Oonobangela nangokwasengqondweni ukutyeba

Abatyebe kwabaninzi yingxaki enkulu leyo nezisombululo kule khosi bonke uhlobo; ukusuka idayethi ku ejimini ukugqibezela yindlala. Okwangoku, kwengqondo uqinisekile ukuba isizathu sokuba wayedla extra Umhlaba zengqondo.

Kuye kudala kwaphawulwa ukuba abantu ezithandwa ukutyeba, azakubalulwa usukelo ngqiqweni, imvo azilutho, ukuzeyisa nosizi, ubulolo. wokulahlekelwa kwangaphakathi kufuna ukuzaliswa lokomfuziselo, ixhala - uxolo. Ukuze ezi njongo, yaye isetyenziswa yi ukutya okukhulu. Umnqweno "nokubamba" meko iba mkhwa, ngenxa yalo mkhwa iba utyebile.
Ukutya kusoloko babuyekezwe kunye nokungabikho neemvakalelo ezintle abantu amava ebomini babo. Kulo mzekelo, ubunzima extra akuthathi elide.
Abo abaphethwe ukuzala, iisayikholojisti ukucebisa ukuba ucinge kwakhona malunga ulwalamano kunye nabazali babo. Into yokuba ixesha elide kwezithandani umsindo kwi omthandayo kananjalo ukuba iwazekise umzimba.
Kukho ubungqina kwaye abo bantwana abaye ntshikilelo elide, ngokufuthi talkivayutsya kwixesha elizayo kunye imfuneko ukunyenyisa ubunzima bakho. It podtverdlaetsya Ucwaningo olwenziwa kwi-Institute of Psychiatry e likaKumkani College London. 6500 Iiprofayili nxaxheba British iprojekthi Birth, webutho loMhlekazi aye ahlalutywa, eyaqaliswa ngo-1980. It yayihanjelwe abafundi abaminyaka iminyaka elishumi. Zengqondo ziye zaphawula ukuzithemba-nxaxheba nganye projekthi, wakhe zikarhulumente ngokweemvakalelo, kwakunye isalathisi ubunzima bomzimba. Emva kweminyaka engama-20, xa abantwana bakhula, izazinzulu babuyela iiprofayili zabo bafumana indlela yenkqubo enomdla. Kuye kwafunyaniswa ukuba abantwana boniswa kwi kuhlaziswa, waba phantsi ukuzithemba kwaye basoloko iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo, njengoko abadala badla ubunzima utyebile. Kodwa oontanga babo wagxila kakhulu utyebile yayimkhathaza ngaphantsi.

Zonke ezi data yanele ukugqiba ukuba ubunzima lomntu lusondele ukuba isimo sakhe ngokweemvakalelo. Ngoko ke, ngokuba uqeqesho ubunzima kudla kwengqondo iingcebiso kunye zengqondo badlale indima enkulu ngaphezu inguwo luma kunye noqeqesho olunzima ku ejimini.