Kutheni "uxakeke kakhulu" - oku ubuxoki enkulu?

Ngaba wakha wathi kuwe: "Mna ndixakeke kakhulu '? "Babona ngathi ndixakeke gqitha ukuba adibane nale ndoda?" "Babona ngathi ndixakeke gqitha ukuba anyamekele impilo yakho?" "Mna ndixakeke ukufunda olunye ulwimi kakhulu?" Usenokude ndithi kuwo umphefumlo wam, ukuba namhlanje "uxakeke kakhulu 'ukuba enze into ke ukuba nemihlali. ukhipha abaninzi ukuba andixoki ngaphezu kanye.

Kweli hlabathi utshintsho olukhawulezayo, ukufikelela obungenasiphelo kuyo yonke ingcaciso, kwakunye iziphazamiso ezininzi ukuba uluntu lwethu luye ndikuqhelile inkxaso yengqesho ngenxa ... yayo ukubonakala kwaso. Noko ke, kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi umsebenzi kunye nemveliso. Sinako kuxakeka yonke yobomi bethu abadala, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo mini ukuba ube nempumelelo. Yiyo loo nto loo mazwi athi "ndiya ndixakeke kakhulu" kunokukhokelela yoko elibi.

Thina kuvuna into ke thina sanihlwayelela

Ngaba wakha wathenga imoto entsha, waza waqalisa ukuba uphawula umatshini twatse emzini wakho? Okanye mhlawumbi ofumene inja, uze emva koko waqalisa ukunikela ingqalelo kubo bonke abafundi beli hlobo?

Oku akuthethi ukuba abenzi imoto yakho ngesiquphe wagqiba ukukhulula imifuziselo ngaphezulu kwidolophu yakho, okanye ukuba abantu inja landa ngesiquphe. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuqala umsebenzi kwindlela yakho reticular lusebenze. Ukuba waft kuwe iinkcukacha zenzululwazi ndidikwe, singatsho ukuba yindlela oluzenzekelayo xa ingqondo yakho ezikuxelela ukuba kufuneka ingqalelo, yaye yintoni na. Yicinge nje yesihluzi se ebuchotsheni.

Nangona igama le ndlela lithe lalila umdla kakhulu, yena yinxenye ebalulekileyo ebuchotsheni. Icacisa ngendlela esicinga - nokuba ngabom okanye ngokuzenzekelayo. Omnye umzekelo inkulu kule ndlela kukuba kwimeko xa Roger Bannister wabaleka weekhilomitha ngemizuzu ezine ngowe-1954, nangona ngelo xesha ukuba azinakwenzeka. emva konyaka, emva koko waziqhekeza irekhodi, ngaphezu kweshumi abantu baye bakwazi ukuphinda kuyo, kubandakanywa abafundi bezikolo zamabanga aphakamileyo.

wenza njani ulawulo zobuchopho?

Isizathu sokuba le ndlela - ukuba kukho iindlela ezimbini ukulawula ingqondo yethu.

• ulawulo abazi - oku isicwangciso se usukelo abazi, nezingqiniso nokuthelekelela. Sinako ukwenza icebo lokucoca ulwelo evumela ubuchopho bethu ukuba baqwalasele oko kuya kusinceda ukuba sisondele le njongo.
• ulawulo ienjini. Xa ndithi ngokwakho ukuba akukho xesha, ingqondo izama ukufumana zonke izizathu ukuba uchaze ukuba wenze ngokwenene.

Ekubeni ekugqibeleni ubuchopho bethu baya kukholwa oko sithi, umyalezo kwama-zengqesho uba uhlobo wesiprofeto.

Yiba sixakekile - akuthethi ukuba nemveliso

Abaninzi bethu benza umgudu omkhulu ukugqiba wakho to-do uluhlu le veki. Kuyinto kuphela xa xha sibuye umva wakhangela, ufumanisa ukuba kolu luhlu kukho izinto ezimbalwa ukuba ngokwenene ezichaphazela iinjongo zakho.

Ngoko ke, makhe sithethe umahluko ophambili phakathi engqesho kunye nemveliso.

• abantu abaxakekileyo ezininzi eziphambili, elinemveliso - ezimbalwa ezinkulu.
• abantu abaxakekileyo ezigxile isenzo, ugxininiso elinemveliso ngokucaca phambi kokwenza.
• abantu abaxakekileyo bazama ukuba bazalise zonke izinto ngaxeshanye, ugxininiso imveliso umsebenzi omnye kuphela.
• abantu abaxakekileyo kuyiphendula imiyalezo engenayo nemveliso kwangoko bucala ukulungiselela oku ixesha elithile ukujongana nazo zonke ngaxeshanye.
• abantu abaxakekileyo bathi ukuba kungabikho xesha, ukusetyenziswa onemveliso ngayo izinto ezibaluleke ngokwenene.

Inyaniso kukuba sonke ixesha yonke into, yonke into: usapho, ukufunda ulwimi olutsha, umthambo, ukupheka ukutya okunempilo. Thina nje akakwazi ukwenza nantoni na esiyifunayo.

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Oku kuthetha ukuba, ukuba wena:

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Kodwa njani ukwenza lo msebenzi sicwangciso? Zama ukuba uzibuze nje omnye umbuzo olula ...

Yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe?

Le ncwadi-yathengiswa kakhulu "Enye into," Umva Keller iyichaza oko ufanele ukwenze, uze emva koko zonke ezinye izinto ezingabalulekanga okanye engeyomfuneko. Ungenza isicelo lo mnenga ukuze ishishini wobomi, ulwalamano, impilo yomzimba, imali njalo njalo. D. Mhlawumbi kubonakale ukuba le yenye yeyona mibuzo enzima ukuba kufuneka uzibeke. Enyanisweni, ubanyanzele ngokwakho ukuba bathi hayi amathuba amahle, kodwa enyanisweni ngokwalo akhulule indawo kwabo ngubani na ukutshintsha ubomi bakho. Ngamanye amaxesha imigca phakathi kwazo imfiliba, kodwa ngokuzibuza umbuzo ekunene, akuyi kuba 'uxakeke kakhulu ", kwaye baqalise ukwenza enemveliso.

Ekuphetheni

Zibuze: Ngaba uthi ewe izinto ezininzi kakhulu, ujonge ebomini bakho? Okanye abantu abaninzi kakhulu abangengabo kubaluleke kangaka kuwe? Ukuba kunjalo, mhlawumbi lixesha ukutshintsha izinto zabo kunye nemisebenzi. Ngokuba imini yonke okanye, ukuba unako, ngeveki, zama ukufumanisa ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba oko kwenzeka kuwe. Ukuba impendulo akukho - ngoko udlulele. Khumbula ukuba akukho mpendulo kwinto eliphakathi, wena uvule amathuba iziganeko ezingaqhelekanga ebomini bakho.