Njani isicelo senkxaso yomntwana: isivumelwano okanye inkundla?

Ngelishwa, ubomi langoku kuphela izimanga ezinqwenelekayo. izolo Kuphela wena umfuziselo losapho bomtya, yaye namhlanje nguwe utshaba. Xa ukuthwala imvakalelo owayesakuba amaqabane ndandingakwazi beveza ukusombulula imbambano inkxaso elandelayo umntwana. Kweli nqaku siza kujonga zonke iindlela kunye ubuqili njani isicelo senkxaso yomntwana.

Ubungakanani kwakhona ukugcinwa

Umthetho umisela ukuba isondlo - imali yentlawulo, okwenziwa, njengoko umthetho, omnye wabazali. Esi sibonelelo sihlawulwa de umntwana efikelela ebudaleni. Isondlo iya kubizwa ngeendlela ezimbini:

- isixa semali ethile (ingasetyenziswa xa umzali akanawo yengeniso esisigxina);

- kuhlawulwe ipesenti ingeniso evela uyise (unina) - le ndlela idla unikwa xa umzali lunomvuzo olusisigxina.

Phi nendlela kwifayile inkxaso umntwana?

Kwakhona ukusuka nendoda (inkosikazi) ukugcinwa umntwana, kakhulu, ingaba nomahluko. Esihle kakhulu kuwo omabini amacala, kodwa ke eyona ndlela iqhelekileyo kwisivumelwano ngexesha elifanayo. Ukuba umzali uyavuma ukuba ahlawule inkxaso umntwana ngokuzithandela, ngoko kufuneka angene kwisivumelwano malunga kwaye notarize. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umnqophiso onjalo kufuneka ukucwangcisa ubungakanani iintlawulo alithe gangqa koko ezizinzileyo ngumthetho. Ukuba omnye wabalingane onqwenela ukwenza kwisivumelwano naluphi na utshintsho, ngoko oku kuza kufuneka ukuba wenziwe kuphela ngokusebenzisa izivumelwano. Ukusiphelisa esi sivumelwano lungabakho kuphela iinkundla.

Vuma, yeha, ipesenti encinane kakhulu ngabazali. Ezinye izinto nto iseleyo kodwa ifayile inkxaso umntwana ngokusebenzisa kwinkundla. Ilungelo lokuba isibheno enkundleni kule imeko luye iqabane ophila ne umntwana.

amaxwebhu afunekayo

Ukuze ufake ibango enkundleni ukuze bafune intlawulo isiqulatho, kufuneka ukulungiselela amaxwebhu ezithile. Ngokukodwa, phambi kokuba isicelo senkxaso yomntwana, onayo esandleni kufuneka ube:

- isiqinisekiso somtshato (a ikopi);

- yakho yokundwendwela kunye enqwenelekayo ummangalelwa yokundwendwela (copy);

- isiqinisekiso soqhawulo-mtshato (copy);

- Isiqinisekiso sokuzalwa somntwana wakho eqhelekileyo (ikopi);

- kwingxelo yengeniso kunye nendawo ahlala kuyo ummangalelwa;

- kufunyenwe intlawulo yeendleko ezimiselwe ngokomthetho.

Ungenza isicelo senkxaso yomntwana ukuba, ukuba ngaba igosa okanye umtshato lembambano?

Inkqubo yesondlo xa esi sibini umtshato, abaninzi ngaphezulu okanye eyaziwa ngaphantsi kakuhle. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba noba ulwalamano olusesikweni okanye sikweni?

Ngokwamanani yokuziphatha, Kakade, kubonakala engaqhelekanga xa omnye wabazali zifuna imixholo utshatile umntwana. Kodwa nantsi kuvunyelwe umthetho, ukongeza isigqibo ezinkundleni akukho mahluko esisiseko, amaqela utshatile okanye hayi. Kubo eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukumisela into yokuba umzali akuthethi ukubonelela ngenkxaso yemali umntwana.

Nkqu ezinomdla kakhulu kucingwa umbuzo kondliwa njani xa abazali zibe semthethweni ulwalamano lwabo. Ngawaphi amathuba ukufumana kwakhona imixholo umntwana, ukuba ngaba civil union kwaye wafaka for inkxaso umntwana? Kuthekani Ukuba uyise womntwana abhalwe ngamazwi nomama wakhe? Kule meko kuyimfuneko ukuba ningaqali kunye neemfuno zenkxaso umntwana, kunye nokuseka lukatata enkundleni. Kuphela emva kokuba nokwakha ubuhlobo kwiintsapho phakathi ummangalelwa kunye nomntwana wakho ukuthetha malunga nokuhlawulwa koncedo lwezimali.

Enoba lwalunjani, sinqwenela aku- ukujongana kwakhona iingxaki kulondolozo, kwaye bonke abantwana bakho - inkxaso rhoqo imfutshane bonke abazali bobabini!