Ukwahlukanisa ngohlobo lweThabriller

Ngoku kutshanje nje ngehlobo lasehlobo, ibali malunga nokuqhawula umqeshi waseKazan, uMejashkin kunye nomfazi wakhe uqhube umqhubi. Umtshato okhankanywe ngasentla ube ngowomnye wamakhulu phakathi kwabanye, ukuba kungenjalo kwizinto ezimbini. I-Mezhashkin yokuqala ngethuba lakwazi ukubizwa ngokuba yiKazan, kunye neRashiya yonke imveliso yobuqhetseba be-Akustov kunye neefisi zosuku olunye. Okwesibini - emva kokuhamba komfazi wakhe, uMejashkin udluliselwe kuye ingenakunokwenzeka yokubandezela, engazange akwazi ukuyiqonda nabadlali bakhe. Abakhuphiswano, ngaphandle kwengcamango emide, bafake isigwebo, emva kokuvavanywa kwexesha elide, u-Mezhashkin kunye neengxube zakhe ezithintela imiqathango kunye nezigwebo zezigidi. Kwaye kwakubonakala sengathi umlingane wangaphambili wayengenakukhuseleka phambi kobuso bendoda yakhe enobudlova, kwaye usindiso oluphela kuphela kuluntu lwaluyimfuneko yemeko engathandekiyo.

Njengoko kwakunokwenzeka ukufumanisa, okwangoku iimeko zininzi zizinzile, kodwa yintoni na indlela? Fumana indoda yangaphambili yomntu oshishino nge LiveJournal kwakunzima. U-Irina Mejashkina wenqaba ukudibana, ngokubhekiselele kwishedyuli yakhe exakekile, ukuphawula ngemeko kwifowuni.

Corr: U- Irina, ubuhlobo bakho nomyeni wakho wangaphambili buya kuba njani?

IM : Akukho nhlobo. UMejshkin uye waxoxisana neentlanganiso kunye nomntwana, okwangoku ziqhubeka ziqhubeka. Enye inkundla, uMezashkin uphikisana nesigqibo esingekhoyo kwi-alimony, akafuni ukuhlawula i-alimony yonyana wakhe. Emva kwesinye seseshoni zeentlanganiso kwiintlanganiso zam emotweni, iinombolo zaqothulwa kwaye isondo sagqitywa. Yonke inxibelelwano.

Corr : Ngaba uphazamise iintlanganiso zakhe nabantwana?

I-IM : Emva kokuthetha kuka-Ilyshkin ukuba kukho i-transcendental essence kuye, ndandisoyika nje. Ngaphezu koko, ndandisoyika ukumvumela ukuba ahambe nabantwana.

Corr : Njengoko ndiyazi, unabantwana ababini?

I-IM: Kususela kwintombi endala, uMejashkin wenqaba, isigqibo senkundla sele sisebenze.

Corr.: Wamkela ngaphambi kokuba?

I-IM: Kwakungokusekwa kobodwa, ngoxa uMezhashkin wayesazi kakuhle ukuba wayengenguyise, kwaye akakwazanga ukuvela. Ngethuba lokusungulwa komntwana wam intombi yayineminyaka emine ubudala, kwaye asizange sihlangabezane noMeishkin ngaphambili. Kubonakala ukuba wayefuna ukuvelisa igama lakhe ngokukhawuleza.

Corr: Ungayichazela njani amanqaku amaninzi malunga nesiqendu sakho somtshato?

IM: Ndaqala ukuva malunga nabo. (Intetho yokuqala kunye nomfazi wam wangaphambili uMejashkin yenzeke ngeveki, nge-line, ngokuthethileyo, kwaye yayimfutshane kakhulu) Ndafunda ngentshiseko, ngokunyanisekileyo, ndingazange ndicinge ukuba ndiyinto edumile. (Kuvakala ukuba uhleka). Ngokubanzi, yonke into ibuyiswa ngokuchanekileyo, ngaphandle kwamaphuzu athile.

Corr: Ngokomzekelo?

IM: Andizange nditshatile u-Mezhashkin ngenxa yothando, kodwa ngokubala, ukuba ndithembekile. Ndiyayiqonda ukuba umdlalo uhamba ngokugqithiseleyo ngothando, kwaye ibali ngokwalo libalabala, kodwa akunjalo. U-Kashapov akazange amkhathaze, ngokuchaseneyo, umbulelo kuphela kuye umtshato wethu wahlala iminyaka emithathu, kwaye ngenxa yezihlandlo ezininzi ndibulela uOleg (Kashapova, ed.). Ngaphandle kwenkxaso yakhe, ubomi bam bentsapho buya kuba isihogo. Ngoko ke, umzuzu ngokusongela uKashapov wamangalisa kum. Ngokuphathelele impilo yengqondo okanye impilo engafanelekanga yendoda engaphambili, andizange ndibone izigqibo kwaye andinakukunika, andisona isifo sengqondo. Ukuqwalasela indlela yakhe yokuziphatha, ingxaki yengqondo ikhona, kodwa oku kucinga nje.

Corr.: Ngaba uxhasa ubudlelwane noKashapov?

IM: Hayi, ayikho. Ngexesha loqhawulo-mtshato, wayeziphatha ngendlela engcolileyo, kodwa lelinye ibali, kwaye andifuni ukuxubusha.

Corr.: Yintoni ongayithetha ngayo ngemisebenzi yobugebengu yowomyeni wokuqala? Ngaba yinyani ukuba uyazi malunga nayo ekuqaleni?

IM: Ewe, inyaniso, ndazi kwaye ndazikhusela. Ngelishwa, indoda yam yangaphambili ayizange iphulaphule icebiso lam.

Corr .: I-Kashapov?

I-IM: Ukususela ekuqaleni, wayenanto yokwenza nayo, njengam. Xa wafumanisa ngokukhwabanisa kwezixhobo (Imbali kunye ne-Moscow iqhankqalazo eqinile http://www.oldtimer.ru/oldtimernews/Nezakonnaja_realizacija_tovara_7.html?lng=en), kwakusondele ukuguqula nantoni na. Kwaye kwixesha elizayo kukho imeko ezininzi xa uKashapov ezama ukuxhathisa iMeishkin kwizenzo ezingekho mthethweni. Ukungaphumeleli, ngokwenene.

Corr.: Ngoku? Ukuba andilunganga, wawungatshatanga nje kuMejashkin, kodwa wasebenza kunye?

IM: Asiyi kuphinda sisebenze, ngenhlanhla. Ndaqalisa ukwahlula komsebenzi ngokukhawuleza, xa ndiqala ukufumana ulwazi malunga neendlela eziqhubekayo zomyeni wangaphambili.

Corr: Ngokomzekelo?

IM: Andifuni ukuxoxa ngoku ngoku. Abantu abanomdla baya kufumana kwinethiwekhi kwaye abanakho ulwazi olwaneleyo kwesi sihloko. Ngoku ndinomsebenzi wam, andihambelani nomyeni wam wangaphambili, ubomi bam, akubuhlungu kwaye kuhlazisa ukuba ndikhumbule ukuba ndidibana noMezhashkin. Ngaphezu koko, andifuni ukunyanzela ubomi bam, ukwenza uluntu naziphi na iinyani ukuba empeleni azizange ziyimfihlo ixesha elide.

Corr: Ubomi bentsapho yakho, ukuba unokukubiza ngokuba, iphelile, kunokuthiwa, ngoxolo. Yintoni onokuyincoma kubafazi abajongene nezimo ezifanayo? Ngaba kukho nayiphi na into ekudibanisene namapolisa? Yaye kuphi ukujongana nayo yonke into?

IM: Okokuqala, ungathuli. Ubundlobongela basekhaya abukho "ukudlwengulwa" ngokoqobo ngokoqobo, okanye udlame lomzimba. Njengomthetho, abadlwenguli basekhaya babonakala bengabantu abazizilumko, ongeke nize nicinge nantoni na, kwaye yonke into iqala ngokuthotywa "ngokungenakungozi". Ukuthetha ngale nto akuyihlazo, kodwa kuyimfuneko, kuba ukungahlawulwanga kubangela ukuba abaqhubi baqhubele phambili, kwaye yonke into ingagqiba kakhulu. E-Kazan kukho isikhungo sokuncedisa amaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya "Fatima", incedisi ye-246 44 01, i-Russian-hotline yonxibelelwano yokulwa nobudlobongela basekhaya: iifowuni zamahhala eRashiya: 8-800-7000-600.

Ungesabi ukuhamba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba usengozini: xa uhlala usondele kumntu onjalo, uzibeka ngaphandle kwengozi ngaphaya kokuba uhamba. Nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba ukurhoxiswa kuya kubangela ukugqithiswa, njengokuba kwenzeka kwimeko yam. Kufuneka ufake isicelo samapolisa, banokukunceda, mhlawumbi, kodwa baya kulungisa isibheno. Kwixesha elizayo, oku kubalulekile. Kwimeko yam, kwakukho izicelo ezininzi kumapolisa, kubandakanywa noviwo lwezonyango. Akuyihlazo okanye iyantyantya, yinkwantya kakhulu xa ibhinqa libeka njengexhoba elingenakukhuseleka. Ukuziphatha okugqithisileyo kuyayichukumisa. Kubalulekile ukuba ungesabi ukwenza okwenyaniso, ungabi nantloni ukufuna uncedo, ngamanye amaxesha ukuthetha nje neengcali kunokubaluleka kakhulu. Kwaye, ke, cingisisa ngabantwana. Xa umntwana ekhula kwintsapho apho ukwethuka kwekhaya kukhula, ingqondo yakhe iya kugxininiswa. Inokwenzeka ukuba, uya kukhula abe ngumfanekiso kayise.

UCorr: Uthi kukho ukuhlolwa kwangaphambili - ngaba umyeni wakho wangaphambili wakubetha?

IM: Ndiyichukumisile, ndiyifaka imoto.

Corr.: Umbuzo wokugqibela: emva kwebali elifanayo ebomini bakho, ukhangele njani imbono yokutshata kwakhona?

I-IM: Ufuna ukungenza umnikelo? (Uhleka). Ukubukela kakuhle. Ukuba unethemba lokuva into enjengaleyo "Bonke abalimi beebhokhwe, kunye nomyeni wangaphambili", ngoko awuyi kuva. Umyeni wam wangaphambili akavuyi, kungekhona umntu ophilileyo, onokumnceda. Andiyithandi ukuxubusha ngobomi bomntu ngokubanzi, oku akusiyo isihloko esifanelekileyo kwiimpapasho ze-intanethi. Okhethiweyo wam, ngokungafani nomyeni wam wangaphambili, akayena mntu woluntu. Ngoko ke, ndiza kuthetha oku: Ndiyayithwala ingcambu eminwe yesandla sam sokunene, asikaxubusha ngokubhalisa ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwane.

Ngaloo nto u-Irina uthe, uya kundishiya ngefowuni, kunye nenqwaba yeziprintshi ezivela kwi-Intanethi, ngaphezu kwengxenye apho andingayi kubuza imibuzo. Nangona imifanekiso endiyifumeneyo ngenxa yoko ndafunda ayitshintshanga kakhulu emva kwengxoxo.

Ibhizinisi laseRussia njengoko lingangenza ndibe nethemba kwaye ndinqwenela ukuthatha inxaxheba kulo nto ingabangeli, kwaye ukunyamezela kwabasetyhini kunokwenzelwa kuphela. Ndingathanda kuphela ukuba uchungechunge olulandelayo kwichungechunge elinesihloko esithi "Ubomi" ngu-Irina wadlula ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kwendoda yakhe yangaphambili, kwaye ngohlobo aluyi kuba yinto evuyisayo, kodwa, masithi, uthando lomculo okanye i-melodrama enomxholo ovuyisayo.

Jabule kwaye uyathandwa.