukwenza usapho nomntu gay?

Xa ebuzwa ukuba benze ntoni xa lo mfo oyithandayo, njengabanye abafana, impendulo ayikho lula. Zama ukuthetha naye ngendlela ngobubele, cela ngesizathu sokuba kwizigqibo ezinjalo. Kodwa musa ukutyhola yaseHyena kubonisa isimo sabo ophambene le meko. Ukuba intombazana uba umhlobo osenyongweni kuye umntu unokuthenjwa ngokupheleleyo, ngoko ngokuhamba kwexesha ulwalamano lwakho kuba kakuhle kwaye kufudumele.

Kubalulekile ukuba siqonde ukuba lo mfo ukuze kungadingeki ukuba ukudala intsapho. Ukuba, ke, udala oko, kusenokwenzeka kuphela ukuphepha ngundaba lwentlalo aqhube ngokufuna abathandi ezintsha. Umzekelo, kukho inkqubo ehlabathini. Alalanayo, njengabo bonke abantu, kakhulu, ungafuna abantwana, kodwa umfazi namnye kubo ayikwazi ukukwenza oku. Kwenzeka ukuba gay atshate ngabom umfazi kunye nabantwana.

Amanye amabhinqa bamkele isimo sengqondo esinjalo, yaye cwaka bathi lover lwabo lobufanasini. Mhlawumbi akukho azenze ngisho umbuzo onjalo ngaphambili, ukuba benze ntoni xa uthanda umfana othanda guys. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba bonwabile kunye. Abanye ukudlala nje indima intombazana ukuya mfo kunye besini, ngaloo ndlela isigqubuthelo eso. Eneneni, akukho efanelekileyo, kodwa ngumhlobo nje. Ukuba kunjalo, kutheni ukuchitha ixesha lakho elixabisekileyo xa ungakwazi ngokwenene ukufumana nesithandwa sakhe, ube naye sonwabe ngokwenene.

Isisombululo ngayo iingxaki zakho ze ulifanasini

Ngoku makhe sithethe ukuba ungenza ntoni le nkwenkwe xa ethanda guys? Ekuqaleni, kufuneka sijonge phandle, yiyo ke le nto yaqala. Yinto enye into xa abantu abaninzi abatsha umdla ngokwabantu inkampani, kuba uyise ubuyibazele kangako kuyo, okanye yayingekabikho. Kuyaqondakala yaye kuvakala imeko eyahlukileyo xa inkwenkwe yayisetyenziswa kakubi kakubi uyise, nokuba ngunina imthobile Pope phambi konyana wakhe. Yintoni na ngakumbi - umntu yabantu abadala wamdlwengula.

Ukuba ukubonakala umnqweno uncharacteristic ngaphambi yiMDC, ikhefu kabuhlungu kunye intombazana okanye akuzange na uye ukuphucula ubudlelwane nomntu wesini esahlukileyo - yinto endaweni reaction eqhelekileyo. Emva kwexesha elithile, uthando lwakho lungehla nibe boqobo ngakumbi.

Unxibelelwano - isitshixo i manyano

Khumbula, kufuneka ahlale ngokwawo, kunye ukunxibelelana nomhlobo osenyongweni enye kuphela. Qiniseka ukuba kutyelela ezinye iinkampani kunye neendawo zoluntu. Unxibelelwano nge inkampani ekunene nga ngcembe kungakhokelela ekubeni i-feelings for neqabane baza buthathaka kwaye mhlawumbi umnqweno ukufunda ukwakha unxibelelwano namanye amantombazana.

Ungaze ugcine ingxaki ngokwayo, bona musa ukuya naphi na, kodwa kuphela ukuba i iingcambu liqinile. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, kufuneka babelane ngeemvakalelo zabo, ingakumbi xa lwaviwa ugonyamelo. Omkhulu xa iqabane lakho uyazi ngokucacileyo ukuba benze ntoni xa umfana ayithande abafana.

Man - umthombo engundoqo isisombululo kwingxaki

Ukuba touch isifundo yomsebenzi esibi uzinomfa, umntu umele ngokwakhe ekuqaleni ufuna ukuchaza umthombo iingxaki zabo kunye notshintsho. Kufuneka ufumane ngokwakho umntu oya kuba nako ukubuyisela ngenxa yokuswela kwenu zonxibelelwano kunye noyise, mhlawumbi nokuba upopu kufuneka babe. Ngoko ke umqeqeshi kungaba nje isalamane, kodwa umfundisi, okanye nokuba ngumbingeleli. Eyona nto iphambili ukuba le ndoda ayizange inenzakalise.