Namawele afanayo

Wonke umfazi uyaphupha ngokuzalwa kwabantwana babo, oku kukhokelela nje asakhulayo kuphela ngexesha wemvelo koomama nokuzala, kodwa umnqweno self-actualization. Abantwana ezaqala kwelinye iqanda (amawele twatse) zinqabile kakhulu. Phantsi assumptions wenzululwazi, amathuba lokuzala amawele malunga-yeshumi elinye ekhulwini. amawele efanayo ngaphandle phantse yinto enzima. Olu phawu kungenxa yokuba nokudaleka lithatyathwe kwiseli enye (i elilodwa) ngokusebenzisa kwisahlulo yayo nisaqala yokukhulelwa.

Isidoda ingena iqanda umgquba. Intsebenziswano kwenzeka senye omnye kuphela, nto leyo kuzisa kweejini amadoda endlwaneni kwenkqubo ababhinqileyo okuzala.

Le iqanda (elilodwa) uyakwazi nesabelo kulo mzuzu, nangona kunjalo, phantsi kwempembelelo naziphi na iindlela yaye kutheni oku kuyenzeka yiyo ayikacaci ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko ke, ngamawele akhiwa ukusuka yeqanda.

Kubonakala ukuba la mawele ziikopi omnye komnye, hayi ngaphandle kuphela kodwa ngaphakathi. Uphononongo lubonise ukuba abantu abangaphezu kwama alithoba ekhulwini ngamawele ezi yeminwe enzima, bahlwise.

amawele efanayo ngokwesini azikho ngesizathu esilula ukuba kweejini ngeembumba ezifanayo. Eyona kuphela kwamawele elifanayo maxa wambi abekhona - Ukwakheka kwamawele esibuko. Kulo mzekelo, omnye abantwana lilungelo-sasekhohlo, kunye nezinye --sasekhohlo aseleyo, kunye yeminwe ezandleni ukuba ibonwa omnye komnye. Amaxesha amaninzi, nkqu izibilini ibekwe kwizikhundla esahlukileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo amawele, nkqu uhlobo efanayo sifo, kuba ukuthambekela ezimbi kwezi eziphilayo efanayo. An into umdla kukuba saa (ukuphila bakhulele kwiintsapho ezahlukeneyo) amawele musa nje ukuba abalinganiswa efanayo, kodwa izinto ezithandwayo kunye nesimo sengqondo kwabanye kwizifundo zabo ziyafana.

Ziziphi iimpawu uphuhliso, kukho la mawele?

Okokuqala, amawele twatse esizalweni babe ngumkhaya eqhelekileyo, yaye okwesibini, ngenxa non-ukufana ejikeleza kaninzi kwenzeka wokungaphuhliswa omnye wabo. Ngamanye amaxesha kukho iimeko xa ukungafani oksijini Ukwanda (oxygenation) igazi siphezulu kangangokuba omnye iziqhamo (angekho ekutyeni) uyafa. Ngaphezu koko, maxa wambi uphuhliso amawele conjoined (imeko apho i-ukwahlukana ngokupheleleyo ekungazange kubekho injengayo kwaye imibungu ukuba oxhulumene omnye nomnye) kunokwenzeka. Eyona, ulwalamano lwabo kunokuba kakhulu kwaye efanele ntshikilelo ngotyando, Noko ke, kukho iimeko ezinzima kakhulu eqhelekileyo, xa abantwana edidekile, iintloko, okanye umzimba mnye. Kulo mzekelo, uqhaqho nzima. A umzamo ukwahlukana ngempumelelo amawele zisekhusini yaye yaziwa kakuhle.

Kuba abafazi abaninzi, namawele afanayo na usukelo elinqwenelekayo, kunjalo, asikwazi kuba nokudaleka phantsi kwempembelelo naziphi na iziphumo zonyango okanye non-zonyango. Ukwahlulwa iqanda, nto leyo ekugqibeleni kukhokelela ukuyilwa amawele, kwenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo. Emva ukwenza inani abaphengululi uyifundisise kwafunyaniswa ukuba kukho yofuzo ukuba amathuba lokuzala amawele. Ngoko ke abafazi, izalamane abanabantwana ezinjalo, amathuba lokuzala amawele, kuquka twatse, kakuhle ngaphezu ngokungqinelana nenqanaba.

Ngoko ke, nkqu amawele ncam yaye siliva ngabafazi, ngokufuthi - isohlwayo lokwenene. Ubunzima kuhanjiso, ithuba lophuhliso kwamawele Siamese, nkqu nokufa kwelinye iziqhamo ukuba ukhokelele ekubeni kusekwe kukho ingozi enkulu ukuba zombini abantwana ngenxa yomzimba sikanina.