Abantwana kukukhuthazwa kubomi kubazali. Ukubonakala komntwana kwintsapho ngumoya omtsha wesibini esitshatileyo. Ukususela ngosuku lokuqala lobomi bomntwana, abazali bahlala bemlindile, bebukele ukuphuhlisa kwakhe. Ukukwazi ukuthetha kunye nelizwe langaphandle yinto yokuqala umntwana ayenayo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, lamakhono akwandisa, kwaye ngoku inkwenkwe ihamba isuka ekuxoxaneni nonina ukuthetha noontanga. Oku kubonakaliswe ngokucacileyo nangona usana, xa umntwana esondela ngokuqinisekileyo kubantwana abadlulayo kwi-stroller. Kuthekani ukuba umntwana uyamoyika yonke into? Ingakumbi, ukhetha ukuba yedwa, akafuni ukuthetha nabantu abadala okanye ontanga? Ngaba oku kuqhelekileyo, kwaye oku akuyena umqondiso we-autism?
Masiyeke ukwesaba
I-Autism yinkqubo engqongqo yengqondo yengqondo. Ukuchaza ukuba yinto elula - inqanawa igwema ukuthintela, inobunzima bezakhono zezithuthi, ayinakho ukukwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimela. Ngamanye amazwi, ufanele uqaphele okokuqala ukuba umntwana uyamoyika abantu, kwaye konke kuqala nomama - umntwana uqhubezela aze aphendukele ngokusondeza kuqala. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba akukho ziphumo zokuziphatha-iingxaki ngeentetho, ukunyaniseka ngezenzo ezithile-ngoko uloyiko lwakho aluyikho.
Ukoyika abantwana
Ngokutsho kweengqondo zezingane, umntwana ngamnye unemvelo yokulondoloza, eqinisekisiwe ngamava ofuzo kunye namava athobileyo (ukutsha komlilo, ukuwa - kuphazamisa). Njengomthetho, ukwesaba into ethile kumntwana iyalala phakathi kweeveki ezimbalwa - uyasetyenziselwa ingcamango, ufunda ukulawula loloyiko. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana ulungiswa ngoloyiko oluthile, ke le ngxaki enokuthi iphile ubomi. Ukuba umntwana oyika abantwana ekuhambeni kwawo kokuqala, isifundo sokuqala esikolweni siqhelekileyo. Ukuba le nto iba yingxaki ixesha elide - uqaphela ukuba inkwenkwe ihlola oontanga bakhe esikolweni, ikhetha ukudlala yedwa kwintsimi okanye kwi-sandbox - ke le ngxaki kufuneka ixazululwe. Uhlobo loloyiko-olunezonyango okanye olusisiseko-lunokumiselwa zizibonakaliso. Ngoko, xa umntwana esaba abantwana kwaye ngexa elifanayo unenkathazo yokuthetha (ukubetha), ngokulala, okanye waqala ukuvuthwa embhedeni (i-enuresis) - le nto isele ingxaki yokujongana nayo.
Sijamelene nale ngxaki
Iimpawu ezine zokusombulula imeko: uthando, intetho, ukudweba, uvelwano. Okokuqala, umzali wengane yintsimi yakhe, umntu wakhe. Ngoko ke, ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana uyamoyikisa abantwana, mxolela. Ingaboniswa kwingxoxo - kuyimfuneko ukumbuza ngokucacileyo ukuba kutheni uloyiko. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukwenza oko - ngokukhawuleza uloyiko luya kuchithachitha. Ungakulibali ukuba inyana ikulindele ukunyaniseka kuwe-yabelane naye ngamava akhe, ndixelele indlela oyenze ngayo kwiimeko ezinjalo. Unokugxila ekudwebeni - abantwana beengqondo zexesha elide bachaze umfanekiso njengoko kubonakalisa amava abantwana. Kwaye, ke, konke oku kufuneka kuhambisane neentlanzi zentsimbi - ukubetha, ukumanga, ukuthetha ngokuzithoba nangokuthobeka. Esi sitratweni kuninzi ukuxelela umntwana malunga nabanye abantwana, bathethe ngeenzuzo zokuthetha nabo. Emva kwexesha uya kubona ukuba umntwana uyaba nobuncinci kubantwana, kwaye ngenyanga leyo uloyiko luya kupheleka.