Ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi: imiphumela emibi

Kuyinto nzima gqitha xa umntu zizalamane okanye abantu abasondeleyo ababandakanyekayo kwinethiwekhi iziyobisi. Umntu onjalo buthuntu nje kuphela abanye obubonakala, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha bekrwada enobundlobongela. Kwakukho iimeko xa ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kwakhokelela ekubeni ebuhlungu: ubusela (kwanabantu esibathandayo), ukuvalelwa entolongweni, okanye ukufa. Lento nokuba amatyala kusala ngasemva ngumntu onjalo, ephethwe iintsapho kunye nabantu abanyulu.

Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo ukuziyeka njengento isibetho kwinkulungwane yama-21. A hi ndlela leyinene ni anyange yaye ukulahla sifo kwakungenakwenzeka ukuba ukucinga. Kwenziwa kwikhondo yesiqhelo zange ukunika iziphumo ezinqwenelekayo, yaye kungekudala le ukufa wabuyela umsebenzi yakhe yangaphambili.

Okwangoku, idale amaziko ezininzi ezahlukeneyo apho abantu abagulayo baqale ubomi babo kwasekuqalekeni: ukuba bafunde ukoyisa iminqweno yabo owenzakalisayo, babuyele unqulo, ukuba ngokwakhe imiqathango ethile.

Abantu abangazange kusetyenziswa izinto ezingekho mthethweni ekuqaleni kunzima ukuchonga iimpawu zokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi abe ngumntu esiqhelekileyo (mhlawumbi umhlobo okanye isalamane). Nazi iinguqu ezimbalwa lwangaphandle ezithe zenzeka emva kokuba senziwe amathamo.

intshukumo Human ziyelelene izenzo phantsi kweempembelelo zotywala: lwezisombululo ngezwi elingaqondakaliyo, kwaneso kancinci. Amaxesha amaninzi liqalisa slurred, intetho uba slurred kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nangqondo. Kukho saka ezahlukeneyo, ibangela ukuhleka iziyolo, usizi, sicinge okanye ndlongo. Kwakhona itshintsha umbala: oko oxhaphakileyo okanye isiyezi okanye bomvu izicacele izandla kunye nobuso. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, lo wayelikhoboka angabona ithinti bulubhelu kufutshane namehlo.

ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kukhokelela ekubeni iingalo zibe umqhaphu, kukho ezininzi iintshukumo ezingeyomfuneko. Nabo ke, unokuba kade, okanye, icala, ngokukhawuleza kakhulu. Lonke ixesha umntu uzama ukukrwela kwaye ungazithambisi iintende ubuso.

ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi ebangela constriction le abafundi kunye amehlo yeglasi umthunzi apha. Bayahluleka ukuphendula ekukhanyeni kwaye abe ngathi udiniweyo.

Iziyobisi ezithile, njengoko ngotywala, kukho ezininzi umlomo owomileyo. Ngoko ke, lo wayelikhoboka kudla ilukhothayo umlomo wakhe.

Kodwa ke oku akuthethi ukuba zonke ezi mpawu akhoyo ngaxeshanye ebantwini. Ngokubonakala abaninzi kubo baxhomekeke iziyobisi ezivela imiqulu ezahlukeneyo kwaye ixesha liphelile emva kokusetyenziswa. Kufuneka kucingelwa ukuba ezi freaks ekuqaleni ngokufihlakeleyo "ezikuthandayo 'izinto eziyingozi ezinjalo. Ukuba athathe idosi, baye holed phezulu esikoleni, amagumbi, iigaraji kunye nezinye iindawo gqa.

Kodwa kuphela lokuqala sifo. Ke Abaxhomekeki baba hhayi ubani yaye yintoni uya kucinga ngazo. Ingxaki ephambili kubo kuba ukungabikho idosi engqinelanayo kunye indlela apho zingathengwa.

Neziphumo zokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi inokuba nomahluko kakhulu ukuba izinto ezincinane kubahlobo babo abathandekayo izixa ezinkulu ngetyala, leyo aseleyo ngoko hang amatyala ezingekahlawulwa ezityalwa ebhankini.

Kwindawo yokuqala ngayo intsapho ubunzima umntu ogulayo. Emva kokuba ephelelwa umyeni wakhe, uyise nonyana. A lot of luvo breakdowns, de wahlaselwa yintliziyo, sinokulindela ukuba abazali abakhulileyo omdala "umntwana." Yaye yintoni akhawunti umfazi wakhe nonyana okanye intombi, xa "Papa" urhuqa yonke endlwini, eshiya ngaphandle ngedenariyo yini na?

Ngezi iimeko kunzima ukubeka up silwe, ubomi nokuqonda. Kaninzi ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kukhokelela sokonakalisa intsapho. Njengoko kuchaziwe ngaphambili, ukukwazi ukutshintsha uhlobo ubomi apho. Noko ke, asingabo bonke manzi baya kuvumelana ukuba sibabandeza wena of "iziyolo" ezingaqondakaliyo.