Phendula lo mbuzo: "? Indlela ukwenza yonke into ngaphandle neurosis"

Wena - uxakeke esinobunzima kwamatyala ezibalaseleyo kodwa? Ukuba ufike kwisigqibo sokuthandana nomntu ukwenza kunye ngxaki, ukwenza yonke into, cinga, ukuba akuphumelelanga. Kutheni? Ngenxa ndlela iyaphikisana ngokwayo. Oku kufana isenzo kunye ukusabela ukukhanda kunye physics - umbane akhabayo kunye navumelanayo. Yenza konke - akunakwenzeka! Kodwa musa ukuphelelwa lithemba, phandle - phaya, kwaye ndikunike.

Kufuneka wazi imithetho "yegolide" yolawulo ixesha, ukuba ngaba umntu lowo inkqubo yokusombulula byi "njengoko ayigange yonke ':

- musa ukungena ngendlela efanelekileyo;

- abe luvo kunye overstrained, nto leyo ichaphazela kuphela emsebenzini, kodwa kulwalamano nabantu obathandayo;

- ngenxa ukukhalaza bekhalaza, becaphula ezahlukahlukeneyo yezizathu, awavumelekanga ukuba aphumeze icebo lakhe, ucinga ukusilela.

Nje umntu ebuza umbuzo: "Indlela ukwenza yonke into" like inkwenkwe kunye slingshot, nto leyo iyagquma phaya kwibhetri amatye ibhotile, ecinga ukuba ezandleni umpu wakhe.

Simple inyathelo by imiyalelo step, ezibandakanya amanyathelo amane, aninyuse, niphume kule mibono imicimbi. Ke kaloku lonke fun:

Inyathelo 1 - "Musa ukuyenza, ukuba unako"

Jonga uluhlu lwakho namatyala amisiweyo umgca abo eziya kubangela akakwazi ukwenza konke konke. Nceda qaphela ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ukusulela ityala ngoko, baze bashiye ngokupheleleyo komsebenzi wabo! Uluvo ububanzi kwigalelo lalo. Uninzi amatyala kufuneka bazalisekise abanye abantu, kwaye, uyazi - ungubani. Ummandla kuphela lwemiba kuni, akukho namnye uya kwenza - uhambo ukuya kwigumbi langasese okanye kugqirha, ukutya, njl Nje musa ukucinga ukuba teke phantsi kwimicimbi yabanye. Wena asebenze yinkokheli zomkhosi onamava - kukho ukulingana qhinga igunya ngaphambi kwemfazwe.

Uziva kwakhula ngokuzimisela? Esebenza ngayo ukunxibelelana izitya - ukuba umntu bawa, omnye igcwele. Kulo mzekelo, wena ugcwalisa wena kunye namandla akhululwe.

Inyathelo 2 - "phambili"

uluhlu lwakho sehle kakhulu, kwaye ngeli nqanaba kubalulekile ukuchaza imiba ephambili:

- ngxaki ezingxamisekileyo efuna izisombululo engxamisekileyo;

- imibuzo yamacebo okulwa okanye imiba enxulumene self-uphuculo, kodwa musa ifuna ukuqaliswa ngokukhawuleza;

- ingxaki ayikho kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa ezingxamisekileyo (imisebenzi ezikhululekileyo evela nolawulo);

- zinto azikho engxamisekileyo kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kufuneka kushiywa kuzo,.

Usuku kufuneka uqale ngesisombululo iingxaki engxamisekileyo efuna msinya.

Inyathelo 3 - "Lo myalelo ukuba ngandlela zonke!"

- babeke ngokoqobo ezishelfini kunye namaxwebhu zakho yobungcali. Kwi desktop kufuneka waphelela - indawo yayo kakhulu eqinisekileyo ukuba kumaxwebhu kunye nento yonke.

- Ukuba awusele wenze oko, unako ukuthenga ngeveki neziya ukurekhoda zonke iimeko elizayo, sokucwangciso izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka kunye ukugxininiswa. Le nkqubo nje zifundo kuphela iyafuneka, kodwa iingcinga, kakhulu.

Inyathelo 4 - "Self-Control"

Ukuba ngokuhlwa, mhlawumbi ngexesha lokulala, uya kudibana ngokwakho le mibuzo mihlanu, ingxaki ka 'ukwenza ngayo yonke into, "ukuba akusayi kubakho kuwe:

1. Yintoni oyifundileyo ukususela kusuku oludlulileyo?

2. Ngaba konke sele yenziwe ukuze kulungiswe iingxaki ibunzi?

3. Ngaba kukuvuyela ukwenza lo msebenzi?

4. Le nkonzo, okanye ukunceda umntu ukuba yanikezelwa abo basweleyo?

5. njani na ukuphumla ntoni kwimpilo-ntle yakho kunye nempilo?