Yintoni ukuqhubeka kwezizukulwana?

Kuthetha ntoni igama elithi "ukulandelana"? Le ngqamaniso ebalulekileyo phakathi kwexesha elidlulileyo, langoku kunye nekamva, xa iziganeko zangaphambili zigcinwa kwaye zidluliselwa kulo mnikelo. Ngoncedo lokuqhubela phambili kwintsapho ukuya kwintsapho, izithethe zentsapho, idlulileyo, iinkonzo zentlalo zidluliselwa.

Yintoni ukuqhubeka kwezizukulwana?

ILifa leLifa leMveli lihlanganiswa phakathi kwenzalo. Isilinganisi esihle kakhulu saziswa ngu- Vladimir Yakovlev ososayensi , ohambelana nezizukulwana namaza olwandle. Wathi xa sithelekisa imbali kunye nolwandle lwehlabathi, kunye nomntu ngamnye onomdaka weli lolwandle, ngoko izizukulwana kweli lixa ziya kuba ngamaza alwandle. Bakhawuleza, bexhamazana, bakhuphukela phezulu, baze bawa phantsi ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye ngoko ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ngoko ebomini. Isizukulwana esinye sithatha indawo enye, kodwa ngokuchanekileyo le "touch" yinkqantosi inceda ukudlulisela ixabiso elibalulekileyo kunye nelibalulekileyo ukusuka komntu omnye ukuya kwelinye. Ngelishwa, iinguqu zokuphuhliswa koluntu zigqithise kakhulu amathuba okulandelana.

Iyintoni ingxaki?

Ingxaki yokulandelelana kwezizukulwana ifihliweyo kwinkqubela yezobugcisa. Makhe sicinge ngomzekelo wesijeziso sabazali. Iminyaka eminci ngaphambili, umntwana wenza isenzo esibi - umcasula umntu obuthakathaka kunabo. Lapha ufumana isohlwayo esinzima kubazali bakhe. Ngekamva, uya kuqonda ukuba uye wenza kakubi, ngoko awukwazi ukukwenza. Ngoku ngokuza kwezinto eziphathekayo, iipilisi kunye neefowuni, abantwana banamathela ngokukhawuleza yonke inkcazelo eyenziwa yi-intanethi.

Ngelishwa, into eninzi ebonwa ngumntwana kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezizahlulo eziqhubekayo. Ingqondo ibeka ulwazi abalubonayo amehlo, kodwa ukucacisa ukuba kubi kangakanani, akukho mntu. Yaye xa umntwana enza into embi, yintoni imbonakalo ye-intanethi eyamfundisa, akakwazi ukukhawuleza ukuba uyintoni na. Emva koko, wakubona, ngoko unako. Omnye umzekelo ocacileyo ulwalathiso lwenkcubeko, njenge-subculture. Apha, ngamanye amaxesha ukuxelisa abantu abangaboniyo kuyabonakala ngokucacileyo ngento ephakanyisiwe kwizinga leendlela ezidumile. Ngesibili isibini uGoth ngeke akwazi ukuchaza isizathu sokuba egqoke njengaye kwaye kutheni enithanda le mibala, into ephambili kukulandela abahlobo bakhe.

Yintoni eyenzekayo namhlanje?

Ukuba siqwalasela le ngxaki ngokubanzi, sinokukwazi ukulandelela amanqaku alandelayo. Isantya seenguqu ezibalulekileyo zentlalo kwindawo efanelekileyo kufuneka ihambisane nesantya sokutshintsha kwezizukulwana. Njengoko imbali ibonisa, utshintsho olukhulu kuluntu luba khona malunga nexesha lezizukulwana ezintathu - abantwana-oyise-oomkhulu. Ngamanye amazwi, utshintsho lwezentlalo kunye nezinye izithethe zenziwa phakathi kwezizukulwana ezintathu ezisondeleyo-ezivela kumakhulu omkhulu ukuya kubazukulu.

Ngokukodwa, kwinqanaba lokuqala, le ngcamango iyazalwa, kwisigaba sesibini isizukulwana sihlaziywa kwaye kwinqanaba lesithathu kuphela ukwamukelwa kweembono ezintsha. Enyanisweni, ngeli xesha ixesha elikhulu litshintshile, kodwa kungekhona ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba izizukulwana ezitsha zazingenakho ukuzivumelanisa. Ukulungelelaniswa okuphumelelayo kubeka bucala iingxabano ezibangelwa ukungaqondi kakuhle. Imizekelo yale nto ingaba nenani elingapheliyo - ukusweleka kwenkcubeko kwiibhasi, xa abantu abatsha benza ukukhanyeka ukuba bangaboni umntu osekhulile emi ngasecaleni lokungabi namanyala - xa, ekuphenduleni, umdala oneminyaka ubudala unokuva ilizwi elihlambalazayo kumntu omncinane.

Ubudlelwane baseSoviet-Russian

Ukuqhubeka kwesizukulwana akusiyo kuphela isithuba sohlobo oluthile. Unokuqwalasela umzekelo obanzi - abantu base-Soviet raised (USSR) - i-CIS - kunye nexesha langoku (iRashiya).

Ukuphuhliswa kwentuthuko yezobugcisa namhlanje kuqhubela phambili ngezinga elimangalisayo, ubuchwepheshe obutsha buqaliswa, okwenzeki ukuba abantu bamaSoviet bahlale behlala. Ngoobani abasemhlala-phantsi namhlanje banayo ikhompyutheni ubuncinane ngendlela abafundi beziko leprayimari? Kuthekani malunga nobudala beRussia! I-Nanotechnology ikwandisa ukudala ubuchule obutsha obulula nokulula ubomi bemihlali. Nangona kunjalo, kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba kukulandelana kwezizukulwana ezibonelela iziseko zokuziphatha zabantu banamhlanje. Kodwa ukusabela rhoqo rhoqo kumazwi asebekhulile unobundlobongela, ozalwe ngumntu ongenanto yokuqonda. Ephakanyiswe ngomoya wabemi abakhululekileyo, abantu abatsha banethemba lokuba bayazi yonke into, kwaye nangona kunjalo kwimeko enjani kunye nendlela abafanele bayenze ngayo. Ngako oko, nayiphi na ingxelo evela kubadala ithathwa njengenkqubo yokufundisa enzima. Kwaye emva kwexesha elide, kwaye kungekhona kuzo zonke iimeko, kuza ukuqonda ukuba ufuna kuphela into enhle kwaye enye into ingatshintshiswa ukuba ibe ngcono.

Abazali kwindawo yokuqala

Iingcali zezifundo ezahlukahlukeneyo zenzululwazi zenze uphando phakathi kwesizukulwana esincinane - ukuba ukusuka kumava kubadala kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abatsha. Impendulo yesininzi yile: ukuqhubeka-ukuxhamla kwezizukulwana, ngoko ke into eyintloko kukuba uthando kubazali nakwiintsapho.

Kwindawo yesibini yinkqubela kunye nokukhuseleka kwezinto eziphathekayo. Kwaye ngokuqhubekayo - ekunciphiseni: ukuthanda, ukunyaniseka, ukuphumelela impumelelo, uxanduva, imfundo, ukukhuthaza, ukuhlonipha, ububele, ukuzimela, uxolo, ukuthanda izwe. Ekugqibeleni, umphumo wawulungile. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthanda ubuzwe, ngokubonga abantu abaselula abahlala kwilizwe elikhululekile (intetho malunga neMfazwe ePhambili yePatriotic), bafumana indawo yokugqibela phakathi kwezinto eziphambili. Kodwa ukuchuma kunye nomnqweno wokufumana ngaphezulu - okwesibini, emva kwentsapho. Iimpawu zenkcubeko nazo zachaphazelekayo , okungekho mntu uthetha nantoni na.

Izigqibo

Njengoko loluphando luboniswe, ukuqhubeka phakathi kwezizukulwana zeSoviet neRussia kwakunobuthathaka. Ukuhlonela inkcubeko yabantu bethu, kwimbali, uthando kuMlandia - konke oku kude kakhulu kulutsha olutsha. Namhlanje kukho intshumayelo esebenzayo yokuphila kwamahhala, ephefumlelwe ngamajelo kwimimandla yabemi bezinye izizwe.

Sekudlulileyo namhlanje sinokubona ngokucacileyo ukuba ukuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha kubantu abancinci belizwe lethu bakude kwaye banengqondo engafanelekanga. Asikwazi ukuthetha ngomntu wonke, kodwa izizukulwana ezininzi zabantwana, kwaye ngoku abatsha, baye bahoxisa ukulandelana kwezizukulwana, benze ukhetho ngendlela yabo, bathembela kwamanye amazwe, kungekhona ixabiso lenkcubeko. Esi sikhundla senza iisiseko esitsha esithile esipheleleyo, ekugqibeleni singakhokelela ekuphuculeni ukunyaniseka kwelizwe lethu.

Iingxaki zolutsha lolutsha

Ngokomnye uphando lwehlabathi jikelele ngemiba ecinezelayo, imeko namhlanje ibonakala ngathi. Uninzi lwabonke, ulutsha lwanamhlanje luxhala malunga nokunyuka kwamaxabiso kunye nokunyuka kwamanani, kulandelwa ukungabikho kwezimo eziqhelekileyo zokufumana imfundo kunye nokunakekelwa kwezonyango. Inxalenye enkulu ibonise inkxaso ngenkqubela ukuba ubugebengu buyinkinga enzima kweli lizwe, kwaye phantse inani elifanayo labantu babelana ngombono wokuthi ugubungela luhambisana nayo. Omnye ukhumbule ukuba abantu abaselula abanalo ingcamango yabo yesizwe, kwaye ngenxa yokuba izidakamizwa ezinobungozi kwimpilo yesizukulwana esincinane, kukho ukuhla kwehla ngokukhawuleza kubemi. Umgca ohlukileyo wanikezelwa ukunyamezelana kwezenkolo, ukungabi nako ngokomoya nokuphuhliswa kwehlazo. Isisombululo esiphezulu kule ngxaki kukuba inxalenye encinci yabantu abatsha baqaphela ukuqhubeka kwezizukulwana.

Kubaluleke ngakumbi

Ukususela kwiziphumo zophando apha ngasentla, umntu unokufumana isigqibo esidibayo - iingxaki zomntu othile ziphezulu kunokuba zifunyenwe. Abantu abaselula abanomdla ekubunjweni kwesizwe esiyingqayizivele esizimela ngokuzimeleyo iingxaki zayo. Apha sibona ukulahleka okucacileyo kwezi zixabiso ezifanele ukubonisa ukuqhubeka kwezizukulwana. Nangona ungeke utsho oku kwinqanaba. Ukujonga abafundi besikolo esiphakathi kunye nabaphakamileyo, singathetha ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba bawagxotha loo manqaku enkcubeko nakwimveli yenkcubeko engazange ikwazi ukuhambisa izizukulwana zangaphambili. Uninzi oluthe gqithwayo lufana neziganeko ezinjengama-flash mobs, iimpawu ezenziwa ixesha leeholide, umvuzo kwiMfazwe Enkulu kunye nabo banokwaluvuyela namhlanje ngokuNqoba.

Ekugqibeleni

Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukukukhumbuza kwakhona: ukuqhubeka kwezizukulwana ngumgca ongenakuqothulwa, yiyokhonkco ekufuneka igcinwe. Simele sikwazi ukugcina oko kwabekwa ookhokho bethu, ukwenzela ukuba kunye neenkqubo zobugcisa, imfundo yokuziphatha yabantu bethu nayo iya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Ukuqhubela phambili kwesizukulwana luhlobo lwentambo, kunye nokuhla kwayo, kodwa, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kunye nale nto ilandelayo.

Kwakhona kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukuba abantu abahlala kwelinye ilizwe banemibono eyahlukileyo, kuya kubonakala ngathi imidwebo entlabathi inokuhlanjululwa ngokulula ngamaza asebenzayo. Ngaphandle kwengcamango ephambili, nayiphi iinguqu zentlalo, ezopolitiko kunye nezoqoqosho ziya kuba zingenasiphelo ngokupheleleyo. Kuhlala kukho umntu olungileyo, kodwa kukho omnye umntu-ogulayo.